Stories that Shaped Me with Avram Gonzales

Stories That Shaped Me Recap

In this special recap episode, Avram Gonzales reflects on completing a 40-day creative challenge that turned into Stories That Shaped Me: forty videos, forty stories, and a powerful return to consistency, creativity, and self-expression. What began as a simple challenge from a friend—to show up on camera every day—quickly became something deeper. Over the course of the series, Avram rediscovered his love for creating, sharing, and telling stories that mattered. What once felt like a drain on time and energy became a source of momentum and clarity instead. In this episode, Avram shares three key takeaways from the journey: * How consistency brought freedom instead of burnout * Why challenges help him stay focused, grounded, and confident * And how clarity came from doing, not from overthinking or planning ahead More than a recap, this episode is an invitation. Avram encourages listeners to consider taking on a challenge of their own—something that requires showing up imperfectly, consistently, and honestly. Because sometimes the thing you’re searching for doesn’t appear until you hit record and begin. This episode closes the Stories That Shaped Me series by reflecting on how the act of telling the stories became a story in itself.

E40: The Ingredients of an Open Mind

In this final episode of Stories That Shaped Me, Avram Gonzales reflects on one of the most influential experiences of his childhood: spending extended time in Belgium with his family. Every couple of years, from early childhood through his mid-teens, Avram lived for weeks at a time immersed in another culture, language, and way of life. Those trips quietly shaped how he sees the world. Being surrounded by French sparked mental flexibility and curiosity. Experiencing a slower, more communal pace of life showed him the value of connection and presence. Even small moments—learning responsible drinking early, watching neighbors casually gather for hours, or realizing someone learned English simply by watching TV—expanded his understanding of what’s possible beyond the norms he knew back home. Looking back, Avram sees how this exposure to different people, ideas, and environments helped cultivate an open mind and a balanced perspective that carried into adulthood. It taught him that there are many valid ways to live, connect, and show up in the world. This episode serves as a reflection and a closing note to the series—a reminder that curiosity, travel, and openness can shape us just as powerfully as any single defining moment. Avram invites listeners to revisit the other stories and reflect on the experiences that shaped them, too.

E39: The Most Anticlimactic Moment

In this episode, Avram Gonzales shares one of the most confusing and unexpected moments of his life—the day he reached a major milestone and felt absolutely nothing. After the excitement of high school graduation and the sense of possibility that followed college, Avram expected his graduate school commencement to feel even bigger. He had worked harder than ever, pushed through the most demanding academic program of his life, and arrived at what should have been a defining moment. Instead, the ceremony ended and the feeling never came. Avram reflects on sitting there, wondering why the joy, pride, and excitement he thought he was supposed to feel were completely absent. Through that experience, he began to understand something many people encounter but rarely talk about: the destination often doesn’t deliver what we expect—because the meaning lives in the journey, not the finish line. This episode explores ambition, expectation, and the quiet letdown that can come after achieving a long-sought goal. It’s a reminder to pay attention to the process, to savor growth as it’s happening, and to remember that fulfillment usually isn’t waiting on the other side of a milestone.

E38: The First Dollar I Made Online Isn't What I Expected

In this episode, Avram Gonzales shares the story of the very first money he ever made on the internet—and how it was far smaller, yet far more meaningful, than he ever expected. Late one night in 2010, a simple conversation with a friend introduced him to something he’d never heard of before: affiliate marketing. After signing up for Amazon’s affiliate program and sharing a single product link, Avram earned his first commission—83 cents. It wasn’t even a dollar, but to him it was proof. Proof that making money online wasn’t a mystery reserved for other people. It was something he could actually do. That small moment cracked open a much bigger possibility. If he could do it once, he could do it again—and again. What started with a whiteboard and a single commission became the foundation for a 15-year career in internet marketing, selling products and services online to support his life, his family, and his future. This episode is a reflection on momentum, belief, and how even the smallest win can change the trajectory of everything that comes after.

E37: The Second-Longest Standing Prank I Ever Pulled

In this episode, Avram Gonzales shares a lighter story that reveals one of his longtime traits: a love for a well-executed prank. What started as a spontaneous moment during a house tour turned into one of the longest-running jokes he’s ever pulled. While his mom was showing off a newly remodeled bathroom to a friend, Avram quietly hid behind a curtain and flicked the light switch—once, then again. The moment quickly took on a life of its own, with laughter, speculation, and eventually a full-blown ghost story involving a beloved neighbor who had passed away earlier that year. Instead of confessing, Avram stayed quiet and let the story grow. For years, he listened as the tale was retold again and again—sometimes right in front of him—without anyone knowing he was the “ghost” behind it all. When the truth finally came out, it revealed just how far a small prank can travel when left untouched. Avram reflects on how this story connects to his playful nature—and hints at an even bigger prank still unfolding years later, known only by a handful of people. This episode is a reminder that not every story that shapes us is heavy—some are about humor, timing, and knowing when to keep a straight face.