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A submissive was introduced to BDSM by a former partner, but their relationship ended before any kinky exploration. Here’s the question: I met a Dom by accident on Tinder. He suggested I look into... The post Q&A: What Do I Do as a Newly Single But Inexperienced Sub? [https://lovingbdsm.net/2025/05/19/inexperienced-sub-question-65/] appeared first on Loving BDSM [https://lovingbdsm.net].

To us, the best way to be consistent in your power exchange – as a Dom or sub individually and together – is with a routine. In this episode, we’ll talk about the factors... The post How to Be Consistent in D/s | Making D/s Work in the Real World [https://lovingbdsm.net/2025/05/09/consistent-in-ds-episode-440/] appeared first on Loving BDSM [https://lovingbdsm.net].

A switch who’s new to topping keeps apologizing when their partner expresses (consensual) pain. Here’s the question: I’ve recently discovered my Switch side and Impact Topped for the first time at a kink event... The post Q&A: How Do I Stop Apologizing While Topping? [https://lovingbdsm.net/2025/05/05/apologizing-question-64/] appeared first on Loving BDSM [https://lovingbdsm.net].

Whether you’re a parent (now or in the future) or you are a caregiver for an adult in your life (now or in the future), it’s going to impact your power exchange. This week,... The post D/s When You Take Care of Others | Making D/s Work in the Real World [https://lovingbdsm.net/2025/05/02/ds-parenting-episode-439/] appeared first on Loving BDSM [https://lovingbdsm.net].

This submissive knows they need to move slowly into D/s but nothing’s happening at all. Here’s the question: I’m 28 and am just figuring out that I want/need a Dominant partner. I’ve been kind... The post Q&A: How Do I Convince My Dom That I’m Ready for More? [https://lovingbdsm.net/2025/04/28/convince-dom-question-63/] appeared first on Loving BDSM [https://lovingbdsm.net].