Why Change, To A Narcissist, Feel Like Death (Sex, Lies & Cluster B Ep. 5)

Why Change, To A Narcissist, Feel Like Death (Sex, Lies & Cluster B Ep. 5)

- why stability feel like death to a narcissist - narcissist "snapshot" theory - why boundaries feel like attack - how they use sex as anxiety medication - how the false self "mummifies" the true self - why narcissists can't see your disappearance - the pathological shared fantasy

In Bed With A Narcissist, Psychopath or Histrionic (Sex, Lies & Cluster B, Ep. 4)

- how to tell the difference between histrionic, narcissist, and psychopath in bed - why they look identical- the emotional temperature test - what "I love you" means to each one - what sociosexuality means for each - three voices that live in one person - the robotic doll test- the "don't ask, don't tell" idea

Paranoia In Bed (Sex, Lies, & Cluster B, Ep. 2)

- what is paranoid ideation - two strands of paranoia - the false self enemy - twin anxieties - the persecutory object - the 5 behavioral outcomes of paranoid ideation - projective identification - narcissistic mirroring - what happens

Sex, Lies, & Cluster B (ep. 1): How To Tell Someone's Personality By How They Behave In Bed

• Why sex is a map of the whole personality • Why the paranoid partner can't stay present in bed • Three Cluster B types look identical - one is cold • Why "I love you" and "you're a prop" come from same person • The false self: the wall that kills intimacy • They use sex like a sedative• Warmth vs. emptiness -how to tell them apart

Post-Family-Abuse - After Going No-Contact (Family Dynamics of Cluster B, Ep. 8)

- why you feel worse or hollow after no-contact - a different kind of grief - identity from grievance - why an internalized abusive voice sounds like you - how to integrate the idea of "co-independence" - why the family member hoovers - what the finishing line actually is