(ENG) Why don’t I initiate sex (and what does it mean)?

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(ENG): Why don’t I initiate sex (and what does it mean)? (A collab with Evie Plumb from Cliterally The Best) AD // BEDUCATED: Sometimes change starts with a really good question. If you want to find out where you are on your sexual journey and what actually feels good for you, click the link [https://beducate.me/pd2615-ppmh] and take the Beducated quiz. At the end, you’ll get a personalized roadmap towards more pleasure and a more fulfilling sex life. Available in English and German. LINK: https://beducate.me/pd2615-ppmh [https://beducate.me/pd2615-ppmh] You love your partner. You enjoy sex. Yet somehow you’re almost never the one initiating it. If that sounds familiar, you’re not alone. 📖 Read the full article here: https://cliterallythebest.com/why-dont-i-initiate-sex-and-what-does-it-mean [https://cliterallythebest.com/why-dont-i-initiate-sex-and-what-does-it-mean] In this episode, we unpack why initiating sex can feel surprisingly difficult; even in happy, loving relationships. From fear of rejection and shame, to responsive desire, stress, and relationship dynamics, this conversation explores what’s really going on beneath the surface. This episode will help you understand: - why initiation isn’t just about desire - how different types of desire affect who makes the first move - the role of stress, mental load, and emotional dynamics - how to shift the pattern without pressure or blame Most importantly, it will remind you of one thing:you are not broken. Prefer the transcript? Find it here [https://lisaopel.substack.com/?utm_source=substack&utm_medium=web&utm_campaign=substack_profile]. I'm your host, Lisa Opel and I'm here to take you on a liberating ride through the world of sex shops, clubs, toys, play and more! Feel free to send me your questions and wishes anytime on Instagram or under yes@pleasepinchmehard.com [yes@pleasepinchmehard.com] More of me on Instagram (@pleasepinchmehard [https://www.instagram.com/pleasepinchmehard/]) and my webpage (www.pleasepinchmehard.com [http://www.pleasepinchmehard.com]) My book SEX SEX SEX - Your Workbook [https://bit.ly/sex-workbook] for Singles & Couples My book GIVE IT TO ME! [https://amzn.to/3wn6P3T] on Amazon (E-Book & Print) and Spotify as an Audiobook My book SAVED IN NOTES... [https://amzn.eu/d/gGXCR8b] on Amazon (E-Book, Softback & Hardback) Need a one-on-one session with a Confidante? I've got you: www.mrs-opel.com [http://www.mrs-opel.com] Get full access to Mrs Lisa O | pleasepinchmehard at lisaopel.substack.com/subscribe [https://lisaopel.substack.com/subscribe?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_4]

(ENG) COURTNEY BOYER: I asked my husband for an open marriage after 17 Years.

(ENG): COURTNEY BOYER: I asked my husband for an open marriage after 17 years. Courtney Boyer joins me for a deeply honest, sometimes uncomfortable conversation about desire, shame, and what happens when you stop living your life for approval. We talk about growing up in purity culture, marrying young, and building a life that looked “right” from the outside but didn’t fully feel like hers. After 17 years of marriage, she asked for something that would change everything and we get into what actually happens after a moment like that. Not the fantasy, but the conversations, the fear, the tension, and the growth that follows. We also explore navigating non-monogamy in a monogamous partnership, the emotional reality behind opening a relationship, and why so many women feel disconnected from their own needs in the first place. This isn’t a guide or a blueprint. It’s a real conversation about self-abandonment, reclaiming pleasure, and learning to choose yourself even when it’s messy, complicated, and doesn’t fit into neat labels. About Courtney Courtney Boyer, M.Ed., M.S., is a therapist-turned-relationship coach, writer, and speaker whose work centers on love, desire, and authenticity. She is the author of Not Tonight Honey and Opened, and has been featured in Glamour, Cosmopolitan, The Huffington Post, and BBC Radio Live. Drawing on her background in mental health and sex therapy, she blends professional expertise with lived experience to help women break free from shame, reclaim their voice, and create relationships rooted in honesty and autonomy. She lives in Germany with her husband and three children. Find Courtney here: Instagram: @courtneyboyercoaching - https://www.instagram.com/courtneyboyercoaching/ [https://www.instagram.com/courtneyboyercoaching/?hl=en] | Couple IG: @themonopolycouple - https://www.instagram.com/themonopolycouple/ [https://www.instagram.com/themonopolycouple/] | Website: https://www.courtneyboyercoaching.com [https://www.courtneyboyercoaching.com] Watch the episode on YouTube: Prefer the transcript? Find it here: https://youtu.be/vx53NNR-s-E [https://youtu.be/vx53NNR-s-E]. I'm your host, Lisa Opel and I'm here to take you on a liberating ride through the world of sex shops, clubs, toys, play and more! Feel free to send me your questions and wishes anytime on Instagram or under yes@pleasepinchmehard.com [yes@pleasepinchmehard.com] More of me on Instagram (@pleasepinchmehard [https://www.instagram.com/pleasepinchmehard/]) and my webpage (www.pleasepinchmehard.com [http://www.pleasepinchmehard.com]) My book SEX SEX SEX - Your Workbook [https://bit.ly/sex-workbook] for Singles & Couples My book GIVE IT TO ME! [https://amzn.to/3wn6P3T] on Amazon (E-Book & Print) and Spotify as an Audiobook My book SAVED IN NOTES... [https://amzn.eu/d/gGXCR8b] on Amazon (E-Book, Softback & Hardback) Need a one-on-one session with a Confidante? I've got you: www.mrs-opel.com [http://www.mrs-opel.com] Get full access to Mrs Lisa O | pleasepinchmehard at lisaopel.substack.com/subscribe [https://lisaopel.substack.com/subscribe?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_4]

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