Father's Refuge

Even Though, We Will with Matthew Elfrid

I would love to hear from you. Click the link now [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2528600/fan_mail/new] Finding Hope and Faith After Child Loss: An Interview with Matthew EfirdIn this heartfelt conversation, Matthew Efird shares his journey through unimaginable grief after losing his son Noah to trisomy 13. Discover how faith, community, and personal resilience can guide parents through sorrow towards hope and healing.Main Topics: * The emotional journey of diagnosing and mourning a child with trisomy 13 * The role of faith and Scripture in navigating grief * How men can process emotions and support each other during loss * Practical advice for fathers grieving the loss of a child * Building community and seeking help when feeling isolated Timestamps: 00:00 - Welcome and overview of Matthew Efird's story  01:13 - The emotional impact of Noah's diagnosis and early grief 03:40 - Recognizing and processing feelings of helplessness  05:43 - The medical journey and diagnosis of trisomy  13 07:23 - Early thoughts and emotions as Noah’s life was coming to an end  11:14 - How faith in Jesus sustains during tragedy 1 3:29 - The significance of understanding that children belong to God  17:34 - The importance of example and mentorship in faith 20:02 - Reflecting on Noah’s unique story and God's mercy  22:14 - The importance of trusting God's plan amidst suffering  23:43 - The hope of reunion in heaven and trusting God's sovereignty  26:56 - Navigating faith when emotions threaten to shake trust  27:44 - The process of sanctification and walking with God in grief  30:10 - Embracing worship and lamentations in times of hardship  33:34 - Supporting others and offering presence over advice  36:20 - The importance of listening and asking permission in support  44:19 - Challenges faced by men without faith or community support 4 6:17 - Taking initiative to build meaningful friendships  48:26 - The necessity of relying on Christ and avoiding isolation 4 9:15 - The leadership role of fathers in grief and resilience  50:45 - Practical steps for men to seek help and community  52:27 - Resources for grief support and how to connect with Matthew Efird  53:35 - Final encouragement for grieving fathers and the power of faithResources & Links: * Even Though We Will - Book [https://eventhoughwewill.com/] * Matthew Efird - Website [https://matthewefer.com/] * Even Though We Will Foundation [https://eventhoughwewill.com/foundation] Connect with Matthew Efird: * LinkedIn [https://www.linkedin.com/in/matthewefer] * Twitter [https://twitter.com/matthewefer] Remember, you are not alone. Reach out, lean on faith, and find community to walk this path of grief. Your story and feelings matter, and hope is always within reach. Losing a child to cancer is a grief no parent should walk through alone. The Father's Refuge Podcast is a safe place for fathers and parents to share, heal, and find hope in the midst of heartbreak. If you are a father and you would like to share your grief journey with others reach out to me at FathersRefuge@proton.me  Call to Action for Father's Refuge Podcast  Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/fathersrefuge/support] Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61583591441571 [https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61583591441571] Podcast Support https://www.fathersrefuge.com/support/ [https://www.fathersrefuge.com/support/] One Time donation  https://www.buzzsprout.com/2528600/support [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2528600/support] Monthly Support Want to be a guest? https://podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/fathersrefuge [https://podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/fathersrefuge] Mobile Follow Page https://www.fathersrefuge.com/follow/ [https://www.fathersrefuge.com/follow/]

The Unspoken Grief of Fathers: Lessons from Kenny Stoddart

I would love to hear from you. Click the link now [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2528600/fan_mail/new] Kenny Stoddart shares his deeply personal journey through the loss of his child, the impact on his marriage, and how he found hope and purpose through faith and helping others. This episode offers valuable insights for anyone navigating grief, especially fathers, and emphasizes the importance of community, faith, and resilience.  keywords grief, loss of a child, fatherhood, mental health, faith, healing, marriage, support systems, personal growth, resilience Losing a child to cancer is a grief no parent should walk through alone. The Father's Refuge Podcast is a safe place for fathers and parents to share, heal, and find hope in the midst of heartbreak. If you are a father and you would like to share your grief journey with others reach out to me at FathersRefuge@proton.me  Call to Action for Father's Refuge Podcast  Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/fathersrefuge/support] Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61583591441571 [https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61583591441571] Podcast Support https://www.fathersrefuge.com/support/ [https://www.fathersrefuge.com/support/] One Time donation  https://www.buzzsprout.com/2528600/support [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2528600/support] Monthly Support Want to be a guest? https://podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/fathersrefuge [https://podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/fathersrefuge] Mobile Follow Page https://www.fathersrefuge.com/follow/ [https://www.fathersrefuge.com/follow/]

Grief, Growth, and the Father’s Journey — with Coach Rev

I would love to hear from you. Click the link now [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2528600/fan_mail/new]  summary In this heartfelt interview, grief and resilience coach Lee Atherton shares her journey into end-of-life care, the importance of compassion, and practical advice for supporting loved ones through loss. Discover insights on grief stages, honoring life, and caring for those who serve as first responders.  keywords grief, end of life, resilience, compassion, support, first responders, grief stages, living well, dying well, mental health  key  topics End-of-life and grief counseling The role of faith and compassion in healing Stages of grief and emotional resilience Supporting loved ones and caregivers Unique grief experiences of first responders  guest  name Lee Atherton Titles The Power of Compassion in End-of-Life Care Navigating Grief: Stages and Healing Strategies  sound bites "Forgiveness is key to healing and peace." "Schedule time for self-care, even in chaos." "Living well and dying well require intentionality." Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Grief and Resilience Coaching 03:05 Finding Purpose in Grief Counseling 04:26 The Role of Faith and Compassion 06:11 Understanding Coach Rev at the Crossroads 07:15 Common Misconceptions About Grief 08:25 Personal Experiences with Loss 09:52 Navigating the Stages of Grief 11:51 Supporting Loved Ones in Mourning 13:54 Lessons from the Dying 15:30 Planning for End of Life 16:43 Celebration of Life vs. Traditional Funerals 20:15 Unique Grief of First Responders 23:50 Preventing Compassion Fatigue 25:09 Living Well and Dying Well 26:21 Future Goals and Outreach  resources Coach Rev - End of Life and Grief Support - https://coachrev.com Phoenix Rising Service Dogs - https://phoenixrising.sdsl.com Critical Incident Stress Management Teams - https://www.cism.org  guest links Website - https://coachrev.com Email - lee@coachrev.com Phone - 508-308-7116 Losing a child to cancer is a grief no parent should walk through alone. The Father's Refuge Podcast is a safe place for fathers and parents to share, heal, and find hope in the midst of heartbreak. If you are a father and you would like to share your grief journey with others reach out to me at FathersRefuge@proton.me  Call to Action for Father's Refuge Podcast  Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/fathersrefuge/support] Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61583591441571 [https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61583591441571] Podcast Support https://www.fathersrefuge.com/support/ [https://www.fathersrefuge.com/support/] One Time donation  https://www.buzzsprout.com/2528600/support [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2528600/support] Monthly Support Want to be a guest? https://podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/fathersrefuge [https://podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/fathersrefuge] Mobile Follow Page https://www.fathersrefuge.com/follow/ [https://www.fathersrefuge.com/follow/]

Healing Through Financial Wisdom: David Nassief on Preparing Your Family for the Unexpected

I would love to hear from you. Click the link now [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2528600/fan_mail/new] In this episode, David Nassif shares his transformative story of losing his job at age 63, facing financial uncertainty, and turning that adversity into a powerful mission to help men rebuild their lives and wealth. His insights reveal the importance of honest self-assessment, purpose, and practical steps to attain financial and emotional resilience. Main Topics: David's personal journey from job loss to financial independence at age 69 * The emotional impact of losing one's career and identity * Building resilience: how rejection and failure strengthen mental muscles * Practical financial recovery: the nine-step wealth compass * The importance of vulnerability and trusting others during grief and hardship * The role of faith and purpose in overcoming life's setbacks * How to start small routines that restore momentum after disruption * The critical need for early financial planning for men and seniors * Timestamps: 00:00 - Introduction to David Nassif and his story of loss and resilience 04:33 - Welcome and episode overview 05:15 - David recounts his surprising career transition at 63 and lessons learned 06:40 - Building financial strength through rejection and perseverance 07:55 - The journey from financial insecurity to wealth at age 69 08:00 - Origins of the Father's Refuge podcast and focus on grief in men 08:49 - Personal experience of job loss and ageism in the workforce 10:09 - Emotional toll of losing a job and societal expectations of men 11:10 - The internal fear and shame during unemployment 12:20 - Society's view of men’s identities based on their careers 13:37 - The shock of sudden employment termination and the emotional aftermath 15:15 - Common emotions men face post-job loss and the importance of vulnerability 16:13 - The analogy of walking in circles and finding a clear direction 17:08 - How honesty and a new purpose paved David’s recovery 18:32 - The importance of a practical action plan and step-by-step routines 19:20 - How supporting loved ones can motivate resilience during crises 21:53 - The societal and personal pressures on men to stay strong 22:22 - Simplicity and clarity in rebuilding financial stability 23:27 - Introducing the nine-step financial compass for rebuilding wealth 24:09 - Small habits that restore confidence after disruption 25:37 - The power of mental honesty and self-awareness in recovery 27:29 - Recognizing that change requires stepping out of repetitive patterns 28:36 - Setting realistic retirement goals and the importance of early planning 31:41 - The prevalence of financial insecurity among seniors and the need for proactive planning 33:09 - Encouragement to start now and utilize the free Wealth Compass tool 34:10 - Closing remarks: Your worth isn’t tied to a job—rebuilt one step at a time Resources & Links: * OnePageWealthCompass.com [https://onepagewealthcompass.com/]- Download the free Wealth Compass to guide your financial recovery Connect with David Nassif: * LinkedIn [https://linkedin.com/in/davidnassif] * Twitter [https://twitter.com/davidnassif] Losing a child to cancer is a grief no parent should walk through alone. The Father's Refuge Podcast is a safe place for fathers and parents to share, heal, and find hope in the midst of heartbreak. If you are a father and you would like to share your grief journey with others reach out to me at FathersRefuge@proton.me  Call to Action for Father's Refuge Podcast  Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/fathersrefuge/support] Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61583591441571 [https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61583591441571] Podcast Support https://www.fathersrefuge.com/support/ [https://www.fathersrefuge.com/support/] One Time donation  https://www.buzzsprout.com/2528600/support [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2528600/support] Monthly Support Want to be a guest? https://podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/fathersrefuge [https://podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/fathersrefuge] Mobile Follow Page https://www.fathersrefuge.com/follow/ [https://www.fathersrefuge.com/follow/]

From Grief to Growth: The Lost to Living Framework with Mel Schlesinger

I would love to hear from you. Click the link now [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2528600/fan_mail/new]   summary In this heartfelt interview, Mel Schlesinger shares his journey through grief after losing his wife of 48 years, and introduces his 'Lost to Living' framework to help others move from loss to a fulfilling life. Discover practical steps, mental models, and inspiring insights to navigate grief and find joy again.  keywords grief, loss, healing, mental health, personal growth, grief coaching, Lost to Living framework, resilience, emotional well-being, life after loss  key  topics The Lost to Living framework for grief recovery Small actionable steps to rebuild life The importance of honest acceptance of grief  sound bites "Mel's journey from grief to a new life" "I was with her when her breathing changed" "I realized I couldn't stay frozen in grief" Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Mel's Background 01:07 Mel's Personal Loss and Journey Through Grief 06:50 Mel's Life with Patricia and Their Last Trip 10:05 The Diagnosis and Decline of Patricia 12:50 The Final Moments and Mel’s Immediate Aftermath 13:33 Joining Support Groups and Early Grief Steps 18:17 Realization: I Can't Stay Frozen in Grief 20:19 Discovering New Passions and Building a New Life 26:36 Surprising Aspects of Mel’s Grief Experience 28:34 Guilt and Regret in the Grief Process 31:30 Introduction to the Lost to Living Framework 32:00 Locating Where You Are in Your Grief Journey 34:21 Identifying Small Reachable Actions 35:45 Verifying Your Story and Avoiding Absolute Statements 38:06 Implementing Small Actions Daily 39:34 Progress with Gratitude and Self-Recognition 42:00 Creating a New Life While Carrying Loss 44:00 Talking About the Loved One and Honoring Their Memory 44:57 Addressing Guilt and Imagining Joy Again 46:00 A Small Action Before Bed: Lighting a Candle 47:09 What No One Told Me in the First Week 48:13 The Power of Choice in Joy and Sadness 49:04 Living Side by Side: Joy and Sadness 49:50 Connecting with Mel and His Work 50:26 Final Words of Hope and Strength 51:21 Conclusion: Moving from Surviving to Living  resources Lost to Living Framework - https://substack.com/  guest links Substack - https://substack.com/ Losing a child to cancer is a grief no parent should walk through alone. The Father's Refuge Podcast is a safe place for fathers and parents to share, heal, and find hope in the midst of heartbreak. If you are a father and you would like to share your grief journey with others reach out to me at FathersRefuge@proton.me  Call to Action for Father's Refuge Podcast  Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/fathersrefuge/support] Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61583591441571 [https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61583591441571] Podcast Support https://www.fathersrefuge.com/support/ [https://www.fathersrefuge.com/support/] One Time donation  https://www.buzzsprout.com/2528600/support [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2528600/support] Monthly Support Want to be a guest? https://podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/fathersrefuge [https://podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/fathersrefuge] Mobile Follow Page https://www.fathersrefuge.com/follow/ [https://www.fathersrefuge.com/follow/]