TalksAboutyou

The Harsh Truth About Northern Nigeria

Many people talk about love, success, and dreams. But not everyone grows up in a place where their voice is encouraged. In this episode, we sit with Hafsat Abdullahi (Havfy), a spoken word artist from Northern Nigeria, as she shares her journey growing up as a girl in a conservative society and how poetry became her voice. Many young Africans grow up in environments where their voices are not encouraged. This conversation explores identity, girl child education, spoken word poetry, and the realities of growing up in northern Nigeria. She shares how growing up in a conservative society shaped her identity, how poetry became her voice, and how she turned her story into advocacy that now impacts communities across the world. This is not just a conversation about poetry. It is about voice, identity, belonging, education, and the courage to become who you were not expected to be. In this episode, we discuss: Growing up as a girl in northern Nigeria Societal expectations placed on women Finding your voice in a conservative environment How poetry became a tool for advocacy Societal expectations placed on women Finding your voice in a conservative environment How poetry became a tool for advocacy Identity, language, and belonging Why your voice matters, even when no one listens Inspiring the next generation of girls Whether you are a young African trying to find your path, a creative looking for purpose, or someone navigating identity and pressure, this conversation will stay with you. Subscribe for more honest conversations about money, identity, culture, and life in Africa.

Why Most Nigerians Lose Money Investing and How to Build Wealth the Right Way

Many Nigerians want to invest but keep losing money not because they’re careless, but because nobody explains investing in a way that fits this economy. Inflation is rising. Jobs are unstable. Income is stretched. Yet everywhere online, people are told to “save and invest” like it’s simple. In this episode, Finance Girl shares her real experience of losing all her life savings, what went wrong, and how that painful mistake reshaped the way she thinks about personal finance, stocks, and investing in Nigeria. This is not motivational money talk. It’s a grounded conversation for Nigerians and Africans trying to understand: why investing feels risky why popular stocks don’t always mean good investments how to start investing with small money and how to think about wealth in an unstable economy In this episode, we discuss: Why most Nigerians lose money investing Common investment mistakes beginners make How inflation affects savings and investing in Nigeria How to start investing in stocks with small money Understanding risk appetite (low, medium, high) Why “there is no perfect entry point” How to build wealth the right way — without hype Whether you’re a student, salary earner, young professional, or business owner, this episode will help you think about money more clearly. Subscribe for honest conversations about money, business, and life in Africa.

Why Most Nigerian Businesses Don't Scale (It's Not Funding) | Before You Raise Money, Watch This

Many African entrepreneurs believe their biggest problem is funding.In this episode, Nanna breaks that myth and explains why structure, clarity, and decision-making matter more than money when building and scaling a business in Nigeria and Africa. In this conversation, we discuss: Why most small businesses fail without proper bookkeeping How lack of structure prevents businesses from scaling Why investors don't fund "vibes-based" businesses The difference between head knowledge and scalable systems Why founders must separate emotion from business decisions What entrepreneurs misunderstand about equity and ownership When to pivot, when to exit, and when to stay the course This episode is for founders, small business owners, and professionals who feel stuck, underfunded, or confused about their next business move and want clarity instead of motivation. Watch till the end, share your biggest takeaway in the comments, and subscribe for more honest conversations about building real businesses in Africa. . . Funding agencies in Nigeria, Funding opportunities in Nigeria Nigerian entrepreneurs Why businesses don't scale in Nigeria Small business funding Nigeria Business structure Africa Why investors don't fund startups Bookkeeping for small businesses Equity and funding explained African startup advice Scaling a business in Nigeria

Why Most Nigerian Startups Fail (It's Not Capital) | John Paul on Business, Loans & Growth

Many people believe the biggest problem facing Nigerian startups is lack of capital. In this episode, John Paul, founder of Activator HQ (formerly Small Starter Africa, challenges that belief and explains why knowledge, skills, and experience matter more than money when starting and scaling a business. In this conversation, we discuss: Why taking a bank loan to start a business can destroy you early The real reason most Nigerian startups fail within 5 years The difference between running away from a job and running toward entrepreneurship Why apprenticeship builds stronger entrepreneurs than shortcuts How to transition from corporate life into business without crashing The "Valley of Death" every entrepreneur must pass through If you're a founder, aspiring entrepreneur, side-hustler, or professional thinking of leaving your job to start a business, this episode will help you rethink your strategy before making costly mistakes. Watch till the end, share your biggest takeaway in the comments, and subscribe for more honest conversations about business, entrepreneurship, and growth in Africa. How do I register a limited liability company in Nigeria online?, What are the best mobile payment platforms for small businesses in Nigeria?, Where can I find business networking events or platforms.

Event Planning Secrets That Save Millions | Kunmi Ariyo on Events, Discipline & Experience

The event industry is often described as "delicate." But Kunmi Ariyo explains why the real issue is not mistakes, but poor communication and unchecked assumptions. In this episode of Talks About You, the Founder of Mirus Events shares lessons from over a decade in Nigeria's events industry. We discuss: • Why clients get dissatisfied • Why assumptions are dangerous • How to manage pressure in high stake environments • What passion really means in entrepreneurship • Why consistency is the true competitive advantage • How customer experience creates long term growth This episode is essential for event planners, MCS, vendors, creatives, and entrepreneurs. Subscribe for more honest conversations about building meaningful work.