David Nathan: Soul Ambassador
This post is part of my ‘Living Memoirs’ This post was originally published on March 4, 2024. I’ve revised it for many of the subscribers who have graciously signed up since then and added audio. It seems fitting given this is Father’s Day in the US (June 21st 2026) Today’s been a different kinda Sunday. I had what my Dad used to say was a ‘lie-in’. My father Mark Nathan worked on Saturdays from early morning when he would prepare the big pans from the massive vats of oil for frying fish and chips until it was time for the shop above which we lived on Kilburn High Road in NW London to open. He’d take a break in the mid-afternoon when the shop and restaurant that was part of the popular eaterie (frequented by pop stars of the day and future music legends who would record at Abbey Road and Decca studios in the area - think Beatles, Rolling Stones, etc.) was closed. Think of a siesta without the attendant sunshine! By 5pm, he’d be back behind the counter, making piping hot chips (and not the skinny ‘French’ fries that became popular in the years that followed but the original chunky kind) and frying fish to perfection… The record player on which I would wear out my favourite R&B and soul 45s and LP tracks - Dionne Warwick, Martha & The Vandellas, Lou Johnson, Baby Washington, Ketty Lester and others - was originally in my parents’ bedroom. Sunday mornings, out of respect for my hard-working Dad’s need for extra sleep and a ‘lie-in,’ I would refrain from blasting tunes although I have a very strong memory of asking him if I could play tracks from one of my then-most treasured possessions, the high-priced import LP, “Forbidden Fruit” by Nina Simone, just a few months before I started the UK appreciation society for her… “I really like the jazz on that record,” my Dad responded, listening to Nina’s soothing tones on tunes like “I’ll Look Around,” “No Good Man” and “I Love To Love.” I smiled and flipped the LP over for more Simone stylings, “Where Can I Go Without You,” “Just Say I Love Him,” “Memphis In June” as my father rested from the late Saturday night where more than a few less-than-sober guys from the Irish pub next door had kept the shop open till midnight… Fast forward to today’s Sunday ‘lie-in’ many decades later which ended around noon. Time to do some house chores and then the lurking question: do I give in to hankering for some fish-and-chips on this particular Sunday? I kept telling myself that I have enough food in the flat but the desire for the very British dish is too strong: ‘Temptation ‘bout to get me…’ I walk part of the way to the shop in Victoria, earpods in, letting Spotify jump through my “‘60s Uptown Soul Favourites”. Love singing along a tune or two much to the likely bewilderment of those walking down Vauxhall Bridge Road since all they can hear is my melodic melismas with no idea of what I’m listening to! My yearning for fish and chips (not quite as amazing as my Dad’s from back in the day) is now satisfied after I reach one of London’s better fish-and-chip shops. The playlist has settled on a slew of amazing R&B anthems that just ‘happen’ to have originally been recorded in Chicago. Algorithms being what they are, a few other Windy City classics recorded at or for Chess Records are also providing a soul serenade for me on this Sunday leisurely stroll. “There ain’t room enough for two, in sharing your heart with someone new, whatever I do, it’s getting mighty crowded, I’m telling you!” opines Betty Everett with a song that provided her with a UK mid-sized pop hit in early 1965. Her erstwhile duet partner, ‘The Iceman’ Jerry Butler is pouring his cool-but-emotive feelings into “I Can’t Stand To See You Cry,” and I’m singing along with a tear-in-my-voice. Worth noting: both songs were penned by the super-brilliant Van McCoy who must have had more than a few heartbreak moments in his life given his lamenting lyricism… Mood change. Some of my absolute all-time and forever faves that were cut at Chess follow. I remember well that some of the songs I’m grooving to were included on a 1966 Chess/Checker LP, “Sing A Song Of Soul.” Billy Stewart’s been “Sitting In The Park,” Jackie Ross talkin’ “Selfish One,” Mitty Collier declares “I’m Satisfied” and then two choones that are ever and ever dear, The Radiants with “Voice Your Choice.” The Knight Brothers’ “Temptation ‘Bout To Get Me.” It still does… As I head towards the bus stop, Major Lance shares… “Walking through the park, it wasn’t quite dark, there was a man sitting on a bench…” And in sync with him, I too sing out, ‘Um, Um, Um, Um, Um’… I realize just how totally brilliant so much of this Chicago soul music of the ‘60s is and how it shaped my teen years and beyond. The wonderful arrangements, the amazing vocals and production. I end my Sunday mid-afternoon journey with Gene Chandler’s unbelievable vocal masterpiece “I Fooled You This Time” (to which I do not sing along!) and a ditty from Johnny Nash, “Love Ain’t Nothing (But A Monkey On Your Back)”… It might have been the lure of fish and chips and the ‘sense’ memory such a dish evokes of my father and his Sunday ‘lie-ins’ but give me a meal of Windy City soul classics anytime and it will surely provide satisfaction beyond, beyond… DAVID NATHAN: JUST MY SOUL RESPONDING... is a reader-supported publication. As you can tell, I love writing these posts! Your support makes a difference! Please consider becoming a subscriber. © 2026, David Nathan. All Rights Reserved Get full access to DAVID NATHAN: JUST MY SOUL RESPONDING... at davidnathan.substack.com/subscribe [https://davidnathan.substack.com/subscribe?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_4]
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