Oversharing with the Overbys

Jo's Rihanna Era

We had a baby! We recorded this episode about a couple weeks ago on why we chose not to share Jo's pregnancy in real time. (0:00) - What's going on? (3:21) - Maternity photos and the snowpocalypse (9:30) - Greg's Reads of the Week - I have two young daughters and here's why I say no to sleepovers | Fox News [https://www.foxnews.com/opinion/two-young-daughters-why-no-sleepovers] - Infant screen time could impact academic success, study says | CNN [https://www.cnn.com/2023/01/30/health/screen-time-infants-executive-function-wellness/index.html] (17:20) - Word of the Week (20:41) - Why we chose not to share!  Pregnancy and content creation discussion (36:09) - Positives of keeping the news to ourselves? (40:36) - What have been the negatives of not sharing? (53:36) - What would we do differently in hindsight? (56:14) - Voicemails - What can nurses to do care for people better? If you've got a voicemail or want our (likely unqualified) advice on something, hit us up at the Speakpipe link below! http://www.speakpipe.com/oversharingwiththeoverbys [http://www.speakpipe.com/oversharingwiththeoverbys] If you'd like to email us you can reach the pod at oversharing@jojohnsonoverby.com! CONNECT: TikTok: @jojohnsonoverby / @mrjojohnson Instagram: @jojohnsonoverby / @matt.overby Website: https://jojohnsonoverby.com/ [https://jojohnsonoverby.com/] Watch the Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL29Si0ylWz2qj5t6hYHSCxYkvZCDGejGq [https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL29Si0ylWz2qj5t6hYHSCxYkvZCDGejGq]

Superman's Laundry Technique

This week we get into part two of our division of labor discussion, where we break down how things work in our house and answer a ton of Instagram questions and comments from listeners! (0:00) - The "Superman" story (5:16) - Division of labor discussion / Q&A - Feeling like everyone does everything - Making the mental load equitable - Division of labor with ADHD - How to see what you aren’t doing - What if your partner isn't home? - Weaponized incompetence + second shift - Kid’s involvement in division of labor - And more! (58:35) - Matt’s patent pending foolproof laundry routine (1:01:00) - Greg’s Reads of the Week! - Opinion: 'Don’t just sit there, do something.' The stock market is telling you to make some hard decisions with your money now. - MarketWatch [https://www.marketwatch.com/story/dont-just-sit-there-do-something-for-workers-and-retirees-alike-the-stock-market-is-telling-you-to-make-some-hard-decisions-now-with-your-money-11674773122] - A Millennial Who Just Bought a Home Regrets It. Did You? Tell Us. (businessinsider.com) [https://www.businessinsider.com/buyers-remorse-buying-a-home-regrets-2023-1] (1:04:00) - Voicemails: our unqualified financial advice and our work history Links: - Behavioral Scientist article referenced: Gendered Division of Labor Served a Purpose. To Make Progress, Don’t Erase It. Replace It. - Behavioral Scientist [https://behavioralscientist.org/gendered-division-of-labor-served-a-purpose-to-make-progress-dont-erase-it-replace-it/] If you've got a voicemail or want our (likely unqualified) advice on something, hit us up at the Speakpipe link below! http://www.speakpipe.com/oversharingwiththeoverbys [http://www.speakpipe.com/oversharingwiththeoverbys] If you'd like to email us you can reach the pod at oversharing@jojohnsonoverby.com! CONNECT: TikTok: @jojohnsonoverby / @mrjojohnson Instagram: @jojohnsonoverby / @matt.overby Website: https://jojohnsonoverby.com/ [https://jojohnsonoverby.com/] Watch the Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL29Si0ylWz2qj5t6hYHSCxYkvZCDGejGq [https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL29Si0ylWz2qj5t6hYHSCxYkvZCDGejGq]

Division of Labor and Bubble Baths

This week we start a deep dive into division of labor! We flip things around this week to give ourselves some runway to really get into the topic, but don't worry - we still manage to squeeze in a voicemail! (0:00) - ADHD (3:00) - Episode breakdown (6:36) - Bubble bath side bar (9:10) - Greg’s Reads of the Week - Watch this battery-powered Audi SUV concept turn into a pickup | CNN Business [https://www.cnn.com/videos/business/2023/01/26/audi-activesphere-concept-electric-suv-pickup-truck-contd-gr-orig.cnn] - Warren Buffett Says the Ultimate Test of a Life Well-Lived Boils Down to 1 Simple Principle | Inc.com [https://www.inc.com/marcel-schwantes/warren-buffett-says-ultimate-test-of-a-life-well-lived-boils-down-to-1-simple-principle.html] - A Psychologist Teaches Us How To Fearlessly Step Outside Of Our Comfort Zone (forbes.com) [https://www.forbes.com/sites/traversmark/2023/01/21/a-psychologist-teaches-us-how-to-fearlessly-step-outside-of-our-comfort-zone/?sh=654e24eb4e57] - How much money to save monthly to retire with $2 million (cnbc.com) [https://www.cnbc.com/2023/01/18/how-much-money-to-save-monthly-to-retire-with-2-million-dollars.html] (18:36) - Word of the Week (23:10) - History of division of labor (30:00) - Working from home and early relationship division of labor (35:45) - Fair Play and how we structure division of labor (1:03:00) - Voicemail – going through a friendship breakup? LINKS: - The Yangs video [https://www.tiktok.com/@them_yangs/video/7188198025272118570?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc&web_id=7195043273164670506] referenced in the pod - Behavioral Scientist article Matt references in the podcast: Gendered Division of Labor Served a Purpose. To Make Progress, Don’t Erase It. Replace It. - Behavioral Scientist [https://behavioralscientist.org/gendered-division-of-labor-served-a-purpose-to-make-progress-dont-erase-it-replace-it/] If you've got a voicemail or want our (likely unqualified) advice on something, hit us up at the Speakpipe link below! http://www.speakpipe.com/oversharingwiththeoverbys [http://www.speakpipe.com/oversharingwiththeoverbys] If you'd like to email us you can reach the pod at oversharing@jojohnsonoverby.com! CONNECT: TikTok: @jojohnsonoverby / @mrjojohnson Instagram: @jojohnsonoverby / @matt.overby Website: https://jojohnsonoverby.com/ [https://jojohnsonoverby.com/] Watch the Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL29Si0ylWz2qj5t6hYHSCxYkvZCDGejGq [https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL29Si0ylWz2qj5t6hYHSCxYkvZCDGejGq]

Save a Dog, Lose a Car

We lighten things up this week when our main topic is our completely non-expert interior design thoughts. We kick things off like we usually do with a weekly recap, we update you on the status of our sick dog, and we wrap up the podcast with more great voicemails! (0:00) - Cell phones, minutes, and high dollar texting (3:26) - Life Updates and thought potpourri (17:09) - Interior Design – This or That? (32:00) - Greg’s Reads of the Week! (40:26) - Word of the Week (42:15) - Voicemails: Where would we live, what is next, and thoughts on living and eating alone! To submit your own Reads of the Week or just feel like emailing the podcast, email us at oversharing@jojohnsonoverby.com! If you've got a voicemail or want our (likely unqualified) advice on something, hit us up at the Speakpipe link below! http://www.speakpipe.com/oversharingwiththeoverbys [http://www.speakpipe.com/oversharingwiththeoverbys] If you'd like to email us you can reach the pod at oversharing@jojohnsonoverby.com! CONNECT: TikTok: @jojohnsonoverby / @mrjojohnson Instagram: @jojohnsonoverby / @matt.overby Website: https://jojohnsonoverby.com/ [https://jojohnsonoverby.com/] Watch the Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL29Si0ylWz2qj5t6hYHSCxYkvZCDGejGq [https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL29Si0ylWz2qj5t6hYHSCxYkvZCDGejGq]

Parenting - Why Do It?

Changing things up a bit this week, so we're gonna drop some time stamps below this week.  We talk about what's been new the last week, dive deep into parenting and our disagreements in parenting, and get to answer a really thoughtful question from one of our listeners! (10:22) Podcast business / discussion (11:36) Why did we decide to have a kid? (27:12) Disagreements about parenting and how we've handled them (39:35) Greg’s Reads of the Week (46:25) Word of the Week (48:09) Voicemails – Five questions to answer before you get married If you've got a voicemail or want our (likely unqualified) advice on something, hit us up at the Speakpipe link below! http://www.speakpipe.com/oversharingwiththeoverbys [http://www.speakpipe.com/oversharingwiththeoverbys] If you'd like to email us you can reach the pod at oversharing@jojohnsonoverby.com! CONNECT: TikTok: @jojohnsonoverby / @mrjojohnson Instagram: @jojohnsonoverby / @matt.overby Website: https://jojohnsonoverby.com/ [https://jojohnsonoverby.com/] Watch the Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL29Si0ylWz2qj5t6hYHSCxYkvZCDGejGq [https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL29Si0ylWz2qj5t6hYHSCxYkvZCDGejGq]