Orderly Podcast

The Pace of Discernment With Mary Jane Stewart

What if discernment isn’t about slowing down—but about moving at the right pace with God? In this deeply personal and powerful episode of Orderly, Becky Crawley is joined by her cousin, close friend, and missionary, Mary Jane Stewart. Together, they reflect on a pivotal season when both found themselves at major life crossroads—facing uncertainty, risk, and the need to trust God in ways that would shape their futures. Mary Jane shares her journey from a post-high school mission with YWAM to building a life and family on the mission field in South Africa. She gives an inside look at the realities women are facing in rural communities—and how God is moving in profound ways through her work. As she steps into a new season of deeper commitment through her initiative, Woven, the stakes—and the faith required—are higher than ever. Becky and MJ anchor their conversation in the story of Abigail (1 Samuel 25), a woman whose discernment, courage, and swift action not only saved her household—but also protected David from making a devastating mistake. Together, they explore what it means to: * Recognize when God is calling you to act quickly * Build your “risk muscle” over time * Step into obedience without knowing the outcome * Use discernment to protect others—and yourself—from harm This episode is both an invitation and a challenge: to live with greater awareness, courage, and alignment with God’s voice. You’ll also hear practical ways to support MJ’s mission, including sharing this episode, giving financially, and partnering in prayer. Because sometimes, the most orderly life isn’t the safest one—it’s the one fully surrendered to God. Subscribe, share, and join us next time. CONNECT WITH MJ & HER FAMILY: Learn About WOVEN [https://ugc.production.linktr.ee/c2003cdd-284f-4568-8ecd-dab1eaf67050_Hunter-and-Mary-Jane---Personal-Invitation.pdf?utm_source=ig&utm_medium=social&utm_content=link_in_bio] DONATE TO WOVEN  [https://meigiving.org/donate-associate?utm_source=ig&utm_medium=social&utm_content=link_in_bio] (WOVEN DESIGNATION CODE: HM3986) RESTORED FACIAL OIL [https://restoredserum.tiiny.site/?utm_source=ig&utm_medium=social&utm_content=link_in_bio] MJ ON INSTAGRAM [https://www.instagram.com/_maryjanestewart_?igsh=MWs5azFra3YxZWxyZQ%3D%3D]

Curiosity: The Cure for Our Friendship Recession

We’re living in a time of growing division, assumptions, and isolation—but Jesus calls us into something radically different: connection, understanding, and love. In this episode of the Orderly Podcast, Becky Crawley continues the Friendship Series by unpacking the first key attribute of biblical friendship: Curiosity. Curiosity is the antidote to misunderstanding, the pathway to deeper connection, and the posture that helps us see people the way Jesus does—beyond labels and into the heart. Becky shares personal stories, cultural insights on the “friendship recession,” and powerful biblical examples of Jesus practicing curiosity with the woman with the issue of blood and the Samaritan woman at the well. Together, we’ll explore how curiosity can break down division, heal conflict, and bring light into relationships. If you’re tired of surface-level conversations, assumptions, and relational distance, this episode will help you ask better questions, cultivate deeper friendships, and love with the heart of Christ.

When Friends Push You to Your Calling

In this first episode of our new Friendship Series, Becky Crawley reflects on the power of friendship—both human and divine—and how it shapes our lives in ways instruction alone never can. Sharing a personal story about her best friend and co-host, Becky explores what it means to step into your calling, embrace support, and grow through relationships that challenge and encourage you. From the laughter and lessons of childhood friendships to the deep, sustaining friendships we form as adults, this episode uncovers why meaningful relationships matter and how Jesus modeled friendship for us all. Join Becky as she lays the foundation for a series that will explore curiosity, commitment, compassion, and confidence—four qualities that make friendships thrive. Whether you’re navigating new connections, longing for deeper bonds, or simply curious about how faith and friendship intersect, this episode is a heartwarming invitation to step into the kind of relationships that transform lives. BeckyCrawley.com [https://www.beckycrawley.com/]

Beyond Goals: Discerning God’s Calling for the Year Ahead

As the new year approaches, we’re often encouraged to set goals, optimize our lives, and chase measurable progress. But what if that framework is missing something essential? In this episode of Orderly, Becky explores the difference between goals and calling—and why Scripture consistently points us toward a slower, more relational way of living. Through biblical stories, cultural observations, and personal reflection, this episode invites you to shift from self-directed achievement to God-directed obedience, and to begin listening for the calling God may already be speaking into your life. BeckyCrawley.com [https://www.beckycrawley.com/]

When We Forget: Finding Jesus Again at Christmas

What is Christmas really about—and how do we help our families remember when the noise of the season is so loud? In this episode of Orderly, Becky returns after a season away to reflect on how motherhood has reshaped her experience of Christmas. With a four-year-old who is fully captivated by Santa and the sparkle of the season, Becky found herself asking a deeper question: How do we keep Jesus at the center—not just in what we say, but in how we live? That question led her into a rich exploration of remembrance—through Scripture, church history, and meaningful traditions like the Christmas tree, Advent, the Advent wreath, and even Hanukkah. Together, these practices tell a powerful story of light, sacrifice, miracles, and God’s faithfulness across generations. Becky weaves biblical reflections with personal stories, examining why God calls His people to remember again and again—and how forgetting often leads us astray. From Jesus’ frustration with the disciples’ short memories to the call to live as bearers of light in a dark world, this episode invites listeners to slow down and reclaim the deeper meaning of the season. Whether you’re feeling overwhelmed by consumerism, longing for a more intentional Christmas, or simply craving a moment of quiet reflection, this episode offers encouragement, practical ideas, and a hopeful reminder: remembrance shapes faith—and light was never meant to stay hidden. Read more at BeckyCrawley.com [https://www.beckycrawley.com/] Resources: She Reads Truth Advent Devotionals [https://www.shopshereadstruth.com/collections/advent-2025-tidings-of-comfort-and-joy] Advent Blocks for Kids [https://goodkind.shop/products/advent-blocks-traditions-mode?srsltid=AfmBOoqTIntjnAqS6853QsBPNx_9J5cewX4icEk5E7ytxnmxXNnbluML]