Let it be Podcast

EP. 16 Choices Series: Choosing Courage Over Comfort

In this opening episode of our Courage Series, Ruthe and Tim explore what happens when fear is no longer a “what if,” but something standing directly in front of you. Together, they unpack courage, acceptance, strength, identity, and the quiet decisions that shape who we become. Through deeply personal stories and honest reflection, this conversation reminds us that courage is not always loud — sometimes it simply means taking the next step forward.

EP. 15 What Do You Do When You Can’t Control It?

What Do You Do When You Can’t Control It? As we close out our Choices series, we come back to the Learned Wisdom that has guided every conversation: “Just because a circumstance beyond your control has taken away some of your choices, it doesn’t mean it’s taken away all of your choices.” In this episode, Ruthe and Tim reflect on the powerful stories shared by Bianca DeAnda and Camie McDonald—two women who faced very different circumstances, yet both discovered what it means to keep moving forward when control is no longer yours. From naming emotions to releasing shame… From grief to growth… From holding on to learning how to let go… This conversation is about the moment you realize you can’t control the outcome—and the choice you still have in how you respond. We also share personally what shifts in us when control is taken—and how surrender, acceptance, and even curiosity can lead to peace. As you listen, consider this: When control has been taken from you… what is your non-negotiable choice?

EP. 14 Holding Loss — and the Choices That Remain

Holding Loss — and the Choices That Remain When tragedy changes everything… what does it look like to keep going? In this episode, we sit down with Cammie McDonald for an honest conversation about grief, family, and the choices that remain — even in the hardest seasons. Rooted in our learned wisdom: “Just because a circumstance beyond your control has taken away some of your choices, it doesn’t mean it’s taken away all of your choices.” This is a conversation about holding loss, supporting one another, and learning how to move forward — one choice at a time. ✨ Reflection Question: What choices are still yours, even while you’re holding what’s been taken?

EP. 13 The Choices Circumstances Can't Take with Bianca De Anda

On today’s episode of the Let It Be Podcast, we sit down with Bianca DeAnda—a clinical psychologist in Southern California and a longtime connection to Ruthe’s family. Together, we talk about what happens when life doesn’t follow the plan… and how your choices still matter, even when your circumstances feel heavy, unexpected, or out of your control. Bianca shares with honesty about grief and growth, the pressure of traditional timelines, and what it looks like to rebuild your identity when a major season shifts. We explore the truth that joy and grief can coexist, how naming hard emotions helps release shame, and why learning to sit with yourself—without roles, titles, or expectations—can become a turning point. This conversation is for anyone who has ever thought, “This isn’t what I expected,” and is trying to find a steady next step anyway. Bianca brings grounded wisdom, emotional clarity, and practical hope—reminding us that even if circumstances change your plan, they don’t get the final say in who you become. To close, Tim leaves us with a reflection question to carry with you: “Who are you when you stop rushing to become who you thought you’d be?”

EP. 12 Choices Series: The Choices That Are Still Yours

The Choices That Are Still Yours In this opening episode of our new series on choice, Ruthe and Tim sit down to explore what remains within our control when life feels anything but controllable. Through honest conversation, humor, and deeply personal reflection, they talk about circumstances that are handed to us—grief, loss, and unexpected change—and the quiet power of choosing how we respond. Ruthe shares the learned wisdom born from walking alongside her daughter Karla during her illness, reminding us that even when choices are taken away, not all of them disappear. Tim brings his thoughtful, curious perspective—challenging, affirming, and grounding the conversation in everyday life. Together, they wrestle with grief, faith and doubt, attitude, community, and the freedom found in choosing joy, presence, and meaning. Featured in this episode is a rare and powerful moment—Karla’s own voice. Recorded during her illness, Karla reflects on positivity, normalcy, and faith with a clarity and grace far beyond her years. Her words remind us that even when outcomes are uncertain, perspective, joy, and connection are still choices we get to make. Her voice doesn’t just support this series—it anchors it. This episode invites you to pause and ask: What is happening in my life right now that I can’t control—and what choices are still mine to make? Whether you’re stepping into a new year, navigating loss, or simply trying to find your footing again, this conversation offers hope, permission, and a reminder that your story is still unfolding. A new series begins here on the Let It Be Podcast—and we’re so glad you’re here.