The Zen Mastery Podcast
Dating feels impossible in 2026. But Joel Monteleone says the real answer has been the same for decades. We just stopped doing it. Get a Free Gift: https://grow.astrozenmarketing.com/ [https://grow.astrozenmarketing.com/] Joel is a dating and relationship strategist for high achieving women and entrepreneurs. In this episode he breaks down why most people keep dating the wrong people over and over, why dating apps solved a problem that did not exist, and why everything you want in a partner has to start with who you are willing to become. He also opens up about his own decade as what he calls a fuck boy and the moment that completely flipped his life. This is a conversation about radical honesty in dating, in your beliefs, and in your actions. TIMESTAMPS 1:50 — Why people keep dating the wrong people over and over 6:30 — How Joel went from a decade of being a fuck boy to building real relationships 17:40 — Date to marry: why misaligned actions kill the outcome you want 19:30 — You don't attract what you want, you attract who you are 26:30 — Where to actually meet your person if it's not at the bar 29:30 — Why dating apps solved a problem that didn't exist 35:30 — Why most people walk around thinking they are a burden 40:00 — What a relationship coach actually does for you 46:30 — Final advice: date your friends KEY HIGHLIGHTS You Don't Attract What You Want, You Attract Who You Are — If you want a grounded man, you have to be grounded. If you want someone who hosts events, you have to bring people together. The match starts internally. Your Non-Negotiables List Is Full of Preferences — You cannot have 50 non-negotiables and expect to find a real person. Focus on the relationship you want to co-create, not the checklist. Dating Apps Solved a Problem That Did Not Exist — They made connection easy and dating harder. The real move is becoming friendly with people in your everyday life. Date Your Friends — The person you already feel safe with might be the one. Joel says give them a chance. The Belief That You Are a Burden Is Killing Your Connection — If you walk around assuming you are bothering everyone, you rob the world of the connection that is right in front of you. Follow Joel Monteleone: https://www.instagram.com/joel_monteleone [https://www.instagram.com/joel_monteleone] Follow Martin Cordova in socials:https://www.instagram.com/astrozen28/ [https://www.instagram.com/astrozen28/] Subscribe to our newsletter:https://grow.astrozenmarketing.com/newsletter-signup-3288 [https://grow.astrozenmarketing.com/newsletter-signup-3288] Book a call to grow on social media and sell more: https://astrozenmarketing.com [https://astrozenmarketing.com]
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