Masking: The Reality of Neurodivergent Masking and Identity Loss

My Kid is Struggling: Where to Start at School (Parent Series 1 of 4)

Watching your child struggle in school, whether academically, socially, or behaviorally, can feel overwhelming and isolating. As a parent, you know your child best, but navigating the education system to get them the right support often feels like learning a foreign language. This live event is designed to demystify the school support process and empower you to become your child’s strongest advocate. We will walk step-by-step through what to do when you first notice a concern, who to contact, and how to request help. You'll learn how to bring outside diagnoses to the school's attention and how to understand the key differences between 504 Plans and Individualized Education Programs (IEPs). Leave this session with actionable tools, next steps, and the confidence to build a collaborative, supportive team for your student.

Masking: The Reality of Neurodivergent Masking and Identity Loss

For many in the neurodivergent community, we spend our lives learning to cover up who we are to blend into the environment around us. In this episode, we trace the profound identity loss experienced by neurodivergent adults right back to where it often starts: the classroom. We discuss the hidden exhaustion of the neurodivergent student and why traditional educational settings need a major shift. It’s time to stop asking kids to change who they are, and start building school cultures rooted in actual psychological safety. Tune in to learn how we can move away from forced compliance and start cultivating trauma-informed, neuro-affirming school cultures where every student is actually safe to unmask.

When Kids Push Back: How Self-Regulation Stops the Battle for Control

Sarah and Jessica unpack the hidden dynamics behind power struggles, revealing how they often do more harm than good and how a calm, intentional response can turn conflict into connection. You’ll discover how recognizing the signs in your body can help you pause before escalating. Learn the key difference between setting boundaries and engaging in power struggles, with practical strategies to stay regulated when kids push back. We break down real-life examples, like how to handle a student on a Chromebook or a child refusing to get in the car, showing you how to maintain control without losing rapport. Jessica shares her approach to collaborative boundary-setting, emphasizing the importance of understanding the “why” behind behaviors instead of simply reacting. You'll also explore why avoiding power struggles through disengagement and self-regulation creates more sustainable relationships, whether at home or in the classroom. We reveal how to implement trauma-informed, neuroaffirming strategies that promote cooperation, reduce stress, and build trust. Plus, hear the surprising role time and technology play in fueling these conflicts, and how to navigate those barriers effectively.

Beyond the Four Functions: Diving Beneath the Surface

Explore the deeper layers of student behavior in this insightful episode. Move beyond the four functions of behavior to uncover the psychological, sensory, and environmental factors that impact students. Jessica and Sarah reveal how common behaviors like classroom escape are often linked to sensory overload or communication challenges, requiring a broader perspective. Learn why simplistic, compliance-based strategies fall short and how asking deeper questions can lead to effective interventions. Discover practical tips for involving multidisciplinary teams and implementing trauma-informed, neuro-affirming strategies that empower students. Student Response Roadmap [https://www.teacherspayteachers.com/Product/Student-Response-Roadmap-SafetyCrisis-Plan-16053637]

(Part 2) From Silos to Systems: Examining Fragmented Care Models in Schools

This episode exposes the barriers to effective teamwork and reveals simple, actionable strategies to break down those walls. You’ll discover how communication breakdowns and fragmented care models undermine student success, and more importantly, the innovative approaches that foster genuine integration. From establishing shared goals around emotional regulation to leveraging systems-level planning, we share proven tactics to align your team’s efforts. Jessica and Sarah reveal how to craft collaborative goals that aren’t made in isolation but are driven by real input from all stakeholders, including families and offsite providers. We break down practical tools like visual emotion lists, ongoing team check-ins, and technology solutions that keep everyone on the same page, even when team members aren’t physically present. This episode dives into the complexities of large secondary teams, addressing common pitfalls, and how strong foundational systems can reduce the need for overly individualized plans.