The Financially Fit Couple
Host Matthew Gray welcomes Carine Keenan, a marriage and family therapist, and Joe Keenan, a CFP and CPA, to discuss why money commonly fuels conflict in busy marriages and how couples can turn disagreements into growth. They explain that money issues often connect to safety and security, with saver–spender differences frequently rooted in childhood “money classroom” experiences and personal values like status or future security. Communication breaks down through avoidance, poor timing, and stress (HALTS: hungry, angry, lonely, tired, stressed), which amplifies anxiety. Tools include building self-awareness, using I-statements, scheduling regular “money talks,” creating a fun routine, and using timeouts with a commitment to resume within a day. They distinguish coaching (forward-focused planning and mindset) from therapy (healing deeper, compulsive or impairing behaviors) and describe their Keenan Financial Coaching work with couples across life transitions. 00:37 Meet the Guests 04:46 Why Money Peace Matters 07:00 Why Couples Fight About Money 08:38 Savers vs Spenders Explained 10:56 Why Communication Breaks Down 14:24 Avoidance and Better Timing 16:44 Owning Your Money Fears 20:22 Early Money Classroom Exercise 22:45 Retail Therapy and Awareness Hacks 24:16 Money Talks and Timeouts 32:17 Make Meetings Fun 33:47 Agenda And Prep System 36:10 Keep Growing Together 40:00 When To Get Help 42:55 Coaching Vs Counseling 46:30 Who Their Coaching Serves 50:05 Final Takeaways And Wrap Resources Carine & Joe Keenan https://keenanfinancialcoaching.com/ Matthew Gray https://www.linkedin.com/in/matthew-gray-cfp%C2%AE-5a2144134/ https://schrockfin.com/ Securities and advisory services offered through LPL Financial, a registered investment advisor, Member FINRA [https://www.finra.org/]/SIPC [https://www.sipc.org/]
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