Get a Better Handle On Life

We are seeing a noticeable drop in standards of public courtesy. I think we all know some of the contributors, public figures and politicians giving free rein to their and fleeting judgments and prejudices with no regard for the normal rules of civil discourse. This appears to be affecting how we, the public, act when trying to get our needs met, particularly when we are under pressure. Little thought seems to be given to some of the people whose jobs involve dealing with the public. Is it time to name bad behaviour and call it out? Got a question or comment? Contact me [http://www.barrywinbolt.com/contact-me]. #tinycast #tinycastuk #badbehaviour #difficultpeople #trump #incivility #relationships

If you've got a single idea in your head about something that happened with another person, and it's harming you, harming your relationship, or both, this Tinycast is for you. When we can't step back from it and see an alternative point of view, and you can't hear the other person's explanation, this gets us into trouble a lot of the time. Our need for explanations regarding others' behaviour, can distort our thinking and harm relationships. This brief Tinycast explains how fixating on a single explanation for someone's actions can lead to misunderstandings and conflict. To counter this, psychologist Barry Winbolt illustrates a technique  for fostering mental flexibility, and reducing harmful ruminations. This approach promotes clarity and healthier relationships.

When unwanted change hits us it's natural to want to get through it as quickly as possible and put the past behind us. The paradox is, though, that our eagerness to move on can make drag out the process and hold up how we adapt. Got a question? Contact me. [https://www.barrywinbolt.com/contact-me/] Post: Moving On Might Mean Standing Still [https://www.barrywinbolt.com/moving-on-might-mean-standing-still/] #tinycast #tinycastuk #findingmeaning #dealingwithchange #transition #mentalwellbeing #personalgrowth

Here's an idea that can have real impact in a person't life. When someone says “I’m unhappy”, “I need to see you in my office at 3.00”, or “Don’t call us, we’ll call you”, the chances are the listener will provide their own overlay of meaning and start to worry. In which case, it’s the MEANING (not stated but provided by the listener) which triggers the worry. Whatever the information the speaker intends to convey gets overshadowed by the meaning the listener imposes on it. Now you know that, listen for how to use it. Got a question? Contact me. [https://www.barrywinbolt.com/contact-me/] Post: Whatever they say, It's Just Information [https://www.barrywinbolt.com/whatever-they-say-its-just-information/] #tinycast #tinycastuk #findingmeaning #attributions #hurtfeelings #mentalwellbeing #personalgrowth

Libby King, a gay solo parent-to-be, faced discrimination and isolation during her journey to start a family, with healthcare professionals often assuming she was heterosexual.   Libby’s personal experiences fueled her determination to help others. She founded the LGBT+ Parent Support Group, Bourne This Way, to offer guidance, community, and belonging for LGBTQ+ families and prospective parents. The committee at Bourne This Way is diverse, with each member contributing their own unique experiences. Together, they are committed to fostering growth, listening to members, and offering valuable support. As the founder and chair, Libby’s mission is to help others find belonging and support on their own parenting journeys. Find out more about Libby King at https://bournethiswaylgbtparents.co.uk [https://bournethiswaylgbtparents.co.uk/about/] Got a question or comment? Contact me [http://www.barrywinbolt.com/contact-me]. #bournethisway #getabetterhandleonlife  #LGBTQparenting #InclusiveParenting #SoloParentJourney