Rori Raye Feminine Energy Radio

When Wanting More From Men Feels Forbidden

There’s something that feels almost taboo to talk about in dating, and that’s this desire for men to be more initiating. Many women wonder, Can I even want that? Can I ask for that? What I’ve noticed—especially watching something like Love Is Blind—is that people often come together because their patterns recognize each other.  On the surface, it looks like compatibility. But over time, what was hidden starts to show.  Niceness can cover a lot.  Sometimes what looks gentle at first turns out to be demanding, or even controlling.  It takes time to get to someone’s real nature. So let’s talk about wants versus expectations.  Expectations are patterns.  Wants are deeper.  Just because you want something doesn’t mean it will happen—but wanting is where everything starts.  The problem is, many of us don’t actually know what we want anymore.  Our desires have been shaped by what we were told we should want. When you say, “I want him to lead,” what you usually mean isn’t a list of behaviors.  You don’t want him to perform masculinity correctly.  What you want is to feel something—to relax, to soften, to drop out of your head and into yourself.  And when you connect there, something shifts.  Connection comes before behavior, not the other way around. Want to keep growing your Siren self with semi-private coaching classes, my amazing Siren Island Course and Community is where you practice with me and my Feminine Siren Coaches every day. [https://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/siren-island-mystic/] The live classes, the practices, the community, the tools— all created to help you feel safe in your feminine power so you can use it everywhere in your life. [https://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/siren-island-mystic/] Join us here: [https://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/siren-island-mystic/] https://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/siren-island-mystic/ [https://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/siren-island-mystic/] Love, Rori

Healing Through Relationships, Not Isolation

Do you really want a man who is really hemming you in?  Because I have to tell you, there are men out there who would look at you and say, “Wow, you are amazing.”Why would you want a man who says, “I resent you… I feel competitive with you”? I love watching celebrity couples because they show us so much about what happens when two highly successful, competitive people try to build a relationship.  How does it work out?How did J-Lo — Jennifer Lopez — and Ben love each other so much that they wanted to come together three times, only for it to end in disappointment every time?  She’s just like us: “I’ll try again. I’ll fill it with roses and wonder.”  But over time, the period she’s willing to put up with disappointment grows shorter and shorter. If you’re curious about how your Love Siren and Business Siren patterns connect — or want help identifying your Business Siren Type — we’d love to explore it with you inside Siren Island, the home for this whole journey. You’ll find live classes, special bonus trainings, events, and so much more waiting for you. Siren Island is here: https://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/siren-island-mystic/ [https://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/siren-island-mystic/] Love, Rori

He’s Lazy in Bed? Let’s Talk About Why — and What You Can Do

**The Question:** My boyfriend of four months is sometimes quite lazy in bed. Ha ha. Meaning he lets me do most of the work. He may be tired, but I feel there’s something deeper. He’s normally quite masculine. What can I do? From Rori: So when you say you’re “doing the work” — are you doing it on him, or on yourself? Sex is… you know, it’s many things. It can be slow and tantric. It can be touch-oriented, breathing together, looking into each other’s eyes — just *feeling*. It’s so much touching. And it doesn’t even have to mean intercourse. It’s energy. It’s an exchange. The joy is the *experience* — that incredible, orgasmic freedom that lets your spirit flutter right out of your body and fly around the room. That wild, sacred release that feels like freedom. You can do that on your own, yes — but it’s even more powerful in his presence. Just lay there on your back and say, “I just wanna lay here like a couch — could you please f my brains out?” Try that next time! Take off all your clothes and say, > “I want you to just… make me crazy,” and watch what happens. Siren Island is where we practice voicing what you want like this — together. Where you’ll learn to feel safe in your feminine power and to express your desire in every area of life — with love, with laughter, with softness, with fire. There're live classes, embodiment practices, a sisterhood that holds you while you explore, and tools that help you live this way *everywhere*. Siren Island is here: https://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/siren-island-mystic/ [https://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/siren-island-mystic/ ] Love, Rori

MAN-ifest Your Dream Man with RRCT Alumni Teal Elisabeth

Teal is one of my Rori Raye coach Superstars, and she has already taught two full masterclasses inside the Siren Island Community.Today, she’s back to share how she became a true “Feminifestor” — in love, in partnership, and in the way men respond to her.I don’t talk about Law of Attraction very often, and yet many of my trained coaches and so many of my clients become master Feminifestors in their own lives.This is a special sneak peek of MAN-ifest — an introduction to the energetics of calling in a committed, emotionally available partner, and a preview of what Teal will be teaching in depth during the upcoming 5-day MAN-ifest experience.I hope you love this introduction to Teal’s event — I’ll be there!✨ Join Teal’s 5-Day Virtual Party Here: [https://www.tealelisabeth.com/a/2148190876/FUg42oqz]https://www.tealelisabeth.com/a/2148190876/FUg42oqz [https://www.tealelisabeth.com/a/2148190876/FUg42oqz]Love, Rori

What To Do If Your Man Is Giving Less Than 50%

If you’re in a marriage or a relationship with a guy who’s like a 20–30% — as a rule, anything under 50% as a rule — maybe pops up every now and then into an 80% and then he pops back down, and you just feel always like a pull towards him, like he’s pulling on you. That’s your clue. The way you deal with that marriage and make it better: you step back. You disconnect the part of you that is doing the work. You disconnect the “I’m doing the work.” You disconnect the weight on the 20%, the 30%, the 80%. You disconnect the anger because you know he’s below 50% as a rule. You do not trust him. You do not feel good about him. You are unhappy on many levels. And so you are angry. You’ve got to get in touch with that. You’ve got to deal with that. You’ve got to feel that. You’ve got to step back and stop saving the marriage. Stop it! He’s never felt you step back and get bored with him. And if you’re not on Siren Island, all of this may sound incredibly new to you — when you’re feeling in your Feminine Energy… everything feels better (even when things aren’t going the way you want…). The Siren Island Course & Community is here to help you find your Feminine Energy, feel it fully, and live from it! Everything changes once you experience your emotions instead of shoving them away… your power starts to bubble up and give you faith in yourself. Siren Island is here: https://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/siren-island-mystic/ [https://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/siren-island-mystic/] Love, Rori