Ep. 149 - Stop Blaming. Start Leading (It Stops with Me Part 3)

Ep. 150 - Becoming the Man You Never Had (It Stops with Me Part 4)

What does it actually look like to become the man you never had? In Episode 4 of It Stops With Me, we move from breaking patterns… to building something new. Because it’s not enough to say, “I don’t want to repeat the past.” You have to decide who you’re becoming instead. Through real-life examples and powerful biblical models, this episode will challenge you to step into a new way of living—marked by presence, strength, and intentional love. This is where legacy starts to take shape. And if you want to go deeper into this journey, my new book, The Father Eclipse: How Your Earthly Father Shaped Your Identity and How to See God Clearly Again is available now on Amazon. [https://www.amazon.com/Father-Eclipse-Earthly-Identity-Clearly/dp/B0H1FBN6Y7/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&dib_tag=se&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.R1Fn_Ep5EVLOdZuCq_4QN8LrxD5Y5XKSqT2HTov1Kqg.G86MEj89AvD-tPXLpPRJxT28baJ8AajDLjmoc3Wt-IQ&qid=1778671882&sr=1-1] Grab a copy and get an extra one for another guy who needs to hear this.

Ep. 149 - Stop Blaming. Start Leading (It Stops with Me Part 3)

At some point, every man has to make a decision.  Will I keep blaming my past—or will I start leading my life? In Episode 3 of our current series on I Know a Guy, It Stops With Me, we make the turn from awareness to ownership. Because your story matters—but it doesn’t get to define you. Blame will keep you stuck. Ownership will set you free. This episode is about stepping out of victim thinking—and into the identity of a man who leads himself first. If this topic of generational patterns and legacy hits home for you, I unpack this even more in my newly released book, The Father Eclipse: How Your Earthly Father Shaped Your Identity and How to See God Clearly Again. Because what remains unhealed in one generation often gets repeated in the next.  It's now available on Amazon. [https://www.amazon.com/Father-Eclipse-Earthly-Identity-Clearly/dp/B0H1FBN6Y7/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&dib_tag=se&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.R1Fn_Ep5EVLOdZuCq_4QN8LrxD5Y5XKSqT2HTov1Kqg.G86MEj89AvD-tPXLpPRJxT28baJ8AajDLjmoc3Wt-IQ&qid=1778671882&sr=1-1]   I am Your Beloved" [https://open.spotify.com/track/3wNS3dTyxxEQQdfDz3yFeK?si=29c40f7f60ad4b7c]  Written by Jonathan David Helser and Brandon Lake.  Performed by Jonathan and Melissa Helser.  ℗ & © 2022 Bethel Music. All Rights Reserved. Used by Permission.

Ep. 148 - The Father Wound You Pretend Isn't There (It Stops with Me Part 2)

What if the struggles you’re facing right now didn’t actually start with you? What if the anger… the distance… the pressure… the way you react under stress—was shaped long before you even realized it? In Episode 1 of this new series on I Know a Guy, It Stops With Me, we’re uncovering how generational patterns are formed—and how they get passed down. But more importantly—how they can stop with you. You are not stuck. You are not doomed to repeat the past. This is where awareness begins—and where legacy starts to change. If today's episode resonates with you, my new book: The Father Eclipse: How Your Earthly Father Shaped Your Identity and How to See God Clearly Again" goes even deeper into how our earthly fathers shape the way we see ourselves… and God. It’s available now on Amazon. [https://www.amazon.com/Father-Eclipse-Earthly-Identity-Clearly/dp/B0H1FBN6Y7/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&dib_tag=se&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.R1Fn_Ep5EVLOdZuCq_4QN8LrxD5Y5XKSqT2HTov1Kqg.G86MEj89AvD-tPXLpPRJxT28baJ8AajDLjmoc3Wt-IQ&qid=1778671882&sr=1-1]

Ep. 147 - You Didn’t Start This But You Can End It (It Stops with Me Part 1)

What if the struggles you’re facing right now didn’t actually start with you? What if the anger… the distance… the pressure… the way you react under stress—was shaped long before you even realized it? In Episode 1 of this new series on I Know a Guy, "It Stops With Me," we’re uncovering how generational patterns are formed—and how they get passed down. But more importantly—how they can stop with you. You are not stuck. You are not doomed to repeat the past. This is where awareness begins—and where legacy starts to change. “You are not stuck. You are not doomed to repeat the past. This is where awareness begins—and where legacy starts to change. And if this conversation resonates with you, my new book, The Father Eclipse: How Your Earthly Father Shaped Your Identity and How to See God Clearly Again goes even deeper into how our earthly fathers shape the way we see ourselves and God. It’s available now on Amazon. [https://www.amazon.com/Father-Eclipse-Earthly-Identity-Clearly/dp/B0H1FBN6Y7/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&dib_tag=se&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.R1Fn_Ep5EVLOdZuCq_4QN8LrxD5Y5XKSqT2HTov1Kqg.G86MEj89AvD-tPXLpPRJxT28baJ8AajDLjmoc3Wt-IQ&qid=1778671882&sr=1-1]   I am Your Beloved" [https://open.spotify.com/track/3wNS3dTyxxEQQdfDz3yFeK?si=29c40f7f60ad4b7c]  Written by Jonathan David Helser and Brandon Lake.  Performed by Jonathan and Melissa Helser.  ℗ & © 2022 Bethel Music. All Rights Reserved. Used by Permission.

Ep. 146 - What IF This is Where It Changes?

Father’s Day is over — but what if the real impact of it is just beginning? In this special episode of I Know a Guy, we slow down and reflect on what surfaced this weekend— the gratitude, the tension, the silence. And ask a deeper question:  What is God inviting you into right now? Because healing doesn’t happen by accident. It happens when we choose to lean in. if this episode resonates with you, my new book, The Father Eclipse: How Your Earthly Father Shaped Your Identity and How to See God Clearly Again goes even deeper into how our earthly fathers shape the way we see ourselves… and God. It’s available now on Amazon. [https://www.amazon.com/Father-Eclipse-Earthly-Identity-Clearly/dp/B0H1FBN6Y7/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&dib_tag=se&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.R1Fn_Ep5EVLOdZuCq_4QN8LrxD5Y5XKSqT2HTov1Kqg.G86MEj89AvD-tPXLpPRJxT28baJ8AajDLjmoc3Wt-IQ&qid=1778671882&sr=1-1]  Get 2 copies and help scatter seed into another man's life who needs to hear this.