The Dom Sub Living BDSM and Kink Podcast

Dirty Talk, Punishment, Trust Issues—Let’s Talk D/s

#116 What do you do when real life and D/s collide? 👉 Join the free Dom Sub Living Community: https://domsubliving.com/community [https://domsubliving.com/community] Today Jay and Alesandra answer your biggest Dom/sub questions: long-distance rules, sub drop, fear of judgment, family boundaries, punishment, switching, and even dirty talk styles. Join our Dom Sub Living Community to ask your own questions next episode! ➡️ Join the free Dom Sub Living Community: https://domsubliving.com/community [https://domsubliving.com/community] ➡️ Show notes and more: https://domsubliving.com/116 [https://domsubliving.com/116] ❤️ Join the All-Access Pass for community, coaching, and courses: https://domsubliving.com/allaccess [https://domsubliving.com/allaccess]

Slave Training 101: The One Thing Most Doms Skip

#115 Slave training doesn’t fall apart because the sub fails — it falls apart because the Dom can’t stay consistent. In this episode, Jay shares how our Master/slave training began, why most structures collapse, and the one thing Doms must master to keep their dynamic strong, sustainable, and consensual. Tap play to learn the simple shift that makes slave training actually work. ➡️ Free weekly newsletter: https://domsubliving.com/signup [https://domsubliving.com/signup] ➡️ Get deeper support: https://domsubliving.com/allaccess [https://domsubliving.com/allaccess]

Can a Submissive Still Be Feminist?

#114 Can you kneel for your partner and still stand for equality? ❤️ Download your free cheat sheet, 'How to Be a Good Sub': https://domsubliving.com/sub [https://domsubliving.com/sub] In this episode, we're exploring how feminism and submission actually complete each other. Learn why power exchange isn’t powerless, how shame transforms into choice, and what true consent means in D/s. 💬 Got thoughts? Comment or DM Alesandra on Instagram: @domsubliving ➡️ Free 'How to Be a Good Sub' Cheat Sheet: https://domsubliving.com/sub [https://domsubliving.com/sub] ➡️ Show notes and more: https://domsubliving.com/114 [https://domsubliving.com/114] ❤️ Join the All-Access Pass for community, coaching, and courses: https://domsubliving.com/allaccess [https://domsubliving.com/allaccess]

Bruises, Branding, and the Big Questions Around Marks in BDSM

#113 Why do some scenes leave deep bruises and others nothing at all? In this episode we're unpacking bruises, branding, and marks in BDSM – what they mean emotionally, the science of bruising, how to explain them to vanilla people, and when branding goes too far. Listen now to feel safer and more seen. ➡️ Access the free BDSM Resource Library: https://domsubliving.com/free [https://domsubliving.com/free] ➡️ Join our free community: https://domsubliving.com/community [https://domsubliving.com/community] ❤️ Join the All-Access Pass for community, coaching, and courses: https://domsubliving.com/allaccess [https://domsubliving.com/allaccess]

10 Hidden Power Plays Only Experienced Doms Use

#112 Ever met a Dom who can control a room without saying a word? In this episode, we're revealing the 10 hidden power plays only experienced Dominants use – how silence, attention, and anticipation build real obedience and trust. Learn the quiet secrets that make submission magnetic. Which power play will you try first? ➡️ Free Dominant Quick Start Guide: https://domsubliving.com/dominant [https://domsubliving.com/dominant] ➡️ Show notes and more: https://domsubliving.com/112 [https://domsubliving.com/112] ❤️ Join the All-Access Pass for community, coaching, and courses: https://domsubliving.com/allaccess [https://domsubliving.com/allaccess]