226 NextGen Podcast | FBC Boerne

Ep. 015 // What is God's Will for my life?

Graduation season brings a lot of big questions: Where should I go to college? What career should I pursue? What if I make the wrong decision? For many students, seeking God’s will can feel overwhelming, especially when life suddenly opens up with more options than ever before. In this episode of the 226 NextGen Podcast, Garrett sits down with Andrea and Pastor Jason to talk about how parents can help their students make major life decisions with wisdom, humility, and trust in the Lord. They discuss why God’s will is not a hidden trapdoor, how to take pressure off students, and how parents can guide conversations without controlling the outcome. Pastor Jason also shares a simple process for making big decisions: pray, look to Scripture, use wisdom and logic, seek wise counsel, surrender your motives, and trust God with the outcome. Whether your student is graduating this year or still years away from launching into adulthood, this conversation will help you build a biblical framework for guiding them toward faithfulness, wisdom, and confidence in God’s care.  Key Takeaways: Parents can help students by being honest about their own uncertainty and past decisions. God’s will is not a guessing game where one wrong move ruins your life. Scripture gives clear boundaries for faithfulness, but there is often freedom within those boundaries. Students need wise, trusted people who can speak truth into their lives. Parents are called not to control their kids, but to help launch them into adulthood as people who can hear from the Lord and make wise decisions. Resources Mentioned: Kevin DeYoung, Just Do Something Discussion Questions for Parents: How have I talked about God’s will in a way that may create pressure or fear for my student? Where does my student need freedom to make a wise decision without feeling like they must find the “perfect” path? Who are the wise voices my student has in their life right now? Am I helping my student learn to follow the Lord, or am I mainly trying to control the outcome Thank you for joining us! Want more information? Check out our website: Kids: https://www.fbcboerne.org/kids/ [https://www.fbcboerne.org/kids/] Youth: https://www.fbcboerne.org/youth/ [https://www.fbcboerne.org/youth/]

Ep. 014 // Anxiety, Overthinking, and the Word of God

In this episode of the 226 Next Gen Podcast, Garrett, Daniel, and Teresa tackle something almost everyone is feeling right now—anxiety, overthinking, and the constant noise in our heads. We’re living in what many are calling the anxious age. From kids to students to adults, the weight of information, pressure, and uncertainty is higher than ever. But what if anxiety isn’t always a sign that something is wrong with your faith… but an invitation to bring your heart back to truth? In this conversation, we unpack: * What anxiety actually is (and what it isn’t) * Why following Jesus doesn’t mean you’ll never feel anxious * How culture, distraction, and information overload are shaping our minds * A simple, practical framework for using Scripture to quiet the noise If you’ve ever thought, “I know what’s true, but my thoughts feel louder than God’s voice,” this episode is for you. Resources Mentioned * Brick (distraction-blocking device/app to help limit phone use): https://getbrick.com [https://getbrick.com/] Thank you for joining us! Want more information? Check out our website: Kids: https://www.fbcboerne.org/kids/ [https://www.fbcboerne.org/kids/] Youth: https://www.fbcboerne.org/youth/ [https://www.fbcboerne.org/youth/]

Ep. 013 // Ownership vs Ambassador Parenting

Theresa and Garrett sit down with Daniel to unpack a framework Daniel recently taught at MomCo (formerly MOPS): most of us parent like “owners,” when God calls us to parent like “ambassadors.” And that shift changes everything: how you see your kids, how you measure “success,” and what you do when you blow it. In this episode, you’ll hear: * The difference between parenting as an owner vs. parenting as an ambassador * The four places “ownership” shows up most: identity, work, success, and reputation * Why owner-parenting often feels like pressure… and how it can quietly turn into desperation * How ambassador-parenting frees you to aim for faithfulness over outcomes * Why confession, apology, and repentance with your kids can be a powerful discipleship moment * Practical next steps: pause and pray, reframe discipline as discipleship, and anchor your identity in Christ Resource mentioned: Paul David Tripp, Parenting: 14 Gospel Principles That Can Radically Change Your Family Thank you for joining us! Want more information? Check out our website: Kids: https://www.fbcboerne.org/kids/ [https://www.fbcboerne.org/kids/] Youth: https://www.fbcboerne.org/youth/ [https://www.fbcboerne.org/youth/]

Ep. 012 // Brave Parenting w/ Kelly Newcom

This week, we’re joined by Kelly Newcomb—pharmacist, foster/adopt mom of seven, and founder of Brave Parenting—to talk about what’s actually happening in the digital world our kids are growing up in. Kelly shares the real story that launched her ministry (including a terrifying wake-up call involving online grooming and the very real threat of trafficking), and why she shifted her focus from “just data” to discipleship. We cover: * Why the best strategy for young kids is delay, delay, delay (especially personal handheld devices) * The hidden way screens shape kids through isolation, not just “content” * What’s happening with gaming and why it can function like addiction (and why it often escalates) * Practical steps for parents who feel like they’ve already opened “Pandora’s box” (what to do if your teen already has a phone) * The biggest red flags to watch for—TikTok and Roblox—and why they’re uniquely concerning * Moving from tech “savvy” to tech wisdom: forming kids who can think, discern, and follow Jesus in a noisy world * A surprisingly helpful tool for young families: the Tin Can kid-safe home phone Kelly also points parents to resources you can use immediately—including app guides, her parent curriculum, and a new student study coming soon. Resources mentioned: * BraveParenting.net * Brave Parenting Podcast * Managing Media, Creating Character (Parent Small Group Study Guide) * Managing Media, Creating Character (Student Study Guide — coming soon) If you’ve felt overwhelmed, behind, or unsure how to lead your family through technology without fear—or without giving in—this episode is for you. Thank you for joining us! Want more information? Check out our website: Kids: https://www.fbcboerne.org/kids/ [https://www.fbcboerne.org/kids/] Youth: https://www.fbcboerne.org/youth/ [https://www.fbcboerne.org/youth/]

Ep. 011 // Household Rhythms

In this episode of the 226 Next-Gen Podcast, the FBC Boerne Next-Gen team kicks off a new season by talking about household rhythms, the ordinary habits and routines that quietly disciple the kids in your home. Garrett, Daniel, Teresa, Andrea, and Staci share honest stories from their own families (from toddlers to adult kids) and unpack how our daily patterns show what we value, shape who we’re becoming, and, by God’s grace, can be changed at any stage. You’ll hear practical ideas for mealtimes, bedtimes, discipline moments, phones and technology, and simple ways to bring Jesus into what you’re already doing, without adding a huge “to-do” list. Whether you’re parenting littles, raising teens, fostering, or walking with adult children, this episode will help you think intentionally about the rhythms in your home and how to create space for the Holy Spirit to work in your family over time. Thank you for joining us! Want more information? Check out our website: Kids: https://www.fbcboerne.org/kids/ [https://www.fbcboerne.org/kids/] Youth: https://www.fbcboerne.org/youth/ [https://www.fbcboerne.org/youth/]