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The Biggest Myths About Dating (debunked) - Psychology Roundtable - #1133

In this evolutionary psychology roundtable, we explore: - If 20% of the men actually get 80% of the attention. - The biggest red and green flags to look out for in the dating pool. - Why women's sexual desire fades faster than men's. - and much more… Guests: - Macken Murphy is an evolutionary biologist at the University of Melbourne, a writer and a podcaster. - Steve Stewart-Williams is an evolutionary psychologist, a professor, and an author. - Rob Henderson holds a PhD in psychology from the University of Cambridge and is a Senior Fellow at the Manhattan Institute. Sponsors: 24 hrs left to secure MW Merch. Shop now at https://mwmerch.com [https://mwmerch.com] See discounts for all the products I use and recommend: ⁠https://chriswillx.com/deals⁠ [https://chriswillx.com/deals] Get a free bottle of D3K2, an AG1 Welcome Kit, and more when you first subscribe at https://ag1.info/modernwisdom [https://ag1.info/modernwisdom] Get 35% off your first subscription on the best supplements from Momentous at https://livemomentous.com/modernwisdom [https://livemomentous.com/modernwisdom] Get up to $350 off the Eight Sleep Pod 5 at https://eightsleep.com/modernwisdom [https://eightsleep.com/modernwisdom] Get a Free Sample Pack of LMNT’s most popular flavours with your first purchase at https://drinklmnt.com/modernwisdom [https://drinklmnt.com/modernwisdom] Get ChatGPT to explore ideas, solve problems, and learn faster at ⁠https://chatgpt.com [https://⁠https://chatgpt.com] Timestamps: (0:00) Is This the Most Attractive Dance Move? (3:14) Does Looksmaxxing Give Women the Ick? (13:07) Why Do We Get the Ick? (16:52) Are Chads Stealing All the Women? (25:23) Is Marriage Affirmative Action for Men? (31:00) Are Humans Meant to Be Serial Monogamists? (34:52) How Rich Women Change Men’s Resourcefulness (44:18) Abundance vs Scarcity: What’s More Attractive? (55:34) Do High-Earning Women Have Higher Standards? (01:05:03) Can Surveys Accurately Measure Sex Differences? (01:10:36) Are Dating App Users Worse Partners? (01:16:53) What Matters More: Height or Looks? (01:20:46) Why Male Beautification Is Exploding (01:31:27) Do Women Prefer Formidable Men? (01:35:22) The Rise of Female Teacher Sex Scandals (01:42:56) Is Being Desired What Women Want Most? (01:47:32) The Dangers of Minimising Sex Differences (01:50:46) The Latest Evidence on Mate Switching (01:52:20) Why Marriage Kills Women’s Sex Drive (01:56:40) How Do We Determine Human Nature? (02:03:34) What Do Lesbians Find Attractive? (02:05:57) Where to Find the Guys Extra Stuff: Get my free reading list of 100 books to read before you die: ⁠https://chriswillx.com/books⁠ [https://chriswillx.com/books] Try my productivity energy drink Neutonic: ⁠https://neutonic.com/modernwisdom⁠ [https://neutonic.com/modernwisdom] Episodes You Might Enjoy: #577 - David Goggins - This Is How To Master Your Life: ⁠lnkfi.re/SN-Goggins⁠ [https://lnkfi.re/SN-Goggins] #712 - Dr Jordan Peterson - How To Destroy Your Negative Beliefs: ⁠lnkfi.re/SN-Peterson⁠ [https://lnkfi.re/SN-Peterson] #700 - Dr Andrew Huberman - The Secret Tools To Hack Your Brain: ⁠lnkfi.re/SN-Huberman⁠ [https://lnkfi.re/SN-Huberman] - Get In Touch: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/chriswillx⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/chriswillx] Twitter: ⁠https://www.twitter.com/chriswillx⁠ [https://www.twitter.com/chriswillx] YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/modernwisdompodcast⁠ [https://www.youtube.com/modernwisdompodcast] Email: ⁠https://chriswillx.com/contact⁠ [https://chriswillx.com/contact] - Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices [https://megaphone.fm/adchoices]

Who You Meet Down America’s Forgotten Backroads - Peter Santenello - #1132

Peter Santenello is an independent journalist, YouTuber, & author. Who are the forgotten people of rural America? The country’s political and moral divisions may stem not only from disagreement, but from distance, countless communities and subcultures living entirely separate lives, with little understanding of one another. So what is life really like in these overlooked towns, who still calls them home, and do they represent a version of the “real America” the rest of the country has forgotten? Expect to learn what Peter learned about America from traveling to 85 different countries, what’s actually going on in rural America nobody really sees or has forgotten about, what’s actually going on in the drug crisis in America, Peter’s biggest lessons from the Amish, the most misunderstood community in America and much more… Sponsors: MW Merch is now live - for 6 days only! Shop now at https://mwmerch.com [https://mwmerch.com] See discounts for all the products I use and recommend: ⁠https://chriswillx.com/deals⁠ [https://chriswillx.com/deals] Get 35% off your first subscription on the best supplements from Momentous at https://livemomentous.com/modernwisdom [https://livemomentous.com/modernwisdom] Get up to 20% off Timeline’s leading longevity and cellular health supplement at https://timeline.com/modernwisdom [https://timeline.com/modernwisdom] Get a Free Sample Pack of LMNT’s most popular flavours with your first purchase at https://drinklmnt.com/modernwisdom [https://drinklmnt.com/modernwisdom] Get 15% off your first order of my favourite Non-Alcoholic Brew at https://athleticbrewing.com/modernwisdom [https://athleticbrewing.com/modernwisdom] Get ChatGPT to explore ideas, solve problems, and learn faster at ⁠https://chatgpt.com [https://⁠https://chatgpt.com] Extra Stuff: Check out Peter's book: https://tinyurl.com/4bnxpjpz [https://tinyurl.com/4bnxpjpz] Peter's YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/petersantenello [https://www.youtube.com/petersantenello] Peter's Website: https://petersantenello.com/ [https://petersantenello.com/] Get my free reading list of 100 books to read before you die: ⁠https://chriswillx.com/books⁠ [https://chriswillx.com/books] Try my productivity energy drink Neutonic: ⁠https://neutonic.com/modernwisdom⁠ [https://neutonic.com/modernwisdom] Episodes You Might Enjoy: #577 - David Goggins - This Is How To Master Your Life: ⁠lnkfi.re/SN-Goggins⁠ [https://lnkfi.re/SN-Goggins] #712 - Dr Jordan Peterson - How To Destroy Your Negative Beliefs: ⁠lnkfi.re/SN-Peterson⁠ [https://lnkfi.re/SN-Peterson] #700 - Dr Andrew Huberman - The Secret Tools To Hack Your Brain: ⁠lnkfi.re/SN-Huberman⁠ [https://lnkfi.re/SN-Huberman] - Get In Touch: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/chriswillx⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/chriswillx] Twitter: ⁠https://www.twitter.com/chriswillx⁠ [https://www.twitter.com/chriswillx] YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/modernwisdompodcast⁠ [https://www.youtube.com/modernwisdompodcast] Email: ⁠https://chriswillx.com/contact⁠ [https://chriswillx.com/contact] - Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices [https://megaphone.fm/adchoices]

Ex-Military Hacker: The Secret World Of Government Surveillance - Bill Thompson - #1131

Bill Thompson is a retired U.S. Army Chief Warrant Officer and a former military intelligence specialist. Is your private life actually private? As AI rapidly outpaces our privacy protections, everything from your personal data to your deepest vulnerabilities is becoming easier to exploit. So what can be hacked, how exposed are you, and is even your mind still safe? Expect to learn what the government can and can’t actually see of yours, why companies actually try to hack their own systems, how AI is supercharging espionage in various nation states, who the most surveyed people in the world are, if there is any hope for real privacy in the age of AI and much more… Sponsors: MW Merch is now live - for 6 days only! Shop now at https://mwmerch.com [https://mwmerch.com/] See discounts for all the products I use and recommend: ⁠https://chriswillx.com/deals⁠ [https://chriswillx.com/deals] Get 160+ lab tests for just $365 and save an extra $25 at https://functionhealth.com/modernwisdom [https://functionhealth.com/modernwisdom] Get up to $350 off the Eight Sleep Pod 5 at https://eightsleep.com/modernwisdom [https://eightsleep.com/modernwisdom] Get the brand new Whoop 5.0 and your first month for free at https://join.whoop.com/modernwisdom [https://join.whoop.com/modernwisdom] Get up to $50 off the RP Hypertrophy App at https://rpstrength.com/modernwisdom [https://rpstrength.com/modernwisdom] Get ChatGPT to explore ideas, solve problems, and learn faster at ⁠https://chatgpt.com [https://⁠https://chatgpt.com] Timestamps: (00:00) Why Bill Doesn’t Trust Apple (03:35) How Is Information Collected and Distributed? (09:13) Can Humans Keep Up With Technology? (11:21) Why Companies Hack Their Own Systems (17:05) The Biggest Exploitation Hack (20:48) Why Threats Are Constantly Changing (25:17) Is DOGE Really a Mess? (32:03) How AI Is Supercharging Hacking (36:58) Do Intelligence Operators Know You Better Than You Do? (47:15) Who Is the Most Surveilled Person in the World? (54:39) Is the Bad Outgrowing the Good? (01:03:59) How Bill Built Spartan Forge (01:13:16) Where to Find Bill Extra Stuff: Get my free reading list of 100 books to read before you die: ⁠https://chriswillx.com/books⁠ [https://chriswillx.com/books] Try my productivity energy drink Neutonic: ⁠https://neutonic.com/modernwisdom⁠ [https://neutonic.com/modernwisdom] Episodes You Might Enjoy: #577 - David Goggins - This Is How To Master Your Life: ⁠lnkfi.re/SN-Goggins⁠ [https://lnkfi.re/SN-Goggins] #712 - Dr Jordan Peterson - How To Destroy Your Negative Beliefs: ⁠lnkfi.re/SN-Peterson⁠ [https://lnkfi.re/SN-Peterson] #700 - Dr Andrew Huberman - The Secret Tools To Hack Your Brain: ⁠lnkfi.re/SN-Huberman⁠ [https://lnkfi.re/SN-Huberman] - Get In Touch: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/chriswillx⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/chriswillx] Twitter: ⁠https://www.twitter.com/chriswillx⁠ [https://www.twitter.com/chriswillx] YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/modernwisdompodcast⁠ [https://www.youtube.com/modernwisdompodcast] Email: ⁠https://chriswillx.com/contact⁠ [https://chriswillx.com/contact] - Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices [https://megaphone.fm/adchoices]

Proof That The Lonely Chapter Works - Jett Franzen - #1130

Jett Franzen is a writer and YouTuber. What holds people back? Is it their mindset, environment, or circumstances? One overlooked factor is the ability to be alone. Solitude can build clarity and resilience, but too much can be destructive. So when is being alone a superpower, and when does it become dangerous? Expect to learn the pitfalls of taking too much medication, why being lonely and/or isolated for a period of time is a superpower, why the most dangerous are ambitious but lazy people, the mentality that is keeping people stuck in a terrible mindset, how to escape the hedonic treadmill, why the incel community came after Jett and much more… Sponsors: Modern Wisdom Merch available this Friday: https://mwmerch.com [https://mwmerch.com/new] See discounts for all the products I use and recommend: ⁠https://chriswillx.com/deals⁠ [https://chriswillx.com/deals] Get the brand new Whoop 5.0 and your first month for free at https://join.whoop.com/modernwisdom [https://join.whoop.com/modernwisdom] Get 10% discount on all Gymshark products at https://gym.sh/modernwisdom [https://gym.sh/modernwisdom] (use code MODERNWISDOM10) Get up to 20% off Timeline powered by Mitopure (now at a lower price) at https://timeline.com/modernwisdom [https://timeline.com/modernwisdom] Get a Free Sample Pack of LMNT’s most popular flavours with your first purchase at https://drinklmnt.com/modernwisdom [https://drinklmnt.com/modernwisdom] Get ChatGPT to explore ideas, solve problems, and learn faster at ⁠https://chatgpt.com [https://⁠https://chatgpt.com] Timestamps: (00:00) Why You Need to Confront Your Shadows (10:09) Make It Until You Believe It (22:19) Why Success Demands Real Work (34:36) Can Anyone Go From Nothing to Something? (39:19) Don’t Let Empathy Hold You Back (52:39) Are We Addicted to the Next Win? (56:31) Progress vs Position: What Matters More? (01:08:59) Why Happiness Comes From Acceptance (01:14:05) Escaping the Victim Mindset (01:19:54) Protect What Makes You Unique (01:29:40) How to Use Ego as a Strength (01:36:57) Don’t Let the Fear of Having Self-Belief Hold You Back (01:51:31) Does True Authenticity Really Exist? (01:58:00) Where to Find Jett Extra Stuff: Get my free reading list of 100 books to read before you die: ⁠https://chriswillx.com/books⁠ [https://chriswillx.com/books] Try my productivity energy drink Neutonic: ⁠https://neutonic.com/modernwisdom⁠ [https://neutonic.com/modernwisdom] Episodes You Might Enjoy: #577 - David Goggins - This Is How To Master Your Life: ⁠lnkfi.re/SN-Goggins⁠ [https://lnkfi.re/SN-Goggins] #712 - Dr Jordan Peterson - How To Destroy Your Negative Beliefs: ⁠lnkfi.re/SN-Peterson⁠ [https://lnkfi.re/SN-Peterson] #700 - Dr Andrew Huberman - The Secret Tools To Hack Your Brain: ⁠lnkfi.re/SN-Huberman⁠ [https://lnkfi.re/SN-Huberman] - Get In Touch: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/chriswillx⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/chriswillx] Twitter: ⁠https://www.twitter.com/chriswillx⁠ [https://www.twitter.com/chriswillx] YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/modernwisdompodcast⁠ [https://www.youtube.com/modernwisdompodcast] Email: ⁠https://chriswillx.com/contact⁠ [https://chriswillx.com/contact] - Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices [https://megaphone.fm/adchoices]

The Painful Psychological Cost Of Becoming A Dad - Darby Saxbe - #1129

Dr Darby Saxbe is a clinical psychologist, professor at USC, and author. Do dads get postpartum depression? Mothers face enormous physical and emotional changes after childbirth, but fathers can struggle too, often in silence. So what happens to men when they become dads, why does it affect some so deeply, and how can they adapt to a new life that nature has thrust upon them? Expect to learn what actually happens to dads after moms give birth, the physiological changes that happen to dads after birth, which behaviors create the effect known as “dad brain”, the biggest upsides and downsides of fatherhood for men, why postpartum depression in fathers goes unrecognized, the worst advice dads get, and much more… Sponsors: Modern Wisdom Merch available this Friday: https://mwmerch.com/ [https://mwmerch.com/] See discounts for all the products I use and recommend: ⁠https://chriswillx.com/deals⁠ [https://chriswillx.com/deals] Get 160+ lab tests for just $365 and save an extra $25 at ⁠https://functionhealth.com/modernwisdom⁠ [https://functionhealth.com/modernwisdom] Get a Free Sample Pack of LMNT’s most popular flavours with your first purchase at ⁠https://drinklmnt.com/modernwisdom⁠ [https://drinklmnt.com/modernwisdom] Sign up for a one-dollar-per-month trial period from Shopify at ⁠https://shopify.com/modernwisdom⁠ [https://shopify.com/modernwisdom] Get 35% off your first subscription on the best supplements from Momentous at ⁠https://livemomentous.com/modernwisdom⁠ [https://livemomentous.com/modernwisdom] Get ChatGPT to explore ideas, solve problems, and learn faster at ⁠⁠https://chatgpt.com [https://⁠https://chatgpt.com] Timestamps: (0:19) What is Dad Brain? (2:18) How Fatherhood Has Changed Over Time (8:18) What Happens to Men During Pregnancy? (12:57) Should Fathers Be in the Delivery Room? (13:47) Are Sympathetic Pregnancies Real? (15:17) What Couples Should Focus on During Pregnancy (17:56) The Real Cause of Dad Brain (24:18) The Top Behaviours That Trigger Dad Brain (31:31) Biology or Choice: What Makes a “Hands-On” Dad? (33:48) The Truth Behind the Deadbeat Dad Narrative (36:44) Can Fathers Bond at Any Age? (38:50) How Fatherhood Changes Male Hormones (46:44) Why Becoming a Father Is the Ultimate Masculine Role (50:25) Does Dad Brain Get Worse With More Kids? (53:19) How Daughters Change Fathers (1:00:48) Does Housework Ruin Cortisol Recovery? (1:03:43) Do Dads Experience Postpartum Depression? (1:15:29) Why Postpartum Depression Happens in Women (1:18:55) How to Support a Partner Through Postpartum Depression (1:31:09) The Worst Advice New Dads Hear Extra Stuff: Get my free reading list of 100 books to read before you die: ⁠https://chriswillx.com/books⁠ [https://chriswillx.com/books] Try my productivity energy drink Neutonic: ⁠https://neutonic.com/modernwisdom⁠ [https://neutonic.com/modernwisdom] Episodes You Might Enjoy: #577 - David Goggins - This Is How To Master Your Life: ⁠lnkfi.re/SN-Goggins⁠ [https://lnkfi.re/SN-Goggins] #712 - Dr Jordan Peterson - How To Destroy Your Negative Beliefs: ⁠lnkfi.re/SN-Peterson⁠ [https://lnkfi.re/SN-Peterson] #700 - Dr Andrew Huberman - The Secret Tools To Hack Your Brain: ⁠lnkfi.re/SN-Huberman⁠ [https://lnkfi.re/SN-Huberman] - Get In Touch: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/chriswillx⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/chriswillx] Twitter: ⁠https://www.twitter.com/chriswillx⁠ [https://www.twitter.com/chriswillx] YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/modernwisdompodcast⁠ [https://www.youtube.com/modernwisdompodcast] Email: ⁠https://chriswillx.com/contact⁠ [https://chriswillx.com/contact] - Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices [https://megaphone.fm/adchoices]