Pressure Tested

More Than Willpower: Heather Ormand on Addiction, Motherhood, and Nexus

In this heavy but deeply inspiring episode of Pressure Tested, Kelly sits down with Heather Ormand to discuss the hidden realities of high-functioning addiction and the life-changing work being done at Nexus.+3 Heather opens up about her personal journey, sharing how she started drinking at 14 to cope with the internal pressures of being a perfectionist and the "perfect" oldest daughter. She details what it was like to hide her severe depression and alcoholism while successfully climbing the corporate ladder at a major public accounting firm.+4 Now almost 15 years sober, Heather uses her professional background to lead Nexus, a female-only substance use disorder treatment facility in the DFW area. She explains the unique challenges women face in recovery and why Nexus allows mothers to bring up to three children into residential treatment with them.+4 In this episode, we cover: The Mask of Perfectionism: Heather’s experience as a high-functioning alcoholic who drank to blackout while graduating summa cum laude and excelling in her career.+2 The Mission of Nexus: Why a female-only treatment environment is crucial for vulnerability and trauma healing.+1 Ending Generational Cycles: How treating women in all stages of pregnancy improves birth outcomes and why allowing kids to live on campus keeps families out of the foster system.+3 Reframing Recovery: Why Nexus uses the word "recurrence" instead of "relapse" and how society needs to rethink medication-assisted treatments like Suboxone.+2 Building for the Future: A look into the massive $35 million capital campaign to rebuild the Nexus campus to better serve vulnerable families.+1 Would you like me to write a few comments you could pin to the top of the YouTube video to encourage viewer engagement? 01:16 - Welcome to the podcast: Kelly praises Heather’s cool and collected nonprofit leadership. 04:06 - What is Nexus? The history of Dallas's female-only substance use disorder treatment facility. 06:49 - Breaking generational cycles: Why Nexus allows mothers to bring up to three children into residential treatment. 08:39 - The 90-day family program: Building healthy routines and attachments between moms and kids. 12:28 - A magical success story: Zayden’s 8th birthday during the COVID lockdown and McKenzie's journey to becoming a police officer. 18:05 - The heavy side of recovery: Dealing with recurrence, loss, and survivor's guilt. 21:36 - From accounting to counseling: Why Heather realized she couldn't be in direct client care. 26:15 - Reframing recovery pathways: Using Suboxone as a tool and why Nexus removes barriers like mandated faith-based programs. 33:35 - Heather's personal story: Drinking at 14 to cope with the pressure of being the "perfect" oldest daughter. 36:05 - The illusion of high-functioning addiction: Graduating summa cum laude, getting promoted, and drinking to blackout. 41:04 - The future of Nexus: The massive $35 million capital campaign to rebuild a safe, modern campus for vulnerable families.

From Jewelry to Investment Banking: A Female Founder's Path in M&A with Lindsey Wendler

In this episode of Pressure Tested, Kelly Roberts sits down with Lindsey Wendler, Managing Director at 414 Capital, for a masterclass on Mergers and Acquisitions. Lindsey shares her unconventional journey from starting a jewelry business in Europe to becoming one of the few female leaders in Dallas investment banking. If you are a business owner thinking about an exit, this conversation is mandatory listening. Lindsey breaks down the complex world of M&A into simple terms, explaining why selling a business is like selling a house—but with much higher stakes. They dive deep into the current state of the market, the truth about the "Silver Tsunami," and why industries like HVAC are being flooded with Private Equity cash. Key topics covered: * The M&A Process: What actually happens when you decide to sell, and why you need a Quality of Earnings (QofE) report before you ever go to market. * Deal Killers: Why deals fall apart at the finish line and how to manage the intense emotions of selling your life's work. * Valuation Reality Check: Why your business might not be worth what you think it is, and the "golden" metrics (like recurring revenue) that buyers pay a premium for. * Women in Finance: Lindsey opens up about the intensity of investment banking and being a female leader in a male-dominated industry. Whether you're running a $2M trade business or a $200M enterprise, Lindsey’s insights on preparation, infrastructure, and financial discipline will help you build a company that is actually built to sell.

21. The Myth of "Scary Mold", Firing Toxic Employees, and Betting the 401k with Shelley Hines

In this episode of Pressure Tested, we sit down with Shelley Hines, CEO of DCG Environmental, to discuss the gritty reality of building a multi-million dollar business in a male-dominated industry. Shelley shares how she turned a "cracker box" downsizing and a depleted 401(k) into a thriving environmental consulting firm. We dig into the specific "pressure tests" of scaling, from the intrusive state inspections required to prove she wasn't just a "paper wife" to get certified , to the cash-flow strain of paying new hires for seven months before they can legally generate revenue. Shelley also opens up about the "myth" of black mold , why she fires toxic employees even when it hurts , and how she earns respect on the job site without wearing heels . If you want to know what it really takes to scale a blue-collar business—and how to survive the financial punches that come with it—this conversation is for you.

20. Bodybuilding to Boardrooms: Applying Discipline to Real Estate With Alexia Tuttle | Pressure Tested

In this episode of "Pressure Tested," host Kelly Roberts sits down with the multi-talented and highly-driven entrepreneur, Alexia Tuttle. Alexia shares her extraordinary journey from a chaotic, poverty-stricken childhood in Connecticut to becoming a successful partner in a decade-old worldwide nutrition coaching business, a commercial real estate investor, and co-founder of a new hydration brand. Alexia opens up about the core philosophies that drove her success: an intense focus on logic over emotion, which she adopted because emotional safety felt unsafe , and the discovery of discipline through competitive bodybuilding, which provided the structure she craved. She details how she and her husband, a registered dietitian and pro bodybuilder , scaled their primary nutrition coaching business by 250% annually by prioritizing efficiency and a high work ethic , eventually moving to Dallas for greater personal and professional freedom. The conversation takes a deep dive into Alexia's pivot to commercial real estate. She candidly recounts a massive "Pressure Tested" failure: losing over $200,000 in collective earnest money by partnering with untrustworthy individuals on two initial multi-family deals in North Carolina and North Georgia. This painful lesson solidified her commitment to meticulous due diligence (underwriting 200+ deals before finding the right one) , local investing , and the importance of a transparent and honest gut check on partners. Finally, Alexia and Kelly discuss the importance of radical transparency in business, arguing it is the "new currency," especially with investors. Alexia shares her unique approach to leadership, working with her partners, and managing investor relations by giving full disclosure—including the bad news—to build long-term trust and reputation over a single deal's profit. The episode concludes with a humorous look at her passion for bodybuilding, the pitfalls of the "all-or-nothing" mindset in fitness , and the unexpected creation of their third venture, a hydration brand. 00:00:00 - Transparency is the New Currency for Business

19. The Art and Science of Estimating with Yesenia Garcia, NTD Mechanical

In this episode of "Pressure Tested," host Kelly Roberts goes boots-on-the-ground with Yesenia Garcia, the VP of Sales and Marketing at MTD Mechanical. With 25 years in the industry, Yesenia shares her incredible journey from answering phones as a 19-year-old temp to becoming a powerhouse executive in the construction world. Kelly and Yesenia kick things off by tackling the industry's biggest hurdle—the talent gap—and how the Garland ISD P-TECH program is changing the game by showing high school students that construction careers go way beyond just swinging a hammer. Kelly digs into the nuts and bolts of MTD’s success, exploring how they built a $30 million business by owning the "dirty air" renovation niche that other contractors are too scared to touch. But it hasn’t all been smooth sailing. The duo gets real about a massive "Pressure Tested" failure: a disastrous expansion into plumbing that cost the company $300,000 and nearly forced them to close their doors. They unpack the gritty leadership it took to survive that crisis, retain talent when competitors were offering "dollar raises," and the importance of transparent communication with the field. Finally, Kelly highlights Yesenia’s recent recognition as the Regional Hispanic Contractors Association’s Executive of the Year. They have a candid conversation about the "confidence gap" women face in the trades and why it is critical to "have a voice" in the boardroom. Yesenia also breaks down her disciplined 5 AM routine and the tactical 15-minute "Daily Huddle" that keeps her sales and engineering teams aligned and moving fast.