Living, with Dr. Monica Shah

Journey to Myself: Lessons from a Life Rebuilt, with Dr. Monica Shah

Keywords   authenticity, life transitions, identity, building community, self-discovery, life lessons, resilience, self-love, living in the questions, radical acceptance, fulfillment Summary   Dr. Monica Shah shares her journey of balancing dance, psychology, and personal growth, highlighting both the challenges and joys of living authentically. She charts her path to self-love through rebuilding her life multiple times, and she reflects on feeling lost while becoming herself. Discover insights on radical acceptance, building community, and embracing life's uncertainties.     Topics   Balancing career, passions, and personal life The importance of nurturing self-love and authenticity Challenges of life transitions Overcoming changes in social circles The role of radical acceptance in living well Releasing control over how you think your life should go Building authentic community     Sound bites   “You can both want something in your life and feel satisfied in your life just as it is” “Releasing control helps you cultivate more enjoyment in the moments that you experience” “Not needing to have an answer right now and also trusting that one will unfold with time” Chapters   00:00 Introduction to Living, with Dr. Monica Shah 03:17 My Journey: Roots and Influences 07:09 Navigating Career Choices, Fears, and Identity 08:28 Life Changing Decisions 10:15 Rebuilding Life in Vancouver 12:26 Feeling Unsettled and Getting Unstuck 13:27 Pursuing a Doctorate and New Beginnings 15:08 Support Systems and Community 16:05 Challenges of Shifting Social Circles 16:55 Embracing Sadness 17:42 Questioning Traditional Norms and Beliefs 18:37 Holding Onto Yourself Amidst Others' Voices 20:01 Living with Openness and Uncertainty 21:13 Dealing with Modern Dating 21:49 Self-Discovery, Authenticity, and Fulfillment 25:21 Radical Acceptance and Realms of Control 27:17 Gratitude and Living in the Questions 28:28 Joy and Purpose 29:35 Reflections on My Journey     Guest links   Website – www.drmonicashah.com Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/drmonicashah

Courage to Pivot: Leaving Corporate, Discovering Purpose, and Your Ideal Life, with Hannah Kissel

Keywords   coaching, personal growth, transformation, ambition, purpose, self-doubt, ideal life, women empowerment, high achievers, entrepreneurship, community support     Summary   What happens when you have the title, the success, the achievements - and you still feel like something’s missing? In this episode, Hannah shares her journey from thriving in a corporate career to stepping into her calling as an executive life coach.  We talk about redefining ambition, navigating career transitions, and discovering a purpose that feels aligned. Hannah and I explore: * Why success doesn’t always equal fulfillment * The quiet “not enough” feeling that many people carry * How your purpose isn’t fixed - it evolves as you do * What it really means to design your ideal life (hint: it starts with your everyday experience) * And why joy and fun are not luxuries - they’re essential This episode is an invitation to pause, reflect, and ask yourself: Am I chasing success - or creating a life that actually feels good? If you’re questioning your next chapter or craving deeper purpose, this conversation will remind you: you don’t have to abandon ambition - you just have to align it.   Takeaways   Achievement is often confused with self-worth. Many high achievers struggle with feelings of not being good enough. Community support is vital during major life transitions. Your purpose can evolve and change over time. Defining an ideal life involves envisioning daily experiences. Joy and fun are essential for a fulfilling life. Unhealthy ambition can lead to burnout and dissatisfaction. Women often face unique pressures regarding purpose and achievement. It's important to explore interests without the pressure of outcomes.     Sound bites   "What do you actually truly want?" "I always confused achievement for love." "You can shift and change your purpose."     Chapters   00:00 Introduction to Living, with Dr. Monica Shah 01:57 Hannah's Journey: From Corporate to Coaching 05:41 Patterns in High Achieving Women 08:29 Societal Influences on "I'm Not Enough" Beliefs 11:33 Healthy Ambition vs. Unhealthy Ambition 14:31 Challenges in Career Transitions and Entrepreneurship 18:22 Support Systems When Going Against the Grain 22:34 Confronting Parts During Times of Change 24:16 Coping with Isolation and Financial Fears as an Entrepreneur 27:22 Understanding Purpose and Purpose Anxiety 31:29 Finding Purpose in Your Day-to-Day 34:07 Women and Purpose 35:05 Crafting Your Ideal Life 37:37 Joys of Leading An Ideal Life 40:05 Locating Your Internal Compass 42:04 Finding Community and Starting Small 44:10 Joy for the Sake of Enjoyment 45:26 Where to Find Hannah 47:11 Outtake 47:49 Subscribe   Follow Hannah Kissel on Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/hannahmaekissel/] Connect with Hannah Kissel on LinkedIn [https://www.linkedin.com/in/hannahkissel/] Access the Free Career Confidence Cours [https://www.hannahkissel.com/careerconfidence]e Visit www.hannahkissel.com [http://www.hannahkissel.com/]

Beyond the Spotlight: Aging, Authenticity, and Creative Fulfillment, with Ulka Mohanty

Keywords   creativity, success, rejection, aging, single life, risk-taking, personal growth, artistic journey, resilience, personal fulfillment     Summary   What does success really mean - especially in the arts, in Hollywood, and in life? In this conversation, Ulka shares her journey from a stable IT career in Montreal to pursuing her passion for the arts in LA. We highlight how aging in Hollywood brings both challenges and hard-earned wisdom, and why embracing your current chapter - whether single, partnered, thriving, or uncertain - is essential to living well. Ulka discusses redefining success in the arts, especially when life doesn’t follow the traditional timeline, and encourages listeners to take risks and follow their curiosity. We look at the benefits of late career transitions, challenging the idea that it’s ever “too late” to pivot or start something new, and underline how growth happens when we stay curious and honest with ourselves. Through honest reflection on creativity, aging, singledom, rejection, and personal growth, this conversation reframes what it means to live a fulfilling and meaningful life. If you’re seeking clarity, inspiration, and permission to define success for yourself, this episode is for you.  By questioning traditional prescriptions for happiness, we open space for more authentic ways of living and creating.     Takeaways   Making a big life change can start with a quiet decision. Success in the arts is not solely defined by monetary gain. Rejection is often not personal; it's about fit. Aging in Hollywood can be challenging, but wisdom grows with age. Living authentically means embracing your current situation, whether single or partnered. Curiosity can lead to unexpected opportunities and growth. It's important to redefine what success means to you personally. Taking risks is essential for personal fulfillment and growth. Your past experiences can inform and enhance your current pursuits. Focus on the process rather than the outcome to find fulfillment.     Sound bites   "No knowledge is wasted." "What am I aging into?" “Action begets action.”     Chapters   00:00 Introduction to Living, with Dr. Monica Shah 00:33 Ulka Mohanty: A Modern-Day Renaissance Woman 01:33 The Journey to LA: A Leap of Faith 08:37 Redefining Success in the Arts 14:32 Navigating Rejection and Building Resilience 20:42 Benefits of Late Career Transitions 27:45 Challenging Traditional Prescriptions 30:16 Cultural Pressures to Be in Partnership 33:49 Navigating the Question of Singledom 37:10 Aging in Hollywood: Shifting Perspectives 42:07 Embracing Curiosity, Risk, and Action in Your Life 47:52 Where to Find Ulka 49:46 Outtakes 50:55 Subscribe Website: www.ulkamohanty.com Instagram: @UlkaM

Feeling Stuck? How to Break Through Mental Blocks and Finally Take Action, with Dr. Monica Shah

Keywords   mental blocks, podcasting, self-doubt,motivation, perfectionism, resilience, procrastination, overcoming challenges, self-criticism,self-compassion   Summary   In this solo episode, Dr. Monica Shah shares her journey of launching a podcast while navigating various mental and physical blocks. She discusses the common challenges people face when trying something new, including time management, life circumstances, overwhelm, procrastination, perfectionism, and self-doubt. Dr. Shah emphasizes the importance of self-compassion and resilience in overcoming these obstacles. The conversation serves as a guide for listeners who may be facing similar blocks to embarking on something new, encouraging them to embrace their unique paths in life.   Takeaways   It's normal to feel nervous when starting something new. Common blocks include time management, life circumstances, and overwhelm. Self-doubt is a common barrier to pursuing goals. Motivation often comes after taking action, not before. Perfectionism can hinder progress and creativity. Procrastination often stems from fear and overwhelm. Comparison to others can diminish motivation. Setting external deadlines creates accountability and can distract from mental blocks. Self-criticism is detrimental; self-compassion is crucial when facing challenges Embrace the journey and learn from each experience.     Sound bites   “Work in the windows of time.” "Done is better than perfect." "Just start somewhere and you can modify as you go."     Chapters   00:00 Introduction to Living, with Dr. Monica Shah 00:37 Pulling Back the Curtain: My Podcast Journey 02:51 My Why 04:11 Block #1: Time 05:38 Block #2: Life 06:12 Block #3: Overwhelm 07:05 Block #4: Intellectualizing 08:19 Block #5: Procrastination 09:26 Block #6: Perfectionism 11:22 Block #7: Motivation 12:50 Block #8: Self-Doubt 13:34 Block #9: Vulnerability 14:39 Block #10: Social Comparison 15:35 Setting Goals and Deadlines 16:31 Block #11: Self-Criticism 18:42 Reconnecting with My Why 19:30 First Solo Show Done! 20:59 Please Like, Share, and Subscribe     Passengers on the Bus metaphor (from ACT) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z29ptSuoWRc

Redefining Home: Immigration, Intuition, and the Journey to Belonging, with Reet German

Keywords   Immigration journey, belonging, intuition, change, travel, resilience, identity, personal growth, authenticity, family, identity, redefining home, self-acceptance, resilience, living authentically, India to Canada, healing, trusting yourself, identity and belonging     Summary   In this powerful and heartfelt episode, I sit down with Reet German to explore her transformative journey of immigration,identity, and belonging. From moving from India to Canada to traveling the world with her family, Reet shares how embracing change reshaped her understanding of home, self- acceptance, and personal growth. We discuss the role of intuition in decision-making, the challenges of embracing change, and how leaning into discomfort can lead to profound healing and resilience. Reet opens up about redefining success on her own terms, living authentically, and cultivating compassion for oneself during times of uncertainty. Her story serves as a call for us all act as active participants in our own lives. This conversation is for anyone navigating life transitions, questioning where they belong, or seeking the courage to trust themselves more fully. Whether you’re an immigrant, a traveler, or simply someone longing to feel at home within yourself, this episode offers inspiration, insight, and practical wisdom for living a more intentional life. If this episode resonates, please subscribe, rate, and share it with someone navigating change or searching for belonging.     Takeaways   Reet's journey from India to Canada shaped her identity. The quest for belonging is a lifelong journey. Intuition plays a crucial role in decision-making. Embracing change can lead to personal growth. Traveling the world offers valuable life lessons. Home is a feeling, not a physical place. Resilience is built through facing challenges. Leaning into discomfort can lead to transformation. Living authentically requires self-acceptance. Compassion for oneself is essential in the healing process.   Sound bites   "You are your own home." “Be an active participant in your life.” "Clarity comes after action."     Chapters   00:00 Introduction to Living, with Dr. Monica Shah 00:33 Reet German: Coming Home to Yourself 02:12 Journey of Transformation: Searching for Self 11:08 The Quest for Belonging: Navigating Identity and Acceptance 22:05 Breaking Through: Facing Pushback, Uncertainty, and Change 28:57 Embracing Uncertainty: Deciding to Travel the World 34:03 You Are Your Own Home 35:52 Redefining Success, Creating Your Dreams 38:16 Lessons from Parenting and Self-Discovery 39:49 Joys of Choosing Your Path 41:51 Cultivating Compassion and Acceptance in Relationships 42:49 Be an Active Participant in Your Life 44:27 Progress Over Perfection 46:10 “Lean In” to The Challenge 50:34 Where to Find Reet   Instagram: @reetgerman Podcast: Reignite with Reet