Spilt: A Podcast with Charlene and Tonya

Episode 110: Reflections on Growing Through It (Part 6)

This season, we explored what it means to grow through life instead of avoiding it. From processing emotions and overthinking to self-worth, core lies, intuition, healing patterns, emotional weight, and honoring our energy—we spent this season learning how awareness changes the way we move through the world. In this finale episode, we reflect on the biggest lessons from Season 6 and what growth has looked like for us personally. We talk about the reality of change, the importance of self-acceptance, and why meaningful growth isn’t about perfection—it’s about awareness, intention, and learning to respond differently over time. Growth is rarely dramatic. Most of the time, it happens quietly in the choices we make every day. Part of our Growing Through It season, this episode is a reminder that healing is ongoing, awareness matters, and you are allowed to grow without demanding perfection from yourself. Email us at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠mailto:spilt.apodcast@gmail.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ if you have comments, questions, or ideas about future episodes. Be sure to follow, rate, and review to stay informed about future episodes. You can find us on Facebook ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/spilt.apodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/spilt.podcast/ Disclaimer: The views expressed are solely those of the hosts and should not be considered medical or mental health advice.

Episode 109: Now What? The Season of True Growth

What happens after you recognize your patterns, your “mountain,” or the core beliefs you’ve been carrying? In this episode, we explore what real growth actually looks like after the moment of awareness. We talk about why change is often slower than we expect, what it means to live in the “in-between” space, and how growth shows up in small, everyday choices rather than dramatic transformation. Part of our Season 6 theme, Growing Through It, this conversation is a reminder that awareness is just the beginning—and that meaningful change happens through patience, consistency, and self-compassion. Email us at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠mailto:spilt.apodcast@gmail.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ if you have comments, questions, or ideas about future episodes. Be sure to follow, rate, and review to stay informed about future episodes. You can find us on Facebook ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/spilt.apodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/spilt.podcast/ Disclaimer: The views expressed are solely those of the hosts and should not be considered medical or mental health advice.

Episode 108: Challenging Your Core Lie

What’s the belief about yourself that feels like a fact—but might not be? In this episode, we explore the idea of a “core lie”—a deeply held belief that shapes how we see ourselves and move through the world. We talk about how these beliefs form, how they show up in everyday life, and why they can be so difficult to challenge. With honest reflection, we share the core lies we’ve carried and how they’ve influenced our thoughts, choices, and self-perception. Part of our Season 6 theme, Growing Through It, this conversation invites awareness, compassion, and a willingness to question the stories we’ve always believed. Email us at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠mailto:spilt.apodcast@gmail.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ if you have comments, questions, or ideas about future episodes. Be sure to follow, rate, and review to stay informed about future episodes. You can find us on Facebook ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/spilt.apodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/spilt.podcast/ Disclaimer: The views expressed are solely those of the hosts and should not be considered medical or mental health advice.

Episode 107: Listening to Your Energy Levels

How often do we stop and ask ourselves how much energy we actually have? In this episode, we talk about recognizing our energy levels—emotionally, mentally, and physically—and why learning to pay attention to our capacity matters. We explore the signs of low energy, why we tend to push through anyway, and what it looks like to adjust instead of forcing ourselves to keep going. Part of our Season 6 theme, Growing Through It, this conversation is a reminder that honoring your energy is a form of growth. Email us at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠mailto:spilt.apodcast@gmail.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ if you have comments, questions, or ideas about future episodes. Be sure to follow, rate, and review to stay informed about future episodes. You can find us on Facebook ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/spilt.apodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/spilt.podcast/ Disclaimer: The views expressed are solely those of the hosts and should not be considered medical or mental health advice.

Episode 106: Carrying Extra (Emotional) Weight

How much are you carrying right now? In this episode, we explore the emotional and mental weight we hold—responsibilities that aren’t ours, past experiences we haven’t released, and the pressure to carry things we can’t control. We talk about why we take on so much, how it affects our mental health, and what it looks like to begin putting some of that weight down. Part of our Season 6 theme, Growing Through It, this conversation is a reminder that caring doesn’t mean carrying everything. Email us at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠mailto:spilt.apodcast@gmail.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ if you have comments, questions, or ideas about future episodes. Be sure to follow, rate, and review to stay informed about future episodes. You can find us on Facebook ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/spilt.apodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/spilt.podcast/ Disclaimer: The views expressed are solely those of the hosts and should not be considered medical or mental health advice.