A Game of Chance

Follow the Curiosity with Dr. Becky Achen

Adaptive Show Notes for "A Game of Chance" Podcast Episode with Dr. Becky AchenHook: Join Marianne Chance in a candid conversation with Dr. Becky Achen about leadership, building authentic relationships, embracing vulnerability, navigating AI in business, and the importance of curiosity. This episode offers practical insights for personal growth, network building, and leveraging technology ethically and creatively.Main Topics Covered: * Leadership lessons from Dr. Becky Achen's experience managing others with a growth mindset * The philosophy of working with people, not for them, rooted in servant leadership and relationship building * How background and upbringing influence core values and leadership styles * The power of curiosity in creating inclusive, psychologically safe spaces in education and the workplace * Strategies for building genuine connections and networks through intentional interaction and kindness * The evolving landscape of social media, authenticity, and managing mental health online * The opportunities and challenges presented by AI and generative models for small businesses and creators * Practical tips for integrating AI into workflows ethically and effectively without sacrificing authenticity * The Engaged Professor Website [https://theengagedprofessor.com/] * Rebecca Aken’s Email for Contact [rebecca@theengagedprofessor.com] * Book: Leadership and Servant Leadership Theory [https://www.amazon.com/s?k=servant+leadership] * Social Media Platform: LinkedIn [https://www.linkedin.com/in/rebeccaaiken] * LinkedIn [https://www.linkedin.com/in/rebeccaaiken] * Twitter [https://twitter.com/rebeccaaiken] Timestamps: (00:00) - Podcast introduction and guest background on leadership and relationships (02:30) - Becky shares her philosophy of working with people and servant leadership (05:00) - Influence of background and upbringing on leadership style (08:22) - Building trust and authentic relationships with students and colleagues (11:00) - The journey through diverse careers and how curiosity shaped her path (15:44) - Embracing continuous learning and avoiding the trap of "having to choose" one identity (19:57) - The impact of education, tuition reimbursement, and lifelong learning (26:46) - Tips on building meaningful connections and intentional networking (30:40) - Navigating social media, authenticity, and mental health awareness (34:11) - Creating safe, inclusive spaces through vulnerability and curiosity (44:32) - The potential of AI for creativity, small businesses, and ethical considerations (57:27) - Advice for adapting to AI advancements and leveraging new tools smartly (59:24) - How to connect and continue the conversation with Dr. Becky Achen [https://www.linkedin.com/in/rebeccaachen/] Note: This episode is packed with actionable insights on leadership, relationship-building, curiosity, and technology use that can help both educators and entrepreneurs navigate modern challenges ethically and effectively.

Making Friends Midlife with Meghan Davidson

Summary In this conversation, Marianne Chance and Dr. Meghan Davidson get honest about something most of us feel but rarely say out loud: female friendships are not a nice-to-have. They are a biological, emotional, and psychological necessity. Drawing on over 20 years of experience as a therapist and coach, Dr. Davidson walks through why the loneliness epidemic is hitting harder than most people realize, how to build meaningful friendships even when starting from scratch, and what happens when a friendship has simply run its course. From the Bumble BFF app to the seven-minute phone call, this episode is full of practical, grounded guidance for anyone who wants more depth and connection in their relationships. Titles "Seven Minutes Is Better Than No Minutes: Dr. Meghan Davidson on Female Friendships""The Friendship Episode Nobody Told You You Needed""Why Your Female Friendships Are More Important Than You Think" Sound Bites "Seven minutes is better than no minutes. Stop waiting for the hour you will never find.""We are wired for connection. Friendship is not something we just want. It is something we actually need.""If you are always the one initiating, pay attention to what that pattern is telling you.""We make time for what matters to us. The 'too busy' excuse is really a question of priority.""Some friendships are like a shoe that no longer fits. You can keep forcing your foot in, or you can let it go." Keywords female friendships, loneliness epidemic, emotional support, women and connection, friendship in midlife, how to make friends as an adult, relationship patterns, self-awareness, Bumble BFF, Dr. Megan Davidson, A Game of Chance podcast, Marianne Chance, friendship building, social wellbeing, mental health Key Topics Why female friendships are a necessity, not a luxury, and what current research says about the physical health consequences of loneliness How to build new friendships as an adult, including underrated tools like Bumble BFF and in-person shared activities The patterns that quietly damage existing friendships, including one-sided conversations, lack of mutual initiation, and growing apart over time How to recognize when a friendship has run its course versus when it simply needs a direct conversation Why even a seven-minute call matters more than most people think, and how to stop waiting for the "perfect" block of time to reconnect Chapters Chapters 00:00 Introduction to A Game of Chance 11:51 Navigating Life's Challenges Together 18:34 The Depth of Female Connections 31:43 Overcoming the 'Too Busy' Mentality 38:17 The Value of Short Connections 43:41 Navigating Life Stage Changes in Friendships 51:54 The Shoe Analogy: Outgrowing Friendships 57:09 The Importance of Mutual Initiation in Friendships Resources Bumble BFF: https://bumble.com/en/bffGallup CliftonStrengths: https://www.gallup.com/cliftonstrengths/en/home.aspxDr. Megan Davidson's Website: https://megandavidson.comBali Retreat 2027: https://megandavidson.com/bali-retreat-2027 Guest Links Instagram: https://instagram.com/megandavidsonWebsite: https://megandavidson.com

Finding your Third Place with Randy Hawthorne

A Game of Chance | Show NotesEpisode: The Third PlaceGuest: Randy Hawthorne, VP of Community Engagement, Downtown Lincoln Association Episode Overview Marianne sits down with her longtime friend Randy Hawthorne to explore the concept of the third place, the social environments that are neither home nor work where people can simply show up, be themselves, and belong. What starts as a conversation about community quickly becomes something more personal, touching on the loneliness epidemic, the role of technology and AI in our social lives, the power of shared experiences, and how intentionality can help us build the connections we are quietly craving. About Randy Hawthorne (Full bio linked below) Randy Hawthorne is the Vice President of Community Engagement at the Downtown Lincoln Association. He is a longtime community builder, entrepreneur, and connector who founded The Foundry, a coffee shop intentionally designed as a third place. Randy lectures at UNL and works closely with the next generation of leaders through programs like Launch Leadership. What We Cover * What a third place is and why most of us do not have one * How Randy built The Foundry around the concept without knowing the term * The difference between a third place and a favorite place * Why busyness became a status symbol and what it is costing us * The loneliness epidemic and how most of us do not recognize we are in it * What AI is doing to our need for human connection * Why shared experiences are the foundation of real relationships * What young people are doing that is giving Randy hope * How homes can become gathering places * Practical ways to set community goals for yourself Quotable Moments "A third place is where you can be yourself.""Shared experiences are key to community.""90% of life is showing up.""Water cooler conversations fill your soul." Books and Resources Mentioned * The Art of Gathering by Priya Parker * Bowling Alone by Robert Putnam * When by Daniel Pink (referenced in passing) * The movie Her (referenced in conversation about AI and connection) Chapters 00:00 Introduction02:26 Understanding the Concept of Third Places09:09 Finding Your Third Place11:56 The Impact of Community Engagement20:34 The Loneliness Epidemic and Its Ramifications28:23 The Role of Technology in Connection31:54 The Importance of Shared Experiences38:13 Creating Community in a Digital Age45:15 The Role of Sports in Community Building51:14 Home as a Third Place57:44 Setting Community Goals for Connection Connect with Randy Hawthorne https://www.linkedin.com/in/randyhawthorne/ 9:33 AM

The Seven Types of Rest with Elizabeth Buckner

Discover the importance of rest beyond just sleep with Elizabeth Buckner, a pastor, theologian, and community builder. This episode explores the many dimensions of restorative practices that are vital for a balanced life in a chaotic world. Key Topics * Defining rest as a life-giving activity, not just sleep * The seven types of rest: emotional, spiritual, sensory, social, physical, mental, and creative * How to recognize and implement emotional and sensory rest to recharge * Spiritual rest as connection with the divine, nature, or personal peace * The role of social rest in community and understanding personal boundaries * Physical and mental rest, including listening to your body's signals * Creative rest through art, food, play, and self-expression * How rest is intertwined with mental health, faith, and human connection * Practical ways to incorporate rest into everyday routines * The importance of community, belonging, and sharing rest with others * Challenging societal narratives around busyness and productivity * Resources for reclaiming Sabbath, solitude, and stillness Timestamps 00:00 - Introduction to the episode and Elizabeth's background 00:30 - Reflection on reconnecting after years and the art of friendship 02:31 - The significance of rest in a new year full of chaos 02:52 - What is rest? Beyond sleep, a life-giving activity 03:25 - Rest as restorative, not draining or destructive 03:57 - Biblical foundation: rest in Genesis as part of creation 04:48 - Rest is individually defined; examples from traditional and modern perspectives 05:34 - The seven types of rest: emotional, spiritual, sensory, social, physical, mental, and creative 06:18 - Emotional rest: managing overwhelm, social media detox, and boundaries 07:52 - Vicarious trauma and emotional self-care strategies 11:26 - Sensory rest: controlling your environment through lighting, sound, and mindfulness 13:49 - Using taste and smell, like herbs and food, as sensory anchors 15:47 - Spiritual rest: nature, art, and honest connection with the divine 16:52 - Hearing God and personal spiritual practices 18:07 - The importance of prayer and reflection in spiritual grounding 20:37 - Practicing pauses in prayer and understanding divine timing 23:27 - The challenge of unanswered prayers and trusting divine knowledge 24:22 - How God's pieces fit together in unexpected ways 25:40 - Personal stories of divine guidance and trusting the process 27:27 - Holding space for unanswered prayers and divine silence 28:54 - How community and shared experiences like sports can become spiritual practices 29:14 - Social rest modeled by Jesus: times of solitude and companionship 31:55 - Recognizing when social interactions are life-giving versus draining 33:49 - Choosing relationships that restore rather than deplete 34:16 - Building community through shared activities like S'mores Club 38:32 - The story behind S'mores Club: community as spiritual practice in adversity 39:50 - The biblical parallel of giving your last and watching community show up 42:40 - Connecting joy, kindness, and shared experiences with sacredness 43:35 - Physical and mental rest: listening to your body and your environment 44:37 - Restoring energy through intentional pockets of rest 47:04 - Listening to physical cues for self-care 48:42 - Challenging the glorification of busyness and reclaiming your time

The Emotional Weight of Our Stuff

What does your stuff say about you? And more importantly, what is it costing you? In this episode, Marianne Chance Worthington sits down with Jeannine Bryant, owner of Changing Spaces and an 18-year veteran of helping seniors right-size their lives, for one of the most refreshingly honest conversations you'll hear about what we own and why we hold on to it. They dig into the emotional weight of our possessions, the difference between a keepsake and clutter, and what we're actually leaving behind when we're gone. (Hint: it's not the Hummel figurines.) Jeannine shares hard-won wisdom from working with thousands of clients in their final chapter of life, and the lessons are just as relevant whether you're 35 or 85. If you've ever looked around your home and thought, "How did all of this get here," this one is for you. Takeaways * Our connection to stuff can be strong, but strong doesn't always mean healthy. * Right-sizing isn't about minimalism. It's about finding the sweet spot between too much and too little. * Keepsakes should bring joy, not guilt or sadness. If they don't, it might be time to let them go. * Our legacy lives in relationships and memories, not in our possessions. * Stuff without a story is just clutter. * The best time to bless others with your belongings is while you're still around to see them enjoy it. * Consumerism is great at promising happiness and terrible at delivering it. * Our identity shifts as we age, and our stuff doesn't always shift with us. * The earlier you start decluttering, the more intentional the process can be. * Giving generously creates joy for both the giver and the receiver. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to A Game of Chance 05:37 The Journey of Changing Spaces 10:27 Understanding Our Connection to Stuff 18:30 Keepsakes and Their Emotional Weight 24:11 Legacy: What We Leave Behind 32:28 The True Nature of Legacy 39:17 Blessing Others with Our Stuff 46:03 The Impact of Consumerism on Happiness 51:59 Identity and Stuff: A Personal Brand 55:25 Final Thoughts and Resources