The Who Are You Podcast

Why Most People Fail at Prayer (and What Actually Works)

Prayer isn’t a ritual, it’s a relationship. In this episode, we demystify bold prayer and show you how to talk to God honestly, even when life feels impossible. If you’ve wondered how to pray (and actually hear God), this is for you. What You’ll Learn / Highlights * The one-sentence definition of prayer—and why short, honest prayers work (think: “Lord, save me”). * How to recognize the “still, small voice” and stop chasing spiritual noise. * Scriptures that anchor bold prayer: Hebrews 4:16, Romans 8:26, Matthew 6, Gethsemane, and the Psalms. * Practical habits to strengthen your prayer life: micro-prayers, prayer journaling, praying Scripture, and finding a prayer partner/small group. * A vulnerable story of hearing God’s direction and launching Truthkins—and what obedience looked like in real time. * Why “unanswered” sometimes means “not yet,” and how to align desire with God’s will. * A 7-day challenge: bring one “impossible” request to God—no filters, full faith. Chapters 00:00 Intro • 00:21 Prayer is simple (talking to God) • 01:44 The first time I heard God speak • 03:35 The “still, small voice” explained • 04:34 The Truthkins assignment & mission • 08:48 Back to prayer: what bold prayer really is • 10:25 “Pursue it with vigor” — obedience & momentum • 15:34 Common prayer misconceptions (and how to drop them) • 16:07 When weakness meets God’s strength (Romans 8:26) • 18:29 Raw, honest prayer (Gethsemane & the Psalms) • 20:35 Come boldly to the throne (Hebrews 4:16) • 21:39 Surrender, stewardship, and restoration • 27:39 Practical ways to strengthen your prayer life • 31:08 Community, plans, and praying Scripture • 33:42 Your one “impossible” prayer challenge • 34:50 Closing prayer + blessing

Why Most People Fail at Staying Grounded in Christ (and What Actually Works)

Feeling thrown off your Christian walk by stress, setbacks, or shame? In this candid conversation with entrepreneur and men’s group leader Tim Holloway, we unpack how to recognize when you’re off-balance—and the exact steps to get your eyes back on Jesus. Perfect for Christian men, business owners, and anyone battling spiritual drift. What You’ll Learn / Highlights * A simple 3-step “reframe” to stop spirals and return to peace in under a day * How to spot spiritual attacks vs. self-sabotage—and respond biblically * The role of community (men’s groups, masterminds, church) in real transformation * Managing ambition without losing your soul: Paul’s playbook for driven believers * Moving from victim mindset to “this is happening for me” (practical examples) * Why confession and vulnerability are the fast track to freedom (not weakness) * How to build rhythms that keep you steady through business plateaus and life hits Chapters (timestamps) 00:00 Intro 01:12 Why we get “knocked off balance” in the Christian life 04:45 Meet Tim Holloway: trauma, entrepreneurship, and refining fire 08:20 When faith gets transactional vs. a Spirit-led journey 12:33 Recognizing the moment you’re off: emotions, triggers, and signals 15:50 The 3-Step Reframe: Awareness → Truth → Action with God 19:22 Spiritual warfare vs. my own thoughts—how to discern 22:18 Community that heals: men’s groups, masterminds, and church life 26:40 Managing ambition the Pauline way (pressing on without pride) 31:10 From shame to freedom: identity in Christ over past mistakes 35:05 Seasons and plateaus in ministry/business (what to do next) 39:44 Forgiveness as spiritual strength (not letting bitterness define you) 43:18 Lightning Round: verses, habits, and what God’s teaching now 46:30 Final encouragement + next steps for listeners

What’s Driving You? Uncover the Real Motivators Behind Your Choices

Are you living from a place of freedom in Christ, or are unseen forces quietly steering your life? We all have something that drives us. For some, it’s the need to be loved. For others, it’s fear of failure, shame, or the constant hunt for approval. In this episode of The Who Are You? Podcast, we explore the hidden drivers behind our decisions, relationships, and even our spiritual lives. If you’ve ever felt stuck in patterns you can’t explain, this conversation will speak directly to your heart. Takeaways from this episode: * What Proverbs 4:23 means when it says, “Guard your heart” * How to recognize when fear or validation is driving your choices * What it looks like to receive a “new heart” from God (Ezekiel 11:19) * Why delighting in the Lord reorients your desires (Psalm 37:4) * The powerful link between waiting on God and spiritual growth “When you’re settled in who you are in Jesus, you don’t have anything to prove, you don’t have anything to lose, and you don’t have anything to fear.”  👉 Take a moment to reflect: What’s really driving you right now? Then, share this episode with a friend, journal what God reveals, and hit subscribe so you don’t miss the next heart-shaping conversation.

Stop Chasing Worth: The Truth About Your Value in Christ

Are you exhausted from trying to prove you're worth something? In this raw and heartfelt kickoff episode of WHO ARE YOU?, host Rick Peter Lee opens up about his own lifelong battle with seeking validation, from people, jobs, achievements; and how it left him empty. If you’ve ever felt like you’re not enough, like you have to earn love, or that your value depends on what others think, this episode is for you. Rick shares his story of growing up with an emotionally distant father, how that shaped his sense of worth, and how; even after becoming a Christian at 16, he spent decades believing lies about himself. But something changed. And it wasn't about trying harder. It was about finally believing what God says is true. This is more than an introduction; it’s a vulnerable, Spirit-filled invitation into the journey of discovering your identity in Christ. Rick unpacks the exhaustion of living for other people’s approval, the damage of hidden shame, and the breakthrough that comes when we let God's Word redefine us. In this episode, you’ll learn: * Why chasing validation is a trap, and how to escape it * How early wounds shape our beliefs about ourselves * What Scripture actually says about your worth and identity * Why sanctification is less about striving and more about surrender * The simple prayer that changed Rick’s life: “Lord, help my unbelief.” “Once I started believing what the Bible said about me, it didn’t matter; because it didn’t define me anymore. God defines me.” —Rick

Coming Soon

The Who Are You Podcast Many Christians live stuck, defeated, and unsure of who they really are.  This show changes that. You’ll be encouraged to fully embrace &  follow Jesus, learn to hear His voice, and experience the abundant life that is available now, not later.  If you’re tired of chasing validation from others and want to know your true identity in Christ, this podcast is your roadmap. From cultural Christianity to real apprenticeship under Jesus, together we’ll move from confusion to clarity, from empty to secure, and from striving to loved. You don’t have to white knuckle it anymore!