It’s Not Imposter Syndrome. It’s a Signal.
The Decision Series | Episode 2 | The Tall Poppy Revolution™ Radio
You don’t have an imposter syndrome problem.
There. I said it.
Not because the feeling isn’t real — it absolutely is. But because the way we’ve been talking about it, labeling it, and living with it may be the very thing that’s costing you your most important decisions.
In this episode, we go straight to the heart of a moment every executive woman knows: that split-second before you speak, decide, or act — when something quietly whispers, who are you to do this?
That moment is not a diagnosis. It’s a fulcrum point. And what you do with it shapes everything.
What We Cover in This Episode
The myth worth busting first. “Imposter syndrome” was never a clinical syndrome. It was originally called the imposter phenomenon — a pattern of thoughts and feelings first observed in high-achieving women. That distinction matters more than you might think.
Why 75% of executives feel this — and why that’s actually useful information. Feeling like an imposter tends to show up right at the edge of your competence — or your perception of your competence. That edge? It’s growth. The problem isn’t the feeling. It’s the decisions you make because of the feeling.
The “quiet decisions” that cost you most. Softening your position. Over-explaining. Waiting. Deferring. These aren’t random habits — they’re what imposter thoughts look like in action. And they have a direct impact on your authority and your ability to influence at the highest levels.
The choice moment. Between the trigger and the action, there is a fulcrum — a moment of choice. This episode unpacks how to access that moment, slow it down, and choose a different move. Not from a place of bravado. From a place of self-trust.
Self-trust vs. confidence — they are not the same thing. Confidence can be performed. Self-trust is built from the inside out. We talk about what that actually looks like in practice, including how to strengthen it before you’re in a high-stakes moment.
Human Design as a leadership tool. One of the most powerful tools for building that inner authority is understanding how you’re uniquely wired — not just your values or your strengths, but how you’re actually designed to make decisions, especially under pressure. We introduce the role of Human Design here, with a deeper dive coming in Episode 4.
“Take the risk or lose the chance.” This simple phrase — borrowed from an unexpected place — is the invitation at the heart of this episode. Because every avoided decision is a lost opportunity for impact. And leadership isn’t about certainty. It’s about trusting yourself enough to move forward anyway.
Key Takeaways
* Imposter feelings are a signal of growth, not evidence of inadequacy — and they are not your identity
* The real issue is never the feeling itself; it’s the decisions that feeling quietly makes for you
* Self-awareness + self-regulation = the pathway back to choice
* Ask yourself in the moment: “What decision am I about to make because of this thought or feeling?”
* Building self-knowledge in advance — through tools like Human Design, values clarity, and knowing your inner authority — is how you show up ready when it counts
* Move from avoidance to approach: step toward the thing, not away from it
* Leadership isn’t about certainty. It’s about trusting yourself enough to take the next step.
A Note From Carrie
If you have a real conversation coming up — a negotiation, a high-stakes decision, a moment where you know these patterns tend to show up — I’d love to support you in working through it in real time.
I have a Negotiation by Design Strategic Lab coming up: a small, intimate group container where we spend 2 hours working through the actual conversations you’re navigating. Grounded in your voice, your leadership, and your design.
You don’t need to get rid of the feeling. You just need to stop letting it make your decisions for you.
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About Your Host
Carrie Gallant is the founder of the Gallant Leader Institute and host of The Tall Poppy Revolution™ Radio — a show for executive and C-suite women who dare to stand tall, think big, and lead on their own terms.
Carrie helps executive and C-suite women trust their own judgment so they can navigate high-stakes conversations, power dynamics, and negotiations with clarity, integrity, and decisive authority.
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About The Decision Series
This is Episode 2 of a 4-part series exploring the forces that shape, stall, and strengthen executive decision-making.
Episode 1: The Quiet Decisions That Are Shaping Your Executive Power (link to Episode 1)
Episode 2: It’s Not Imposter Syndrome. It’s a Signal. (you are here)
Episode 3: Coming soon — How You’re Uniquely Designed to Make Decisions
Episode 4: Coming soon — Human Design and Decision-Making in Your Team and at the Executive Table
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