Fight Club: Live in Freedom

49: The Lies Trauma Taught You, featuring Scott Stolarick

In this episode of Fight Club: Live in Freedom, Jared sits down with psychotherapist Scott Stolarick to unpack the complicated reality of trauma and the powerful grip it can have on our lives—especially for those struggling with addiction. Together, they explore how trauma often whispers lies about our identity, fuels deep shame, and drives destructive patterns that keep people stuck in cycles of coping rather than healing. But the conversation doesn’t stop at the problem. Scott and Jared point listeners toward hope, reminding them that healing begins when we confront the truth about our pain, bring shame into the light, and allow our wounds to become places where growth, freedom, and restoration can begin. If you have questions or are interested in taking the Fight Club: Live in Freedom course, email jared.fightclub@gmail.com Learn more at www.fightclubministry.com and to purchase the book, Fight Club: Live in Freedom, visit: https://a.co/d/063ZNweT [https://a.co/d/063ZNweT] Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/fightclubministry [https://www.facebook.com/fightclubministry] Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fightclub.ministry/ [https://www.instagram.com/fightclub.ministry/] Twitter: https://x.com/fightclubmin [https://x.com/fightclubmin] TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@fightclubministry [https://www.tiktok.com/@fightclubministry] YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@fightclubministry [https://www.youtube.com/@fightclubministry] LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/fightclubministry/ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/fightclubministry/] To learn more about Scott Stolarick please visit: www.mosaicpathwaycounseling.org Disclaimer: The opinions and values expressed by guests on the Fight Club: Live in Freedom podcast are their own and do not necessarily reflect the opinions and values of the host. Appearance on the podcast does not imply an endorsement of the guest or their products by Fight Club: Live in Freedom or its host. While we work hard to bring you quality and valuable content, listeners are encouraged to use their own best judgement in applying the information or products discussed on this podcast.

48: Fighting For Love And Winning The Battles In Marriage That Matter Most, featuring Monica Tanner

In this episode of Fight Club: Live in Freedom, Jared Wilson sits down with guest Monica Tanner to unpack the real challenges couples face in communication and the common pitfalls that quietly erode connection in marriage. Together, they discuss how misunderstanding, shame, poor communication, and unmet expectations can create distance—and how intentional listening, honesty, and humility can rebuild trust. This conversation is especially powerful for the recovering addict who is learning to approach relationships in new and healthy ways. It emphasizes that recovery isn’t just about breaking harmful habits, it’s about developing the skills to communicate with clarity, take responsibility, and pursue connection in a way that honors both your spouse and your growth journey. If you have questions or are interested in taking the Fight Club: Live in Freedom course, email jared.fightclub@gmail.com Learn more at www.fightclubministry.com and to purchase the book, Fight Club: Live in Freedom, visit: https://a.co/d/063ZNweT [https://a.co/d/063ZNweT] Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/fightclubministry [https://www.facebook.com/fightclubministry] Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fightclub.ministry/ [https://www.instagram.com/fightclub.ministry/] Twitter: https://x.com/fightclubmin [https://x.com/fightclubmin] TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@fightclubministry [https://www.tiktok.com/@fightclubministry] YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@fightclubministry [https://www.youtube.com/@fightclubministry] LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/fightclubministry/ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/fightclubministry/] To learn more about Monica Tanner please visit: www.monicatanner.com Disclaimer: The opinions and values expressed by guests on the Fight Club: Live in Freedom podcast are their own and do not necessarily reflect the opinions and values of the host. Appearance on the podcast does not imply an endorsement of the guest or their products by Fight Club: Live in Freedom or its host. While we work hard to bring you quality and valuable content, listeners are encouraged to use their own best judgement in applying the information or products discussed on this podcast.

47: (Part 2 Living Counter-Culturally) Flip the Script

In this episode of Fight Club: Live in Freedom, Jared and Michael walk through the Beatitudes in Matthew 5:3–10 and reveal how Jesus’ words map the pathway to true freedom for the man or woman recovering from porn or sexual addiction. From being poor in spirit and honest about our brokenness, to hungering and thirsting for righteousness, to pursuing purity of heart, the Beatitudes show that recovery isn’t just behavior modification—it’s heart transformation. Jesus doesn’t offer shame; He offers blessing, mercy, and a new identity. This conversation reminds listeners that lasting freedom is found not in hiding the struggle, but in surrendering it and allowing Christ to reshape our desires from the inside out. If you have questions or are interested in taking the Fight Club: Live in Freedom course, email jared.fightclub@gmail.com Learn more at www.fightclubministry.com and to purchase the book, Fight Club: Live in Freedom, visit: https://a.co/d/063ZNweT [https://a.co/d/063ZNweT] Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/fightclubministry [https://www.facebook.com/fightclubministry] Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fightclub.ministry/ [https://www.instagram.com/fightclub.ministry/] Twitter: https://x.com/fightclubmin [https://x.com/fightclubmin] TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@fightclubministry [https://www.tiktok.com/@fightclubministry] YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@fightclubministry [https://www.youtube.com/@fightclubministry] LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/fightclubministry/ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/fightclubministry/]

46: (Part 1 Living Counter-Culturally) Defy The Script And Live Unpredictably In The Best Way

In this episode of Fight Club: Live in Freedom Michael and Jared challenge us to live boldly counter-cultural in a world that often celebrates what God calls us to resist. In part 1 of this two part series we discuss the importance of refusing to glorify sexual sin, guarding against compromise in the everyday areas that quietly shape our character, and rejecting the pull of radical individualism that isolates us from accountability and community. Most importantly, this conversation reminds listeners that freedom begins with honesty. We must be willing to speak openly about our struggles, step out of shame and live in the light where real transformation can begin. If you have questions or are interested in taking the Fight Club: Live in Freedom course, email jared.fightclub@gmail.com Learn more at www.fightclubministry.com and to purchase the book, Fight Club: Live in Freedom, visit: https://a.co/d/063ZNweT [https://a.co/d/063ZNweT] Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/fightclubministry [https://www.facebook.com/fightclubministry] Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fightclub.ministry/ [https://www.instagram.com/fightclub.ministry/] Twitter: https://x.com/fightclubmin [https://x.com/fightclubmin] TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@fightclubministry [https://www.tiktok.com/@fightclubministry] YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@fightclubministry [https://www.youtube.com/@fightclubministry] LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/fightclubministry/ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/fightclubministry/]

45: The Gift of Singleness (Can I Exchange It?)

This episode explores how singleness, especially in the wake of stepping out of porn or sex addiction addiction, is not a punishment but a providential gift. Instead of rushing to fill loneliness with a relationship, we unpack how this season offers sacred space to heal, rebuild integrity, renew the mind, and deepen intimacy with God without bringing another person into an unresolved struggle. While the desire for companionship is good and God-given, patience forms character, and trust transforms waiting into worship. Singleness becomes less about counting the days and more about stewarding the moment because with God, it’s never about time, it’s about His perfect timing. If you have questions or are interested in taking the Fight Club: Live in Freedom course, email jared.fightclub@gmail.com Learn more at www.fightclubministry.com and to purchase the book, Fight Club: Live in Freedom, visit: https://a.co/d/063ZNweT [https://a.co/d/063ZNweT] Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/fightclubministry [https://www.facebook.com/fightclubministry] Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fightclub.ministry/ [https://www.instagram.com/fightclub.ministry/] Twitter: https://x.com/fightclubmin [https://x.com/fightclubmin] TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@fightclubministry [https://www.tiktok.com/@fightclubministry] YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@fightclubministry [https://www.youtube.com/@fightclubministry] LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/fightclubministry/ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/fightclubministry/]