Optimal Relationships Daily - Dating, Marriage and Parenting

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com [https://oldpodcast.com/]. Episode 2733: Alyssa challenges the belief that moms must choose between caring for themselves and being present with their kids. By reframing self-care as essential for patience, joy, and modeling healthy boundaries, she shows how tending to your own needs makes you a better parent and teaches children resilience and balance. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://yourunbusylife.com/false-choice-me-time-mom-time/ [https://yourunbusylife.com/false-choice-me-time-mom-time/] Quotes to ponder: "It’s not a choice between me time vs. story time. It’s a choice between snapping mommy and snuggle mommy." "You know what you’re modeling to your kids? That being a mom is such an important task, that they better give up everyone and everything they love and spend twenty years as the household drudge." "Really, the point of taking care of yourself is so that you can take care of the kids." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices [https://megaphone.fm/adchoices]

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com [https://oldpodcast.com/]. Episode 2732: Sara Stanizai explains how impostor syndrome goes beyond simple self-doubt, often leaving high-achievers feeling undeserving of their success and disconnected from their own accomplishments. She highlights how bicultural and immigrant communities experience this even more deeply, caught between family expectations and mainstream measures of success, which can lead to isolation, anxiety, and burnout. With practical insights on recognizing signs and seeking support, her work offers a path toward reframing self-worth and grounding it in personal values. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.prospecttherapy.com/blog/2020/3/3/what-is-impostor-syndrome-and-how-do-i-fix-it [https://www.prospecttherapy.com/blog/2020/3/3/what-is-impostor-syndrome-and-how-do-i-fix-it] Quotes to ponder: "I literally don’t know what I'm doing, and sooner or later they'll figure that out." "When your primary support system (your family) doesn’t know how to validate your success, you can start to believe it doesn’t count." "Therapy will also move your measures of success internally, toward your own values and goals, instead of focusing on external factors,  like other people’s opinions, your bank account, or your professional roles." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices [https://megaphone.fm/adchoices]

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com [https://oldpodcast.com/]. Episode 2731: Dr. Jennifer Jill Harman challenges the popular notion of "closure" by revealing its psychological ambiguity and emotional elusiveness. Through personal reflection and psychological theory, she suggests that seeking definite answers after heartbreak may do more harm than good, and that true healing comes from embracing uncertainty, not resolving it. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.luvze.com/i-need-closure-why-it-is-not-possible-to-get-it/ [https://www.luvze.com/i-need-closure-why-it-is-not-possible-to-get-it/] Quotes to ponder: "Closure has never really been defined." "Some therapists have gone so far to state that true closure is a 'myth' and impossible to achieve." "The take-home message is to be OK with not knowing 'why' things ended." Episode references: The Power of Now: https://www.amazon.com/Power-Now-Guide-Spiritual-Enlightenment/dp/1577314808 [https://www.amazon.com/Power-Now-Guide-Spiritual-Enlightenment/dp/1577314808] Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices [https://megaphone.fm/adchoices]

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com [https://oldpodcast.com/]. Episode 2730: Keith Wilson explains why talking about feelings can be so difficult, tracing the process from raw emotion to the words we use to describe it. He highlights how mislabeling emotions, subconscious associations, and the fear of humiliation often complicate self-expression, while also reminding us that the right listener can make vulnerability both possible and deeply healing. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://medium.com/hello-love/why-is-it-hard-to-talk-about-feelings-2747a1e90c1f [https://medium.com/hello-love/why-is-it-hard-to-talk-about-feelings-2747a1e90c1f] Quotes to ponder: "Having the right word changes how your message is received as well as your own understanding of the feeling." "So, anyone who claims they can talk about their feelings is wrong. There is always a point beyond which they can’t because feelings originate in that place beyond words and personal understanding." "Sometimes the reason it’s hard to talk about your feelings is because you haven’t found the right person to talk to, but keep looking." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices [https://megaphone.fm/adchoices]

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com [https://oldpodcast.com/]. Episode 2729: Keith Wilson explores why expressing emotions can be so challenging, even for those who are emotionally intelligent. He highlights common barriers like fear of rejection, conflict avoidance, and low self-esteem, while also unpacking the deeper complexity of how raw sensations become personal feelings and then words. His insights offer a clearer understanding of both our own struggles with communication and the compassion needed when others wrestle with theirs. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://medium.com/hello-love/why-is-it-hard-to-talk-about-feelings-2747a1e90c1f [https://medium.com/hello-love/why-is-it-hard-to-talk-about-feelings-2747a1e90c1f] Quotes to ponder: "Some feelings are so hideous you’d rather they never saw the light of day." "You took a raw experience, made it into a personal experience, and then packaged it for others." "It’s like your teacher said in math class, show your work. It’s not enough in math class to have the right answer, you need to be able to demonstrate how you arrived at the answer." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices [https://megaphone.fm/adchoices]