DEEP&DIRTY with Lisa Opel

(DE) mit Sinan Huemer: Deine DIRTY TALK BASICS.

DEEP&DIRTY (DE): Sinan Huemer und Lisa über DIRTY TALK BASICS. In dieser Folge sprechen wir Dirty Talk ohne Cringe: So findet ihr Worte, die wirklich zu euch passen. Der Link zu den Synonymen ist hier [http://www.pleasepinchmehard.com/andere-worter-fur-muschi-pimmel-und-co-auf-deutsch]: www.pleasepinchmehard.com/andere-worter-fur-muschi-pimmel-und-co-auf-deutsch [http://www.pleasepinchmehard.com/andere-worter-fur-muschi-pimmel-und-co-auf-deutsch] YouTube Video hier: https://youtu.be/H7Bv-b67bwY [https://youtu.be/H7Bv-b67bwY] ALLE LINKS ZU SINAN: Website: https://www.vikingtantra.com [https://www.vikingtantra.com] // Podcast: https://www.vikingtantra.com/viking-tantra-podcast [https://www.vikingtantra.com/viking-tantra-podcast] // Instagram: @vikingtantra ÜBER DIESE FOLGE: Dirty Talk muss nicht laut, hart oder komplett drüber sein. In dieser Folge sprechen Lisa Opel und Sinan Huemer darüber, wie erotische Sprache im Alltag anfangen kann, warum kopierte Porno-Sätze oft schiefgehen und wieso der beste Einstieg meistens viel simpler ist: sagen, was du fühlst, was du siehst oder was du dir gerade wünschst. Dazu gibt es ehrliche Tipps, Baby Steps, jede Menge Kontext und natürlich eine herrlich absurde Sammlung an Synonymen für Muschi, Pimmel und Co. Prefer the transcript? Find it here [https://lisaopel.substack.com/?utm_source=substack&utm_medium=web&utm_campaign=substack_profile]. I'm your host, Lisa Opel and I'm here to take you on a liberating ride through the world of sex shops, clubs, toys, play and more! Feel free to send me your questions and wishes anytime on Instagram or under yes@pleasepinchmehard.com [yes@pleasepinchmehard.com] More of me on Instagram (@pleasepinchmehard [https://www.instagram.com/pleasepinchmehard/]) and my webpage (www.pleasepinchmehard.com [http://www.pleasepinchmehard.com]) My book SEX SEX SEX - Your Workbook [https://bit.ly/sex-workbook] for Singles & Couples My book GIVE IT TO ME! [https://amzn.to/3wn6P3T] on Amazon (E-Book & Print) and Spotify as an Audiobook Need a one-on-one session with a Confidante? I've got you: www.mrs-opel.com [http://www.mrs-opel.com] Get full access to Mrs Lisa O | pleasepinchmehard at lisaopel.substack.com/subscribe [https://lisaopel.substack.com/subscribe?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_4]

(ENG) LILIANA LADIOS VELASQUEZ: Horny, Angry & Finally Free: Aging, desire, and the politics of being in a female body.

(ENG): LILIANA LADIOS VELASQUEZ: Horny, Angry & Finally Free: Aging, desire, and the politics of being in a female body. I’m joined by the incredible Liliana aka La Dios: performance artist, comedian, dominatrix, and abortion support doula and we get into everything from sex work and shame to perimenopause, rage, and the very real meaning of my body, my choice. We talk about what BDSM can actually teach you about boundaries (spoiler: a lot), why so many women feel disconnected from their desire right now, and how aging can bring a level of clarity that makes you… significantly less tolerant of nonsense. We also get personal. From her journey through sex work and comedy to the activism that now keeps her up at night, especially around abortion rights and creating spaces where people can make decisions about their bodies without shame or pressure. It’s raw, it’s funny, it’s honest and at times, it might hit a nerve (in the best way). Also: a three-legged cat named Tina Turner makes an appearance. You’re welcome. Watch the episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/4X84Zygj-4c [https://youtu.be/4X84Zygj-4c] About Liliana Liliana Velasquez M., aka La Dios, is a performance artist, comedian, dominatrix, and abortion support doula based in Berlin. Moving between sex work, stage, and activism, she uses her voice (and her presence) to challenge shame, question systems, and stand firmly for body autonomy and consent. Her work is raw, political, and deeply human — always rooted in one thing: freedom of choice. Find Liliana here: www.ladios.me [http://www.ladios.me] www.timetoshinekink.com [http://www.timetoshinekink.com]   IG: @Ladios_v I'm your host, Lisa Opel and I'm here to take you on a liberating ride through the world of sex shops, clubs, toys, play and more! Feel free to send me your questions and wishes anytime on Instagram or under yes@pleasepinchmehard.com [yes@pleasepinchmehard.com] More of me on Instagram (@pleasepinchmehard [https://www.instagram.com/pleasepinchmehard/]) and my webpage (www.pleasepinchmehard.com [http://www.pleasepinchmehard.com]) My book SEX SEX SEX - Your Workbook [https://bit.ly/sex-workbook] for Singles & Couples My book GIVE IT TO ME! [https://amzn.to/3wn6P3T] on Amazon (E-Book & Print) and Spotify as an Audiobook My book SAVED IN NOTES... [https://amzn.eu/d/gGXCR8b] on Amazon (E-Book, Softback & Hardback) Need a one-on-one session with a Confidante? I've got you: www.mrs-opel.com [http://www.mrs-opel.com] Get full access to Mrs Lisa O | pleasepinchmehard at lisaopel.substack.com/subscribe [https://lisaopel.substack.com/subscribe?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_4]

(ENG) COURTNEY BOYER: I asked my husband for an open marriage after 17 Years.

(ENG): COURTNEY BOYER: I asked my husband for an open marriage after 17 years. Courtney Boyer joins me for a deeply honest, sometimes uncomfortable conversation about desire, shame, and what happens when you stop living your life for approval. We talk about growing up in purity culture, marrying young, and building a life that looked “right” from the outside but didn’t fully feel like hers. After 17 years of marriage, she asked for something that would change everything and we get into what actually happens after a moment like that. Not the fantasy, but the conversations, the fear, the tension, and the growth that follows. We also explore navigating non-monogamy in a monogamous partnership, the emotional reality behind opening a relationship, and why so many women feel disconnected from their own needs in the first place. This isn’t a guide or a blueprint. It’s a real conversation about self-abandonment, reclaiming pleasure, and learning to choose yourself even when it’s messy, complicated, and doesn’t fit into neat labels. About Courtney Courtney Boyer, M.Ed., M.S., is a therapist-turned-relationship coach, writer, and speaker whose work centers on love, desire, and authenticity. She is the author of Not Tonight Honey and Opened, and has been featured in Glamour, Cosmopolitan, The Huffington Post, and BBC Radio Live. Drawing on her background in mental health and sex therapy, she blends professional expertise with lived experience to help women break free from shame, reclaim their voice, and create relationships rooted in honesty and autonomy. She lives in Germany with her husband and three children. Find Courtney here: Instagram: @courtneyboyercoaching - https://www.instagram.com/courtneyboyercoaching/ [https://www.instagram.com/courtneyboyercoaching/?hl=en] | Couple IG: @themonopolycouple - https://www.instagram.com/themonopolycouple/ [https://www.instagram.com/themonopolycouple/] | Website: https://www.courtneyboyercoaching.com [https://www.courtneyboyercoaching.com] Watch the episode on YouTube: Prefer the transcript? Find it here: https://youtu.be/vx53NNR-s-E [https://youtu.be/vx53NNR-s-E]. I'm your host, Lisa Opel and I'm here to take you on a liberating ride through the world of sex shops, clubs, toys, play and more! Feel free to send me your questions and wishes anytime on Instagram or under yes@pleasepinchmehard.com [yes@pleasepinchmehard.com] More of me on Instagram (@pleasepinchmehard [https://www.instagram.com/pleasepinchmehard/]) and my webpage (www.pleasepinchmehard.com [http://www.pleasepinchmehard.com]) My book SEX SEX SEX - Your Workbook [https://bit.ly/sex-workbook] for Singles & Couples My book GIVE IT TO ME! [https://amzn.to/3wn6P3T] on Amazon (E-Book & Print) and Spotify as an Audiobook My book SAVED IN NOTES... [https://amzn.eu/d/gGXCR8b] on Amazon (E-Book, Softback & Hardback) Need a one-on-one session with a Confidante? I've got you: www.mrs-opel.com [http://www.mrs-opel.com] Get full access to Mrs Lisa O | pleasepinchmehard at lisaopel.substack.com/subscribe [https://lisaopel.substack.com/subscribe?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_4]

(ENG) Why don’t I initiate sex (and what does it mean)?

(ENG): Why don’t I initiate sex (and what does it mean)? (A collab with Evie Plumb from Cliterally The Best) AD // BEDUCATED: Sometimes change starts with a really good question. If you want to find out where you are on your sexual journey and what actually feels good for you, click the link [https://beducate.me/pd2615-ppmh] and take the Beducated quiz. At the end, you’ll get a personalized roadmap towards more pleasure and a more fulfilling sex life. Available in English and German. LINK: https://beducate.me/pd2615-ppmh [https://beducate.me/pd2615-ppmh] You love your partner. You enjoy sex. Yet somehow you’re almost never the one initiating it. If that sounds familiar, you’re not alone. 📖 Read the full article here: https://cliterallythebest.com/why-dont-i-initiate-sex-and-what-does-it-mean [https://cliterallythebest.com/why-dont-i-initiate-sex-and-what-does-it-mean] In this episode, we unpack why initiating sex can feel surprisingly difficult; even in happy, loving relationships. From fear of rejection and shame, to responsive desire, stress, and relationship dynamics, this conversation explores what’s really going on beneath the surface. This episode will help you understand: - why initiation isn’t just about desire - how different types of desire affect who makes the first move - the role of stress, mental load, and emotional dynamics - how to shift the pattern without pressure or blame Most importantly, it will remind you of one thing:you are not broken. Prefer the transcript? Find it here [https://lisaopel.substack.com/?utm_source=substack&utm_medium=web&utm_campaign=substack_profile]. I'm your host, Lisa Opel and I'm here to take you on a liberating ride through the world of sex shops, clubs, toys, play and more! Feel free to send me your questions and wishes anytime on Instagram or under yes@pleasepinchmehard.com [yes@pleasepinchmehard.com] More of me on Instagram (@pleasepinchmehard [https://www.instagram.com/pleasepinchmehard/]) and my webpage (www.pleasepinchmehard.com [http://www.pleasepinchmehard.com]) My book SEX SEX SEX - Your Workbook [https://bit.ly/sex-workbook] for Singles & Couples My book GIVE IT TO ME! [https://amzn.to/3wn6P3T] on Amazon (E-Book & Print) and Spotify as an Audiobook My book SAVED IN NOTES... [https://amzn.eu/d/gGXCR8b] on Amazon (E-Book, Softback & Hardback) Need a one-on-one session with a Confidante? I've got you: www.mrs-opel.com [http://www.mrs-opel.com] Get full access to Mrs Lisa O | pleasepinchmehard at lisaopel.substack.com/subscribe [https://lisaopel.substack.com/subscribe?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_4]

(DE) mit Mia Edelrot: Was Escort wirklich bedeutet (und was nicht).

DEEP&DIRTY (DE): Mia Edelrot über was Escort wirklich bedeutet (und was nicht).. In dieser Folge sprechen wir über Escort ohne Klischee: Nähe, Freiheit und das Doppelleben. ALLE LINKS ZU MIA:Website: www.sprecherin-mia.de [http://www.sprecherin-mia.de] // Escortagentur: www.edelrot-escort.de [http://www.edelrot-escort.de] // Ihr Buch: Escorts bleiben nicht zum Frühstück (überall erhältlich) // Instagram: @sprecherin_mia ÜBER DIESE FOLGE: Mia gibt ehrliche Einblicke in ihre Zeit als High-Class-Escort und erzählt, wie sich diese Welt wirklich anfühlt: zwischen Nähe und klaren Grenzen, zwischen Freiheit und gesellschaftlichen Erwartungen. Wir sprechen darüber, was viele Menschen komplett falsch verstehen, warum Escort nichts mit einem „abgearbeiteten Skript“ zu tun hat und wie viel es eigentlich mit Präsenz, Chemie und echter Verbindung zu tun hat. Es geht um Begegnungen, die unter die Haut gehen, um ein Doppelleben, das sich irgendwann nicht mehr trennen lässt, und um die Frage, wie wir als Gesellschaft auf weibliche Lust, Selbstbestimmung und Geld im Kontext von Intimität schauen. Außerdem erzählt Mia, warum sie heute ihre eigene Escortagentur gegründet hat, was sie anders machen möchte und warum Vielfalt, Sicherheit und Transparenz für sie im Mittelpunkt stehen. Eine Folge über Intimität, Vorurteile und den Mut, den eigenen Weg zu gehen. Prefer the transcript? Find it here [https://lisaopel.substack.com/?utm_source=substack&utm_medium=web&utm_campaign=substack_profile]. I'm your host, Lisa Opel and I'm here to take you on a liberating ride through the world of sex shops, clubs, toys, play and more! Feel free to send me your questions and wishes anytime on Instagram or under yes@pleasepinchmehard.com [yes@pleasepinchmehard.com] More of me on Instagram (@pleasepinchmehard [https://www.instagram.com/pleasepinchmehard/]) and my webpage (www.pleasepinchmehard.com [http://www.pleasepinchmehard.com]) My book SEX SEX SEX - Your Workbook [https://bit.ly/sex-workbook] for Singles & Couples My book GIVE IT TO ME! [https://amzn.to/3wn6P3T] on Amazon (E-Book & Print) and Spotify as an Audiobook Need a one-on-one session with a Confidante? I've got you: www.mrs-opel.com [http://www.mrs-opel.com] Get full access to Mrs Lisa O | pleasepinchmehard at lisaopel.substack.com/subscribe [https://lisaopel.substack.com/subscribe?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_4]