Triggered by Your Spouse's Ex | Relationship Talk
YOUR SPOUSE'S EX..
So this topic has come up a few times this past year and I was finally inspired to write a post about it and record a video.
I was chatting with a friend the other day and she mentioned how she gets insanely jealous of her boyfriends ex and doesn't like going to places he has been with his ex's and she just doesn't feel good enough that he has dated people before her.
Basically she wishes she would be the only person he has ever dated.
Now, I am sure most of you know that these feelings have a lot to do with insecurities within herself (which I have no idea why! She is an awesome person, full of light and love) but anyway, something I said to her made her change the way she looked at it.
I told her: "Listen, Nicole (not her name, hehehe) why don't you think about it this way, because of all the relationships he has had before, it has lead him to you and you are literally dating a different version of him than he was with his ex's. So in a way, you are the only person that has ever dated him, that specific version of him."
Which made her go: "Oh wow, I never thought about it that way! That's really a good way to think about it."
Clearly, if you are dealing with these kind of issues, it is a good idea to seek the hurt within and as to why you are being triggered by it.
REMEMBER:
Your triggers; your pain points are simply showing up to bring awareness to the parts you need to heal within yourself.
You need to ask yourself, why does it bother you?
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