The Warriors and Queens Show

Ep. 6 - The Real Cause of Affairs

What leads a couple to infidelity? How can you avoid it happening to you? In this episode, Yvette and I dive into the true causes of affairs and share insights from our years of studying with relationship experts like Tony Robbins and Esther Perel. We explain the six human needs that drive all behavior, and how affairs often happen when the needs for uncertainty and significance go unmet in the primary relationship. Throughout the conversation, we explain how consciously meeting these needs, can keep the passion alive. We believe that by understanding these dynamics, and proactively nurturing your partner's needs, you can build an unshakable love that withstands the tests of time. [00:00 - 02:29] - Introduction and impact of affairs [02:30 - 02:52] - Six human needs framework [02:53 - 04:07] - 1st Need: Certainty  [04:08 - 05:18] - 2nd Need: Uncertainty  [05:19 - 06:50] - 3rd Need: Significance [06:51 - 07:36] - 4th Need: Love and Connection [07:37 - 07:56] - 5th Need: Growth  [07:57 - 08:43] - 6th Need: Contribution  [08:44 - 12:02] - Seminar experience at Mastermind on Relationships [12:03 - 14:06] - Key causes of affairs: uncertainty and significance [14:07 - 15:01] - Maintaining behaviors from early relationship stage [15:02 - 18:58] - "Mating in Captivity" book recommendation [18:59 - 20:33] - Bringing Back Passion [20:34 - 23:31] - Closing thoughts and resources We need your help spreading the word so we can uplift even more relationships together! 🙏 Right now all that separates many partners from extraordinary intimacy is missing a few simple keys. Gain instant access to our free e-course to get those keys now. Esther Perel Book: Mating in Captivity https://a.co/d/1d6kZcn [https://a.co/d/1d6kZcn] Secrets of Adventure Dating Program https://adventuredatingplaybook.com/ [https://adventuredatingplaybook.com/] Free course: => warriorsandqueens.com/3steps [http://warriorsandqueens.com/3steps] <= Please also take just a moment to subscribe, rate and leave a review for the Warriors & Queens Podcast!  If you've gained just a fraction of value from our hard-won lessons that we shared, we ask for just a few moments of your time in exchange.  Simply sharing what connected with you most in an Apple Podcasts or Spotify review will empower the algorithm to reach and rescue more partnerships!

Ep. 5 - Can couples survive an affair?

What leads a couple to infidelity? How can you rebuild trust? In this episode, Yvette and I open up about the challenging topic of infidelity and share insights from our years of experience helping couples recover and rebuild their relationships. We explain the concept of polarity shifts, frog farming, and how unmet needs can lead to affairs. Throughout the conversation, we share the inspiring story of a couple who transformed their marriage after infidelity by immersing themselves in our Warriors and Queens teachings. We believe that with the right tools and commitment, couples can recover and build a stronger, more loving relationship than they had before.  [00:00 - 05:03] - Intro and a couple's story of nearly divorcing after an affair [05:04 - 07:13] - How affairs happen and the role of polarity shifts [07:14 - 11:12] - Ways women unknowingly emasculate men through frog farming [11:13 - 11:13] - The 3 stages men go through when needs aren't met [11:14 - 13:09] - Keys to recovery: forgiveness, understanding both partners' roles [13:10 - 16:56] - A couple's journey of transformation through Warriors and Queens [16:57 - 21:09] - Closing thoughts and free e-course offer We need your help spreading the word so we can uplift even more relationships together! 🙏 Right now all that separates many partners from extraordinary intimacy is missing a few simple keys. Gain instant access to our free e-course to get those keys now. Esther Perel Book: Mating in Captivity https://a.co/d/1d6kZcn [https://a.co/d/1d6kZcn] Secrets of Adventure Dating Program https://adventuredatingplaybook.com/ [https://adventuredatingplaybook.com/] Free course: => warriorsandqueens.com/3steps [http://warriorsandqueens.com/3steps] <= Please also take just a moment to subscribe, rate and leave a review for the Warriors & Queens Podcast!  If you've gained just a fraction of value from our hard-won lessons that we shared, we ask for just a few moments of your time in exchange.  Simply sharing what connected with you most in an Apple Podcasts or Spotify review will empower the algorithm to reach and rescue more partnerships!

Ep.4 - How to get your man to cherish you even more

Do you feel your husband cherishes the kids or even the dog more than you? In this episode, Yvette and I discuss three powerful strategies to help women receive more love and devotion from their partners. We address this common challenge and share how turning complaints into great asks, using hero's language, and stacking the benefits can inspire men to take action. I explain the importance of giving respect to men by avoiding emasculation and creating hero moments. We also highlight the significance of honoring a man's transition time, allowing him to smoothly shift roles from work to home. By implementing these communication skills, couples can transform their relationships and experience the deep love and devotion they deserve. Subscribe to our podcast and download our free course to learn more about nurturing extraordinary relationships. [00:00 - 00:51] - Introduction [00:52 - 05:08] - Turn Your Complain into a Great Ask [05:09 - 06:41] - How to Speak Hero’s Language [06:42 - 07:13] - Turn Expectations into Appreciation  [07:14 - 11:13] - How can you Give Respect to Your Partner?  [11:14 - 14:13] - What Is the Transition Time? [14:14 - 16:12] - Closing Segment We need your help spreading the word so we can uplift even more relationships together! 🙏 Right now all that separates many partners from extraordinary intimacy is missing a few simple keys. Gain instant access to our free e-course to get those keys now. => warriorsandqueens.com/3steps [http://warriorsandqueens.com/3steps] <= Please also take just a moment to subscribe, rate and leave a review for the Warriors & Queens Podcast!  If you've gained just a fraction of value from our hard-won lessons that we shared, we ask for just a few moments of your time in exchange.  Simply sharing what connected with you most in an Apple Podcasts or Spotify review will empower the algorithm to reach and rescue more partnerships!

Ep. 3 - Overcoming Mid-Life Crisis

How can a couple survive when one partner goes through a midlife crisis? In this powerful episode, Yvette and I vulnerably share my challenging journey through the tunnel phase between the prince and king stages of development. Yvette discusses how my crisis made her question herself, but she learned to support me with unconditional love. We explain how a man in a mid-life crisis may suddenly change and create chaos, but the couple can emerge stronger by the partner being a compassionate and loving friend. We offer strategies like surrounding the couple with supportive people and resources. By showing appreciation and getting the right help, relationships cannot only survive this crisis but thrive on the other side. [00:00 - 05:03] - Introduction [05:04 - 10:23] - Mid-Life Crisis explained: 4 stages of development [10:24 - 12:48] - The tunnel experience for Yvette  [12:49 - 18:06] - How to support a man through the tunnel phase? [18:07 - 21:10] - Testimony of the couple that asked for support  [21:11 - 21:59] - How to identify if your partner is in the tunnel phase? [22:00 - 23:43] - Closing segment We need your help spreading the word so we can uplift even more relationships together! 🙏 Right now all that separates many partners from extraordinary intimacy is missing a few simple keys. Gain instant access to our free e-course to get those keys now. => warriorsandqueens.com/3steps [http://warriorsandqueens.com/3steps] <= Please also take just a moment to subscribe, rate and leave a review for the Warriors & Queens Podcast!  If you've gained just a fraction of value from our hard-won lessons that we shared, we ask for just a few moments of your time in exchange.  Simply sharing what connected with you most in an Apple Podcasts or Spotify review will empower the algorithm to reach and rescue more partnerships!

Ep. 2 - How to Remove Your Protective Masks and Stop Sabotaging your Relationship

Have you ever worn a mask to protect yourself from getting hurt, only to realize that it's preventing you from experiencing true love and connection? Heads up: we all do. In this episode, Dave and I discuss the concept of "masks" - protective layers created by past traumas and experiences that can affect personal growth and relationships. We share our own stories of developing masculine and feminine masks as a result of childhood wounds. When triggers arise in relationships, it's an opportunity to get curious about what past pain or trauma is being activated, rather than blaming or judging one's partner. If you have struggled with making and pushing the ones you love back because of hidden wounds, this is a must-watch.  [00:00 - 02:26] - Introduction [02:27 - 07:22] - The masculine and feminine mask  [07:23 - 09:43] - We choose partners that trigger us  [09:44 - 12:58] - What to do when we get triggered? The four F's technique [12:59 - 17:43] - The mask framework and how to set yourself free  [17:44 - 19:54] - Closing Segment We need your help spreading the word so we can uplift even more relationships together! 🙏 Right now all that separates many partners from extraordinary intimacy is missing a few simple keys. Gain instant access to our free e-course to get those keys now. => warriorsandqueens.com/3steps [http://warriorsandqueens.com/3steps] <= Please also take just a moment to subscribe, rate and leave a review for the Warriors & Queens Podcast!  If you've gained just a fraction of value from our hard-won lessons that we shared, we ask for just a few moments of your time in exchange.  Simply sharing what connected with you most in an Apple Podcasts or Spotify review will empower the algorithm to reach and rescue more partnerships!