On Our Terms with Ismatou Bah

Mummy...don't talk about my body ft. Aissatou Balde (@talesandturbans)

Be Brave! What's on your mind? [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2352030/fan_mail/new] Ismatou sits down with content creator Aissatou Baldé, mom of three, full-time worker, and one of the most visible Fulani women on the internet, for a conversation about bodies, beauty, and the things our community refuses to say out loud. We get into being hyper-visible as a Muslim woman, then dig into the hard stuff: the body shaming Fulani and Guinean communities have gotten away with for too long, the West African beauty standard and its colonial roots, the BBL-ification of our traditional wear, and our contradictory relationship with food, where "finish your plate" and "you're getting big" live in the same house. Follow us on all socials @onourtermspod and your host Ismatou Bah @uotamsi on IG. Don’t forget to follow our guest @talesandturbans on all platforms.  Daddies and Daughters available for purchase right here: https://www.amazon.com/Daddies-Daughters-Stick-Together-Book/dp/1954854528.

Mummy...Imma do what I want, whether you like it or not ft. Aminatou | Part 2

Be Brave! What's on your mind? [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2352030/fan_mail/new] Tune into Part 2 with Aminatou (@aminathree). Blossoming sibling dynamics, building a (non-traditional) content career as West African woman with no traditional industry backing, and more funny chit-chat. We kept it cute for Part 1, and all I can say is...we tried for Part 2.

Mummy...Imma do what I want, whether you like it or not ft. Aminatou | Part 1

Be Brave! What's on your mind? [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2352030/fan_mail/new] Aminatou (@aminathree) pulled up to OOT and….DID. NOT. HOLD. BACK. Growing up (Guinean) Fulani under one of the most conservative strains of Islam, leaving the faith, telling her parents to their faces, and still living under their roof. Then we got into her parents, the relationship with her dad, the fracture with her mom, and whether misogyny shapes which parent gets grace and which one doesn't. Part 1 of 2, and we were just getting started. Stay tuned for part 2 coming soon! Follow us on all socials @onourtermspod and your host Ismatou Bah @uotamsi on IG. Follow Aminatou @aminathree.

Mummy...LET’S TALK DATING AS BLACK MUSLIM WOMEN | Crossover Episode: AITL X OOT | Part 2

Be Brave! What's on your mind? [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2352030/fan_mail/new] PART 2!!! In today’s episode, Ismatou (On Our Terms) and Sofi (Am I Too Loud?!) sat down to finish the conversation from last week on sex, silence, shame, and everything Black Muslim women were never supposed to say out loud. In this part 2, we dive into relationships, dating and so much more.  From our first boyfriends, to halal dating and to arranged marriages? They're unpacking first crushes, living authentically, dating experiences and what it means to truly reclaim your choice as a woman.  This is the finale Part 2 of a two-part series.

Mummy…LET’S TALK ABOUT SEX AS BLACK MUSLIM WOMEN | Crossover Episode: AITL X OOT | Part 1

Be Brave! What's on your mind? [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2352030/fan_mail/new] IT’S ABOUT DAMN TIME!! In today’s episode, Ismatou (On Our Terms) and Sofi (Am I Too Loud?!) sat down for the conversation they've both been circling for years. The one about sex, silence, shame, and everything Black Muslim women were never supposed to say out loud. From the sex talk that never happened to the cultural double standards that shaped how they learned about their own bodies, this episode is raw, honest, and long overdue. They're unpacking what happens when religion gets weaponized, when silence does more damage than the thing everyone's afraid to name, and what it actually takes to start unlearning all of it. This is Part 1 of a two-part series.  Content note: This episode includes discussions of sexual assault, FGM, and trauma. Listener discretion is advised. Follow On Our Terms: @onourtermspod  Follow Am I Too Loud?!: @amitooloudpod  Follow your hosts: @uotamsi & @the_odditty