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Who's REALLY The Problem?: A Review of Unfinished Business by Malcolm D. Lee and Jayne Allen

Twenty years of history should come with some growth, right? We crack open Fiddler Whiskey and then get brutally honest about Unfinished Business by Malcolm D. Lee and Jayne Allen. Harper is divorced, celebrated, and still emotionally blocked. Jordan is trying to protect her peace from Malibu. Robin has built a new life in Ghana. Somehow, the same old dynamics keep finding all three of them, and we’re left asking whether “closure” is real or just a pause between plot twists. We debate the question that frames the whole story: when your history runs deep, are you responding to the person standing in front of you, or the version of yourself you were when you first loved them? From friendship-versus-marriage expectations to boundaries that fold under pressure, we break down who’s actually healing, who’s just reacting, and why “sip happens” stops being cute when accountability is optional. We also talk love after 40, dating after divorce, and the hard truth that age doesn’t equal emotional maturity unless you do the work. You’ll leave with relationship takeaways on communication, conflict, therapy, and self-respect, plus our Lit Challenge “Check Your History” to help you reflect without texting, lurking, or reopening the wound. If you’ve ever been pulled back in by a familiar person, a familiar feeling, or a familiar version of yourself, this one’s for you. Subscribe, share with a friend who loves The Best Man universe, and leave a review, then tell us: Team Jordan, Team Robin, or Team Nobody? We like to know HOW LIT you were for this episode. Send us a text!! Let us know how you feel about this 📖 & 🍸. [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2466680/fan_mail/new] Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2466680/support]  ✨  Loved the vibe? Subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with someone who needs to laugh, live free, and have a good drink. Follow us on Facebook and IG @BlackGirlsLit_Podcast for behind-the-scenes sips, book pairings, and all the lit energy.

Yes to BADASSery: A review of Year of Yes by Shonda Rhimes

“Yes” sounds simple until it asks you to be seen, be bold, and be honest about what you actually want. We start season two of Black Girls Lit with Shonda Rhimes’ Year of Yes (10th anniversary edition) and a table full of Crystal Head Vodka cocktails, then we get into the real work behind the slogan: turning “yes” into an ongoing practice that you come back to again and again. We talk about the moments that changed our lives for real: leaving teaching, stepping into entrepreneurship, moving across the country, saying yes to adulthood, and learning how to choose ourselves outside the roles we carry for everyone else. We also get specific about what intentional living looks like day to day, because freedom has a price and boundaries are a form of self-respect. If you’ve ever struggled with confidence, public speaking, perfectionism, or caring too much about how you’re perceived, this conversation will feel like a mirror and a push. The pandemic reflections go deeper than nostalgia. We name COVID as a hard season while also unpacking what it revealed about routine, accountability, home life, and the need to separate rest from work when everything happens in the same space. Then we zoom out to one of the most lasting takeaways from Rhimes’ story: representation matters because you can’t be what you can’t see. Diversity isn’t a debate topic, it’s the fuel for imagination, especially for our kids and our communities. Take the lit challenge with us: make one intentional yes this week, share it with us, and let us celebrate you. If you enjoyed the conversation, subscribe, share the episode with a friend, and leave a review so more bookish baddies can find the table. We like to know HOW LIT you were for this episode. Send us a text!! Let us know how you feel about this 📖 & 🍸. [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2466680/fan_mail/new] Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2466680/support]  ✨  Loved the vibe? Subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with someone who needs to laugh, live free, and have a good drink. Follow us on Facebook and IG @BlackGirlsLit_Podcast for behind-the-scenes sips, book pairings, and all the lit energy.

The Mixologist In The End Times Survival Debate: Parable of the Sower Live Discussion

A doomsday story hits different when you’re laughing with a drink in hand and still realizing the warning might be real. We’re back for Thirsty Thursday with a Beehive Bellini and a look back at Octavia E. Butler’s Parable Of The Sower, including our very mixed reviews and the parts that stayed with us long after we closed the book. We get into the fun argument first: who belongs on an apocalyptic dream team? Some of us draft medics, DIY builders, and people who can navigate without GPS. One of us refuses to drop the mixologist pick, because if the end is coming, we might not be here for a long time, but we will be here for a good time. That debate opens up bigger questions about survival, comfort, and what we think we’d actually do when scarcity, violence, and constant fear become the weather. From there, we go deeper on Lauren Olamina, her hyperempathy syndrome, and why it’s so meaningful that Butler centers a young Black woman as the leader who builds community and creates Earthseed. We connect hyper empathy to the lived experience of Black women, including stereotypes, workplace inequity, and healthcare disparities like pain being dismissed and the ongoing Black maternal mortality crisis. Then we lighten it up with a reality dating show sidebar on age gaps and what’s too much. Subscribe for season two, share this with your favorite book friend, and leave a review if you want more smart reads with real talk. What’s your apocalypse team of five, and what’s the biggest age gap you’d actually date? We like to know HOW LIT you were for this episode. Send us a text!! Let us know how you feel about this 📖 & 🍸. [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2466680/fan_mail/new] Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2466680/support]  ✨  Loved the vibe? Subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with someone who needs to laugh, live free, and have a good drink. Follow us on Facebook and IG @BlackGirlsLit_Podcast for behind-the-scenes sips, book pairings, and all the lit energy.

The 15th Pour: The Parable of the Sower by Octavia Butler

Some books aren’t stories—they’re scripture. In Episode 15, we enter the prophetic world of Parable of the Sower by Octavia Butler—one of the most visionary and urgent voices in Black speculative fiction. This book doesn’t just imagine a dystopian future—it reminds us of the one we’re already living in. From environmental collapse and social breakdown to the birth of a new belief system through a young Black girl’s eyes, Butler’s brilliance shines in her ability to forecast truth wrapped in fiction. We explore the themes of survival, faith, autonomy, and building community when the world has turned its back on you. The conversation is layered, intellectual, and personal. We wrestle with what it means to have vision in the face of collapse—and how Earthseed, the fictional belief system in the novel, reflects a very real hunger for control, change, and spiritual grounding in our own time. We don’t read the sequel in this episode—but we talk about the kind of legacy this first installment leaves behind. And we ask: Is Parable of the Sower more relevant than The Handmaid’s Tale ever was? This isn’t a light read—but it’s an important one. And we showed up with the reverence it deserves. Come for the book. Stay for the conversation. 💫 We like to know HOW LIT you were for this episode. Send us a text!! Let us know how you feel about this 📖 & 🍸. [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2466680/fan_mail/new] Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2466680/support]  ✨  Loved the vibe? Subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with someone who needs to laugh, live free, and have a good drink. Follow us on Facebook and IG @BlackGirlsLit_Podcast for behind-the-scenes sips, book pairings, and all the lit energy.

The 14th Pour: In the Meantime by Love Belvin

There are love stories that sweep you off your feet—then there are the ones that make you sit in your silence, confront your patterns, and unearth the parts of yourself you've kept hidden. In Episode 14, just ahead of Valentine's Day, the full BGL crew—Natasha, Lex, Star, and Stephanie—step into the charged and emotionally layered world of In the Meantime by Love Belvin. This isn’t your average romance. This is love with teeth. Belvin writes like a woman who’s been through the fire and came back with the pen still burning. Often compared to Zane for her sensual honesty—but moving with more introspection and spiritual weight—Belvin’s work is about desire, yes, but also about accountability, transformation, and the ways we weaponize or withhold love. We get real about emotional submission, spiritual masculinity, feminine trust, ego, unlearning, and what it means to fall for someone in the “meantime”—that liminal space where you’re not quite whole, not quite healed, but still hoping love can find you. Every one of us brought something personal to this episode. There were moments where the silence said more than the words. Where we sat with scenes that mirrored things we didn’t expect to see in ourselves. And where we remembered that intimacy is not just about bodies—it’s about truth in close proximity. This isn’t just a Valentine’s read. This is the kind of love story that lingers in the room after the lights go out. Come for the book. Stay for the conversation. 💫 We like to know HOW LIT you were for this episode. Send us a text!! Let us know how you feel about this 📖 & 🍸. [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2466680/fan_mail/new] Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2466680/support]  ✨  Loved the vibe? Subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with someone who needs to laugh, live free, and have a good drink. Follow us on Facebook and IG @BlackGirlsLit_Podcast for behind-the-scenes sips, book pairings, and all the lit energy.