The Space Between The Waves

The Space Between The Waves Podcast The F Bucket

Meanwhile, if you’ve ever been to one of The Tiki Bar New Year’s Eve parties, then you already know about the “F” Bucket. It’s something I came up with a long time ago for anyone looking to let go of something…or finally make a change. The idea is simple. You write down whatever it is that’s been weighing on you…a habit, a thought, a situation…fold it up, toss it in the bucket with a dollar, and walk away from it. That dollar? That’s your buy-in. Your way of saying, “I’m serious about this.” And here’s where it gets real. The next time that same problem shows up, you don’t entertain it. You don’t negotiate with it. You simply hold up your hand and say, “I’m sorry…that’s already in the ‘F’ Bucket,” and you move on. It sounds simple…maybe even a little funny…but it’s powerful if you actually follow through. The thing is, I’ve never really called it a New Year’s resolution. It’s not about waiting for some perfect moment on the calendar. It’s about dealing with something right here…right now. Because if you think about it, you don’t need New Year’s Eve to decide you’ve had enough. You don’t need a countdown or a celebration to make a change. You can put something in that “F” Bucket anytime you choose. We just don’t always give ourselves permission to do it. So maybe today’s the day you do. Remember, stop giving your energy to things you can’t control. And as always…go where you’re celebrated, not tolerated. Have a wonderful day…see you on the radio. Follow along with Tiki Bar Publishing, The Space Between the Waves Podcast, and Tiki Man Radio for more good vibes.

The Space Between The Waves Podcast If Your Going Through Hell Keep Going

Meanwhile, Winston Churchill once said, “If you’re going through hell…keep going.” It’s a simple thought, but a powerful one. Because when life gets heavy…when things feel uncertain or even overwhelming…standing still only keeps you there. Forward, no matter how slow, is still progress. Over the years, I’ve had a lot of characters come and go in my life. Some stayed for a season…others were just brief moments, like a passing stranger along this long, strange trip we’re all on. But I’ve come to believe that people show up for a reason. Maybe they help guide you forward…or maybe they simply help you understand exactly where you are. We need people…even if just for a moment. If you’ve ever stood by the ocean at night, you’ve probably seen it…those distant ship lights blinking far out on the water. They move slowly…bobbing back and forth…until, eventually, they fade out of sight. Some ships are just passing through your horizon…never meant to dock…just meant to remind you there’s something beyond where you’re standing. And maybe that’s the point. Not everyone is meant to stay. Some are there to teach you, some to challenge you, and some just to pass by and remind you to keep moving forward. Remember, no matter how tough the waters feel right now…keep going. Your shoreline is out there, even if you can’t quite see it yet. Have a wonderful day…see you on the radio. Follow along with Tiki Bar Publishing, The Space Between the Waves Podcast, and Tiki Man Radio for more good vibes.

The Space Between The Waves Podcast Choices are the Hinges of Destiny

Meanwhile, there are times in life when you feel a little worn down…maybe even off course. Sometimes it comes from choices you wish you could take back, and other times it’s simply life showing up in ways you never saw coming. You think you’ve made all the right moves…then suddenly things shift. A company you believed in closes its doors. A relationship you counted on changes direction. Life brings new beginnings like children, and also moments of hardship like sickness and loss. So much of it reminds you just how little control we really have. It’s been said, “Choices are the hinges of destiny.” And in many ways, life plays out like a game of chess. Every move matters…every decision carries weight. Those choices become the hardware that determines whether the door ahead opens wide…or stays closed a little longer. The thing about chess is, there’s no “undo” button. Once you let go of the piece, the move is final. You can’t go back and change it…but you can always decide what your next move will be. Some people play one move at a time…others play the long game. The difference often comes down to shifting your focus from “What feels good right now?” to “Where will this lead me later on?” No matter what you’re facing right now, or how heavy it may feel…chances are, it will pass. It just doesn’t always feel that way in the moment. Remember, don’t let fear or doubt make your decisions for you. Choose what moves you forward…what strengthens you…and trust that you’ll find your way through. Have a wonderful day…see you on the radio. Follow along with Tiki Bar Publishing, The Space Between the Waves Podcast, and Tiki Man Radio for more

The Space Between The Waves Podcast- See The Good

Meanwhile, down in Key West, a painted concrete buoy marks what’s known as the southernmost point in the continental United States, placed there back in 1983. Before that, it was just a simple wooden sign…nothing fancy…just a quiet marker that read, “The Southernmost Point, of Southernmost City, Key West Fla.” These days, while repairs are being done to the seawall, there’s even a temporary duplicate buoy set up nearby at the end of Duval Street. If you’ve ever been to Key West, chances are you’ve stood in that line…waiting your turn to snap a photo…proof that you made it. Ninety miles to Cuba, closer to another country than you are to Miami…that alone makes it feel a little different. One day, I stood across the street just watching it all unfold. Tourists coming and going, some full of energy, some moving a little slower thanks to the night before. All kinds of people…different backgrounds, different stories…yet for a brief moment, they all shared something simple and genuine. Because here’s the interesting part…that buoy comes with one small condition. If you want your picture taken, someone else has to take it for you. So the person behind you steps up, snaps your photo, hands your phone back…then you return the favor. One by one, all day long…a quiet exchange of trust between strangers. It’s a small thing, easy to overlook…but it says a lot. Kindness shows up like that more often than we think…in simple, everyday moments. You just have to be willing to notice it. You can choose to focus on what’s wrong…or you can do what those words embedded in the sidewalk say: “One Human Family.” Remember, see the good. See what’s right. And don’t miss the chance to appreciate those small, meaningful moments. Have a wonderful day…see you on the radio. Follow along with Tiki Bar Publishing, The Space Between the Waves Podcast, and Tiki Man Radio for more good vibes.

The Space Between The Waves Podcast-Just Keep Moving

Meanwhile, somewhere between that first cup of coffee and the sound of the world starting to wake up, there’s a moment…a quiet one…where you get to decide how this week is going to go. I’ve learned to enjoy my mornings a little slower than I once did—taking time to appreciate the silence after an adventure-filled dream. That space, that pause…there’s something important in it. No matter how your day begins, a little reflection can go a long way. A lot of people spend their time waiting for the “right time,” the perfect conditions, or some kind of sign that it’s okay to move forward. But the truth is, most of the time, nothing changes until you decide to take that first step. You don’t have to have it all figured out. You don’t need the whole picture. Sometimes it’s enough to simply begin, trusting that you’ll adjust as you go. For some, that constant motion feels overwhelming…for others, it’s just another day. Either way, progress is still progress, no matter the pace. So here we are…a brand new week, sitting right in front of you. No matter what last week looked like, this one’s yours to shape. Make the call you’ve been putting off. Start the thing you’ve been thinking about. Take one step in a new direction. Remember, just because you can’t see the whole journey yet doesn’t mean you’re not already on your way…just keep moving. Have a wonderful day, see you on the radio. Follow along on Tiki Bar Publishing, The Space Between The Waves Podcast, and Tiki Man Radio for more good vibes.