OurChurch Family Gathering

From Grammy Nominee to "Homeless": Paul Coleman’s Journey to Identity

What happens when you run as far as you can on the fuel of shame, fear, and rejection? In this episode of "Up Close & Personal," we sit down with Grammy-nominated singer-songwriter Paul Coleman (Paul Coleman Trio). Paul pulls back the curtain on a life that moved from the heights of the music industry to three and a half years of "homelessness" on the road. With startling honesty, Paul discusses his battle with deep depression, the collapse of his band and marriage, and the hard work of therapy and repentance. Discover why he believes your character matters more than your gifts, and how he finally learned to accept the simplest, most profound truth: that he is God's kid, and that is enough. Key Takeaways: Character over Gifts: Spiritual gifts can run on "autopilot," but God is looking for the fruit of your character . The Saltland vs. The River: A look at Jeremiah 17 and why relying on your own strength leads to a "parched and lonely life" . The Perfect Parent: Why understanding God’s unconditional love is the ultimate "game changer" for self-forgiveness. YouTube Chapters: 00:00:00 - Introducing Paul Coleman: The Power of Story 00:01:28 - Rapid Fire: From Cleaning Toilets to Musical Heroes 00:11:35 - The Backstory: London Theatres & Fighting for Friendship 00:14:02 - Why Music is a Voice for Introverts 00:15:34 - Gifts vs. Fruit: Why Performance Isn't Identity 00:19:24 - Jeremiah 17: The Saltland and the River 00:20:55 - Leading Through the Storm: Depression & Divorce 00:24:58 - Advice to a 20-Year-Old: You Are Enough 00:30:15 - "My Little Hero": A Tribute to Mom Subscribe to our channel for more content related to this video. Hit the like button if you enjoyed this video and share this video with your friends and family. Leave a comment below and let us know what you think. Follow us on our website or socials. We would love to connect with you. Website http://ourchurch.org.au [http://ourchurch.org.au] Facebook https://www.facebook.com/ourchurchAU/ [https://www.facebook.com/ourchurchAU/] Instagram https://www.instagram.com/ourchurch/ [https://www.instagram.com/ourchurch/] Don't forget to turn on notifications so you never miss a video!

Why You Need to Let Yourself Fail (And Other Unconventional Leadership Advice)

How does a self-proclaimed 98% introvert manage to lead thousands of families at the second-largest independent school on the Gold Coast? In Episode 2 of "Up Close & Personal," we sit down with Jeff Davis, Principal of Hillcrest Christian College. Jeff opens up about his unexpected journey into education, triggered by the tragic loss of his brother and a bold prophecy from a youth pastor. We discuss the necessity of innovating the modern classroom , why failure is essential for growth , and the counterintuitive advice he received during the darkest storm of his career: don't run away, just sit in the problem. Key Takeaways: The Concept of "Flearning": We learn more through failure than we do through memorisation. We have to allow our kids and ourselves the opportunity to challenge our abilities and fail, because that is where true learning starts. Sit in the Problem: When facing intense leadership storms, we often try to solve things quickly in our own strength. Instead, we must learn to patiently "sit" in the problem, pray, and give God the space to resolve it. The "Get Out of Trouble" Club: Just like a golfer needs a specific club to save them from the rough, you need to know what you lean on when life gets hard. In every season, lean on Scripture and your faith. YouTube Chapters: 00:00:00 - Rapid Fire with Jeff Davis 00:05:18 - Leading Thousands as a 98% Introvert 00:06:42 - Why the 1700s Classroom Model is Broken 00:08:25 - Flarning: Why Failure is the Start of Learning 00:12:10 - Backstory: Growing Up in a Country Town 00:14:13 - Navigating Tragedy and Finding Faith 00:19:32 - The Sliding Doors Moment (Pastor to Teacher) 00:22:44 - Leading Through Intense Storms & Vexatious Attacks 00:25:05 - Why You Need to "Sit in the Problem" 00:33:05 - The 43-Year-Old Golf Club Metaphor 00:35:04 - Advice to a 20-Year-Old Jeff Davis Subscribe to our channel for more content related to this video. Hit the like button if you enjoyed this video and share this video with your friends and family. Leave a comment below and let us know what you think. Follow us on our website or socials. We would love to connect with you. Website http://ourchurch.org.au [http://ourchurch.org.au] Facebook https://www.facebook.com/ourchurchAU/ [https://www.facebook.com/ourchurchAU/] Instagram https://www.instagram.com/ourchurch/ [https://www.instagram.com/ourchurch/]

The Truth About Parenting Teens (An Honest Conversation)

Do you ever feel completely unqualified to be a parent, mentor, or leader? You aren't alone. In Week 1 of our "Up Close & Personal" series, we sit down with Kirsten and her 14-year-old daughter, Audrey, for a beautifully raw and honest conversation about faith, family, and the challenges of raising teenagers in today's world. Kirsten shares her powerful story of growing up in a volatile home without faith , overcoming deep insecurities , and learning to intentionally guide her own daughters toward Jesus. Audrey also opens up about her incredible 130-day streak of doing daily Bible devotions and how it has completely shifted the way she navigates friendships and peer pressure. Key Takeaways: Kids are Character Trainers: Challenging relationships and parenting struggles are actually opportunities to train your character and grow in patience. Intentional Connection: Breaking the normal routine—whether it's a trip overseas or a simple coffee date—creates the space needed for real, heart-to-heart communication with teenagers. Let the Holy Spirit Lead: When you prioritize your child's relationship with God, the Holy Spirit will step in, speak truth to them, and do the heavy lifting of discipleship for you. YouTube Chapters: 00:00:00 - Meet Kirsten & Audrey 00:04:18 - Finding Worth: The Object That Changed Everything 00:07:39 - Growing Up in a Volatile Home 00:15:34 - The Decision That Changed Kirsten's Life 00:23:37 - Why Kirsten Took Her 13-Year-Old to Korea 00:26:13 - Audrey's 130-Day Devotion Streak 00:29:28 - When the Holy Spirit Disciples Your Kids 00:36:40 - The Anthem: Singing the Goodness of God 00:39:05 - You Have a Voice and a Story Subscribe to our channel for more content related to this video. Hit the like button if you enjoyed this video and share this video with your friends and family. Leave a comment below and let us know what you think. Follow us on our website or socials. We would love to connect with you. Website http://ourchurch.org.au [http://ourchurch.org.au] Facebook https://www.facebook.com/ourchurchAU/ [https://www.facebook.com/ourchurchAU/] Instagram https://www.instagram.com/ourchurch/ [https://www.instagram.com/ourchurch/] Don't forget to turn on notifications so you never miss a video!

The Real Reason You Feel So Busy

Do you feel like you are constantly running on empty? Has "busy" become your default answer when people ask how you are doing ? In this message, we tackle the myth of the modern "busy" life. We have more time-saving conveniences than ever before, yet we fill our schedules to the brim—just like a garage packed so full of junk that you can't even park a car inside . When we live in this constant state of "messy busy," God isn't actively rejected; He is just slowly and gradually displaced . Discover how to change your language, clear out your schedule, and implement the S.O.A.P. devotion method so you can stop running on fumes and start training for the battles ahead! Key Takeaways: The Garage Analogy: We've saved hours of time with modern technology, but instead of enjoying the margin, we've filled it up with more stuff—like a hoarder's garage . Messy Busy vs. Actually Busy: Are you genuinely out of time, or are you just "messy busy," filling your day with distractions rather than priorities ? Train for the Battle: David couldn't use Saul's armour because he hadn't trained with it . If you don't build a habit of spending time with God in the quiet, you won't naturally reach for Him when life's battles hit . YouTube Chapters: 00:00:00 - Is "Busy" Just a Status Symbol? 00:01:28 - We Have More Time Than Ever Before 00:03:37 - The Hoarder's Garage (Filling Our Time) 00:06:09 - How We Unintentionally Displace God 00:07:45 - Are You Busy or Just "Messy Busy"? 00:09:40 - David and Goliath: Training for the Battle 00:13:19 - What Are You Training With? 00:16:03 - The Power of the S.O.A.P. Method 00:19:38 - The Challenge: Create Space for Jesus Subscribe to our channel for more content related to this video. Hit the like button if you enjoyed this video and share this video with your friends and family. Leave a comment below and let us know what you think. Follow us on our website or socials. We would love to connect with you. Website http://ourchurch.org.au [http://ourchurch.org.au] Facebook https://www.facebook.com/ourchurchAU/ [https://www.facebook.com/ourchurchAU/] Instagram https://www.instagram.com/ourchurch/ [https://www.instagram.com/ourchurch/] Don't forget to turn on notifications so you never miss a video!

How To Stop Striving And Start Surrendering To God

Are you exhausted from trying to navigate life, relationships, and faith in your own strength?In Week 3 of "Fully Alive," we unpack what it actually means to live a Spirit-led life. We often follow Jesus by kicking and expending all our human energy, completely forgetting that the exact same power that raised Jesus from the dead currently lives inside of us!Using relatable analogies—from forgetting to wear flippers while snorkeling to accepting the Holy Spirit's daily "side quests" —we learn how to stop striving and start surrendering. You are not underpowered; you just need to let the Holy Spirit lead the dance. Key Takeaways: Put Your Flippers On: We often exhaust ourselves trying to follow Jesus in our own human strength. Just like trying to snorkel the Great Barrier Reef without flippers, it's exhausting ! The exact same Spirit that raised Jesus from the dead lives in you; you just have to choose to rely on His power. Let the Spirit Lead the Dance: Keeping in step with the Holy Spirit is like a ballroom dance. It only looks effortless and beautiful when one person is leading and the other offers their full trust and surrender. Look for "Side Quests": The Holy Spirit often speaks to us in the ordinary moments of our day through small nudges—or "side quests" . Don't be so busy with your to-do list that you miss the opportunity to encourage someone, send a text, or step out in faith when God prompts you . YouTube Chapters: 00:00:00 - Introduction: Who is the Holy Spirit? 00:05:20 - The Snorkeling Analogy: Stop Kicking So Hard 00:09:54 - Romans 8: You Are Not Underpowered 00:15:25 - The Tension: Flesh vs. Spirit 00:18:48 - The Ballroom Dance of Surrender 00:23:51 - 3 Ways to Hear the Holy Spirit 00:26:50 - Accepting God's "Side Quests" 00:31:55 - Real Stories: Being Spirit-Led in Everyday Life 00:35:45 - The White Flag: Surrender Means Victory