Jay Triano: Learning from Steve Nash, Practicing in a Parking Lot & Fun is Fundamental

Worth Repeating: Jesse Marsch on How Parents and Coaches Can Create a Positive Environment

Jesse Marsch, coach of Canada's National Men's Soccer Team, has seen youth sports development from every angle: as a player, as a coach, and as a parent. Jesse doesn't give parenting advice: he gives coaching insights rooted in decades of professional experience and the lessons learned from watching his own three children navigate sports across the globe. In this segment, Jesse reveals the secret he learned as parent that made him a better coach, how coaches can bring parents alongside them in their child's sports experience, and why a positive environment produces the best results for players of all abilities. Listen to the entire episode: ⁠Spotify⁠ [https://open.spotify.com/episode/0HApKQvOkXUwSQSNQP8vzF?si=74a0c004a0584648] ⁠Apple⁠ [https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/jesse-marsch-over-emphasis-on-winning-community-through/id1834970608?i=1000743944688] Watch on ⁠YouTube [https://youtu.be/ZrW9rY-3WEY?si=NFsYmSOAMMrhNv2R]

Jay Triano: Learning from Steve Nash, Practicing in a Parking Lot & Fun is Fundamental

Jay Triano has spent almost all of his 67 years in sport. He's a former captain of Canada's Men's Basketball Team, the first Canadian head coach in NBA history with the Toronto Raptors, and a current assistant with the Dallas Mavericks. He's also the son of a high school basketball coach and the father of three kids who all played youth sports, which means he's seen every side of the equation. In this conversation, Jay draws direct lines between how he was raised in sport in Niagara Falls and the NBA coach he became. He talks about playing basketball, volleyball, baseball and track until he was nearly 18, why Steve Nash never acted like the best player in the room despite being exactly that, and what a parking lot practice with no hoops taught him about fundamentals that individual skill sessions never could. Jay is direct about what he sees wrong in youth sports today: parent-driven environments that prioritize exposure over development, social media that skips all the steps, and a growing culture of selfish play filtering down from the professional game. And he's equally clear about the fix: fun, teamwork, open communication, and coaches who understand that they're coaching twelve kids, not just yours. 🎙️ Better Sports Parents: helping parents positively contribute to the youth sports environment. Subscribe for new episodes every week. Chapters 00:00 Opening 01:35 Introducing Jay Triano 03:18 A Life in Sport: 67 Years and Still Going 04:16 How Jay's Dad Shaped His Love of the Game 05:37 Multi-Sport Until 17: Basketball, Baseball, Volleyball & Track 06:44 Unstructured Play: Street Hockey and Stats in the Front Yard 07:20 How Multi-Sport Cross-Training Made Jay a Better Athlete 08:21 Raising His Own Kids: Let Them Love What They Love 10:00 What Youth Sport Looked Like When His Kids Were Young 11:32 What Jay Looked for in a Youth Coach 12:31 Youth Sport Today: Parent-Driven and Overspecialized 13:55 NIL, Agents at Young Ages & Money Changing the Game 14:17 Higher Skills, Lower IQ 15:47 Too Many Games, Not Enough Practice 18:25 Multi-Sport and Learning to Fill a Role 19:08 Steve Nash: The Best Player Who Never Acted Like It 22:14 The European Model: Growing Together 24:15 Canadian Basketball's Rise and the Affordability Problem 26:14 If You're Good Enough, You Will Be Found 28:04 What Jay Wanted His Kids to Get Out of Sport 29:51 Learning From Bad Coaches Too 29:58 The Coaches Who Shaped Jay 33:32 The Biggest Mistake Jay Made as a Young Coach 36:11 Number One Advice for New Coaches: Make It Fun 38:19 How to Recognize and Reward Every Role on a Team 40:16 Phil Jackson's Rule: Acknowledge the Screen, Not Just the Bucket 44:54 What Jay's Dad Said After the Games 47:15 The Volunteer Coach and Referee Crisis 48:07 No Secrets: Jay's Rule on Parent Communication 52:10 He Wasn't Going to Cut a Kid in Grade Seven 53:51 What a Good Youth Environment Actually Looks Like 58:23 Developing Canadian Coaches: A Missed Opportunity 01:00:14 A Simple Thank You Can Keep a Coach Coming Back 01:02:16 The Parking Lot Practice That Built His Fundamentals 01:04:06 Social Media Is Skipping All the Steps 01:06:01 Are We Over-Parenting? Kids Need Difficult Situations 01:07:38 Learning to Be Coached Hard 01:09:06 Jay's Biggest Issue in Youth Sports Today Resources Jay Triano [https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jay_Triano]

Worth Repeating: Andrew Ladd on Teaching Skills that go Far Beyond Hockey

Andrew Ladd is a Stanley Cup winner, a 4th overall NHL draft pick, and a former NHL captain who played 1,000 games in hockey's top league. He's also a proud father, husband and youth hockey coach who wants to improve the youth sports environment who all kids who play. In this segment, Andrew shares powerful stories from his pro career and details "1616" - a mental health initiative he founded to equip young hockey players, coaches, and parents with tools to navigate the challenges that arise in both sport and life. Listen to the entire episode: ⁠Spotify⁠ [https://open.spotify.com/episode/5nsIGTMJCMPKGO3kxgZ93S?si=_cVdnzAMTiWUZuf6TVtB9g] ⁠Apple⁠ [https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/andrew-ladd-fun-is-the-foundation-relieving-parental/id1834970608?i=1000739257703] Watch on ⁠YouTube [https://youtu.be/YPy4u3MVTdM?si=4DRdoGsTIVkf-Pdz]

Brock McGillis: The Locker Room Should Be Disneyland, Vulnerable is Brave & Why Words Matter

⚠️ This episode deals with serious topics including mental health, self-harm, and abuse. If you or someone you know needs support, contact Kids Help Phone (1-800-668-6868) or the Suicide Crisis Helpline (988). Brock McGillis became the first openly gay player to have played professional hockey, but the path to that moment nearly cost him everything. Depression. Daily drinking. Self-harm. A sport culture that told him, in a thousand small ways every day, that he couldn't be himself. Today Brock runs the Shift Makers tour, visiting over 250 hockey teams across Canada in a single season. What he finds in those rooms is alarming: over a thousand players disclosing thoughts of self-harm or suicide, thousands more sharing mental health struggles, and more than 50 who had never told anyone they'd been sexually assaulted — until they told him. In this conversation, Brock talks about why sport culture continues to silence young people, what true inclusion actually looks like versus what organizations claim it looks like, and why the answer isn't more analysis — it's action. He also shares the story of Brendan Burke, whose friendship and tragic death became the catalyst for everything Brock does today. This is one of the most important conversations Better Sports Parents has had. Better Sports Parents is helping parents positively impact the youth sports environment. Subscribe for new episodes every week Chapters 00:00 Opening 01:36 Introduction & Content Warning 03:17 The Shift Makers Tour: 250 Teams in 200 Days 04:11 How Locker Room Culture Programs Kids to Conform 08:13 How Do We Go From Thinking the Right Things to Actually Doing Them? 09:15 The Push-Up Story: How Shift Makers Was Born 10:06 Challenging Bravery: "Tell Me Something You Wouldn't Tell a Teammate" 12:10 "The Locker Room Should Be Disneyland" 15:04 Why Kids Won't Talk to Parents and What Brock Does Differently 19:17 The Real Reason Kids Don't Come Forward 22:14 Why Brock Becomes the First Person They Ever Tell 23:11 Parents Need to Humanize Themselves Too 30:38 What to Do When Your Teenager Won't Talk to You 34:19 Why "I Didn't Mean It Like That" Is Not Good Enough 35:08 How the Culture Became Brock's Identity and His Prison 38:11 Who or What Finally Made Him Be Himself 43:27 Brendan Burke: The Friend Who Changed Everything 43:58 What True Inclusion Actually Looks Like in Sport 46:36 Why "We're a Family" Is Often Hollow 51:26 Stop Talking. Start Doing. 54:21 The Vicious Cycle: Coaches Doing What Was Done to Them 58:51 Talk to Them as People, Not as Hockey Robots 1:00:47 Resources for Self-Harm and Mental Health Support 1:04:14 The Biggest Issue in Youth Sport Today: Affordability 1:07:21 Why Sport Can Still Be Great Resources Brock McGillis' advocacy and speaking platform [https://brockmcgillis.com/] Kids Help Phone [https://kidshelpphone.ca/] ⁠Jumpstart [https://jumpstart.canadiantire.ca/]

Worth Repeating: Ross Gurney on Enjoying Youth Sports for What They Are

Veteran sports agent and advisor Ross Gurney has helped players like Duncan Keith, Devon Toews, and Zach Benson navigate their way to and through the NHL, but he's also a father who's had to navigate the youth sports environment with his own two children. Though he's seen what it actually takes to make it to the highest levels of sport, Ross doesn't believe that early specialization, "elite" camps, and rushing kids up levels have improved the youth sports environment or experience for kids. In this segment, Ross encourages parents to slow down and enjoy youth sport for what they're meant to be - a joyful experience filled with growth and learning, not one that replicates the demands of professional sports. Listen to the full episode: ⁠Spotify⁠ [https://open.spotify.com/episode/3hyCC6aLkEbrSLqV6QaW8v?si=Aa-MvfsiQxyGrF1hhuKBaw] ⁠Apple⁠ [https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/ross-gurney-elite-is-a-dangerous-word-warning-signs/id1834970608?i=1000742438048] Watch on ⁠YouTube [https://youtu.be/xZVCWYd8ONk?si=m4YVpzbPka5-qnMo]