MSW - Melbourne Sex Workers

EP 53: Kitty Obsidian- Kink Artist & Educator

We talk to Kitty Obsidian; performer, educator, sex worker and kink artist. Kitty is non-binary, mob Wiradjuri Kamilaroi and queer. Kitty shares how they started in the industry and what they do now. Kitty educates us on kink history, bdsm laws, the origin of the word Daddy in the industry, and how important it is to learn kink practices properly as an apprentice of a dominatrix. Kitty speaks on topics like their experiences being autistic and working in a brothel. Travelling around Europe performing, and the changes they would like to see as an artist in the sex industry. Kitty talks about Prep; a preventive drug for HIV that they believe all sex workers should be taking. Kitty is running a fetish fundraising event with Stigma Health, called Fantasy Ball, raising funds for Vixen’s crisis work. We also asked Kitty’s advise for newcomers to the drag scene. Kitty spoke about her health issues, but no genetic condition will keep this trailblazer bored, listen to find out what they will do with their recovery time. Follow Kitty on insta https://www.instagram.com/kitty_obsidian/ [https://www.instagram.com/kitty_obsidian/]    Fetish fantasy ball tickets https://events.humanitix.com/f_fantasyball/tickets [https://events.humanitix.com/f_fantasyball/tickets]   Buy Kitty’s merch here https://kittyobsidian.com/ [https://kittyobsidian.com/]   Kitty’s GoFundme https://www.gofundme.com/f/help-kitty-obsidian-during-surgery-recovery?utm_source=ig&utm_medium=social&utm_content=link_in_bio&fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAc3J0YwZhcHBfaWQPOTM2NjE5NzQzMzkyNDU5AAGnXvUkBkY00fnIIL2WKnnxPKisormTXepC7odPAEe29RE3UOwcva-EMiSXI_Y_aem_9ou9fxXVx_W9VYCK_-xvpw&utm_id=97760_v0_s00_e0_tv3 [https://www.gofundme.com/f/help-kitty-obsidian-during-surgery-recovery?utm_source=ig&utm_medium=social&utm_content=link_in_bio&fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAc3J0YwZhcHBfaWQPOTM2NjE5NzQzMzkyNDU5AAGnXvUkBkY00fnIIL2WKnnxPKisormTXepC7odPAEe29RE3UOwcva-EMiSXI_Y_aem_9ou9fxXVx_W9VYCK_-xvpw&utm_id=97760_v0_s00_e0_tv3]     Stigma Health website https://www.stigmahealth.com/about/?gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=23121326552&gbraid=0AAAAADO2yFyCAdfp3sev8dq3V_HxAAkHp&gclid=Cj0KCQjwoMXQBhDcARIsAH-eEtsOA9cJEt82x8MS4xNOWubHeOeQ1a9mtRN916hWQqghtElzHJoiudYaAporEALw_wcB [https://www.stigmahealth.com/about/?gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=23121326552&gbraid=0AAAAADO2yFyCAdfp3sev8dq3V_HxAAkHp&gclid=Cj0KCQjwoMXQBhDcARIsAH-eEtsOA9cJEt82x8MS4xNOWubHeOeQ1a9mtRN916hWQqghtElzHJoiudYaAporEALw_wcB]   Blaq Aboriginal LGBTQSB+ community website https://blaq.org.au/ [https://blaq.org.au/]    Join our patreon! https://www.patreon.com/posts/money-with-eden-147634233?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&utm_source=copyLink&utm_campaign=postshare_creator&utm_content=join_link [https://www.patreon.com/posts/money-with-eden-147634233?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&utm_source=copyLink&utm_campaign=postshare_creator&utm_content=join_link]   Email us at MelbourneSW@hotmail.com [https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/34060a3c-a815-4cda-85f3-d4ef9c9458b5/shows/0dd92642-43c7-47ec-9bb1-552b3b5918dd/episodes/f75d2432-1d1a-49e3-8d13-253f4c7dfe62/MelbourneSW@hotmail.com] Join our WhatsApp group https://chat.whatsapp.com/ISZfs7SmbJp5a1XmyXmVHq [https://chat.whatsapp.com/ISZfs7SmbJp5a1XmyXmVHq] Follow us on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/msw_thepodcast/ [https://www.instagram.com/msw_thepodcast/] Follow Eden on Blue Sky https://bsky.app/profile/eden-tantric.bsky.social [https://bsky.app/profile/eden-tantric.bsky.social] Follow Becky on Insta https://www.instagram.com/becky_1777/ [https://www.instagram.com/becky_1777/] Follow Eden on Insta https://www.instagram.com/eden_tantric/ [https://www.instagram.com/eden_tantric/]   The Sex Worker Crisis Fund Donate here   https://www.vixen.org.au/swcrisisfund [https://www.vixen.org.au/swcrisisfund] Rising Red Lantern supports the Asian Migrant Project at Vixen. This project is a direct response to the violence of raids, racism, isolation, state neglect, and the ongoing injustices experienced by Asian migrant sex workers. https://www.vixen.org.au/rising-red-lantern [https://www.vixen.org.au/rising-red-lantern]

EP 52: Is Sex Work Demonic?

In this episode, Eden's explores are very common idea that sex work is demonic, or sinful or exposing yourself to sex work is going to harm you negatively. The comment "All sex work is demonic" was made by a popular influencer who made her money through findom. Her content is now directed towards women in business. But Eden speaks on energy, how to protect your energy from negative entities that we believe do exist. This episode might not be for everyone but we hope you stay open to the conversation, because this comment puts so much stigma, discrimination and negativity towards sex workers. Eden speaks to the community of SW that are spiritually minded, and how the work that we do, as people that are consciously keeping their energy light, how we are providing so much value and healing to our clients. Eden shares how you can clear, ground and protect your energy from negative attachments Vote Best Podcast in the Australian Adult Industry Awards https://adultawards.com.au/ [https://adultawards.com.au/] Vote for Becky for Best BJ, Best DFK, Best PSE, Best MILF, Best Touring Escort Vote for Eden for Best Touring Escort, Best MILF, Best GFE Vote for Club Pleasure for Best Brothel, Best LGBTQIA Focussed Business Dallas Rayne for Best Alpha Female, Best Female Escort, Best Industry Advocate, Best Gang Bang Best Social media engagement, Steven & Darren Best Brothel Managers; Charlotte, Heather, or Steven from Club Pleasure, or Khloe & Tyla from Club 859 Best Brothel receptionist: Charlotte Proudfoot Best Business Leadership Steven CP Best Escort Mentor Isabelle Fox Best Female Porn star Nova Hawthorne Best Gentlemen’s Club house mum Heather from Club Pleasure Best Gentlemen’s club Manager Stevn Club Pleasure Best New Product Tori Baxter Best Transgender Escort Sookie cyanide Hall of Fame Darren Club Pleasure Join our patreon! https://www.patreon.com/posts/money-with-eden-147634233?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&utm_source=copyLink&utm_campaign=postshare_creator&utm_content=join_link [https://www.patreon.com/posts/money-with-eden-147634233?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&utm_source=copyLink&utm_campaign=postshare_creator&utm_content=join_link]   Email us at MelbourneSW@hotmail.com [https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/34060a3c-a815-4cda-85f3-d4ef9c9458b5/shows/0dd92642-43c7-47ec-9bb1-552b3b5918dd/episodes/f75d2432-1d1a-49e3-8d13-253f4c7dfe62/MelbourneSW@hotmail.com] Join our WhatsApp group https://chat.whatsapp.com/ISZfs7SmbJp5a1XmyXmVHq [https://chat.whatsapp.com/ISZfs7SmbJp5a1XmyXmVHq] Follow us on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/msw_thepodcast/ [https://www.instagram.com/msw_thepodcast/] Follow Eden on Blue Sky https://bsky.app/profile/eden-tantric.bsky.social [https://bsky.app/profile/eden-tantric.bsky.social] Follow Becky on Insta https://www.instagram.com/becky_1777/ [https://www.instagram.com/becky_1777/] Follow Eden on Insta https://www.instagram.com/eden_tantric/ [https://www.instagram.com/eden_tantric/] The Sex Worker Crisis Fund Donate here   https://www.vixen.org.au/swcrisisfund [https://www.vixen.org.au/swcrisisfund] Rising Red Lantern supports the Asian Migrant Project at Vixen. This project is a direct response to the violence of raids, racism, isolation, state neglect, and the ongoing injustices experienced by Asian migrant sex workers. https://www.vixen.org.au/rising-red-lantern [https://www.vixen.org.au/rising-red-lantern]

EP 51: How To Give A Good Service

In this episode we break down what it means to give a good service as a full service sex worker. We cover the initial intro or enquiry, helping the client feel relaxed and then the nitty gritty stuff that makes a good service. We talk about positions, what you offer, and honing into your specialty. Eden talks about her specialty of riding and Becky talks about her blow jobs. We talk about how do you treat him like a king and show him a great time so he will want to come back and see you again. Because remember, your regulars are your bread and butter! Vote Best Podcast in the Australian Adult Industry Awards https://adultawards.com.au/ [https://adultawards.com.au/] Vote for Becky for Best BJ, Best DFK, Best PSE, Best MILF, Best Touring Escort Vote for Eden for Best Touring Escort, Best MILF, Best GFE Vote for Club Pleasure for Best Brothel, Best LGBTQIA Focussed Business Dallas Rayne for Best Alpha Female, Best Female Escort, Best Industry Advocate, Best Gang Bang Best Social media engagement, Steven & Darren Best Brothel Managers; Charlotte, Heather, or Steven from Club Pleasure, or Khloe & Tyla from Club 859 Best Brothel receptionist: Charlotte Proudfoot Best Business Leadership Steven CP Best Escort Mentor Isabelle Fox Best Female Porn star Nova Hawthorne Best Gentlemen’s Club house mum Heather from Club Pleasure Best Gentlemen’s club Manager Stevn Club Pleasure Best New Product Tori Baxter Best Transgender Escort Sookie cyanide Hall of Fame Darren Club Pleasure     Join our patreon! https://www.patreon.com/posts/money-with-eden-147634233?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&utm_source=copyLink&utm_campaign=postshare_creator&utm_content=join_link [https://www.patreon.com/posts/money-with-eden-147634233?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&utm_source=copyLink&utm_campaign=postshare_creator&utm_content=join_link]   Email us at MelbourneSW@hotmail.com [https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/34060a3c-a815-4cda-85f3-d4ef9c9458b5/shows/0dd92642-43c7-47ec-9bb1-552b3b5918dd/episodes/f75d2432-1d1a-49e3-8d13-253f4c7dfe62/MelbourneSW@hotmail.com] Join our WhatsApp group https://chat.whatsapp.com/ISZfs7SmbJp5a1XmyXmVHq [https://chat.whatsapp.com/ISZfs7SmbJp5a1XmyXmVHq] Follow us on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/msw_thepodcast/ [https://www.instagram.com/msw_thepodcast/] Follow Eden on Blue Sky https://bsky.app/profile/eden-tantric.bsky.social [https://bsky.app/profile/eden-tantric.bsky.social] Follow Becky on Insta https://www.instagram.com/becky_1777/ [https://www.instagram.com/becky_1777/] Follow Eden on Insta https://www.instagram.com/eden_tantric/ [https://www.instagram.com/eden_tantric/] Would you like to start your own Only Fans? Use Eden's referral code and in return Eden will give you one on one coaching to help you build your business! https://onlyfans.com?ref=377172997 [https://onlyfans.com/?ref=377172997] The Sex Worker Crisis Fund Donate here   https://www.vixen.org.au/swcrisisfund [https://www.vixen.org.au/swcrisisfund] Rising Red Lantern supports the Asian Migrant Project at Vixen. This project is a direct response to the violence of raids, racism, isolation, state neglect, and the ongoing injustices experienced by Asian migrant sex workers. https://www.vixen.org.au/rising-red-lantern [https://www.vixen.org.au/rising-red-lantern]

EP 50: Saving For A Rainy Day

In this episode, we talk about how to save when the industry is quiet. Or if you want to have a break or get out of the industry. Saving is not easy for sex workers because our incomes can be inconsistent, and we have no sick leave or holiday pay. If we don't work, we don't get paid. So how do we work out how much money to put away. Eden also talks a bit about investing and how to make money work for you. vote Best Podcast in the Australian Adult Industry Awards https://adultawards.com.au/ [https://adultawards.com.au/] Vote for Becky for Best BJ, Best DFK, Best PSE, Best MILF, Best Touring Escort Vote for Eden for Best Touring Escort, Best MILF, Best GFE Vote for Club Pleasure for Best Brothel, Best LGBTQIA Focussed Business Dallas Rayne for Best Alpha Female, Best Female Escort, Best Industry Advocate, Best Gang Bang Best Social media engagement, Steven & Darren Best Brothel Managers; Charlotte, Heather, or Steven from Club Pleasure, or Khloe & Tyla from Club 859 Best Brothel receptionist: Charlotte Proudfoot Best Business Leadership Steven CP Best Escort Mentor Isabelle Fox Best Female Porn star Nova Hawthorne Best Gentlemen’s Club house mum Heather from Club Pleasure Best Gentlemen’s club Manager Stevn Club Pleasure Best New Product Tori Baxter Best Transgender Escort Sookie cyanide Hall of Fame Darren Club Pleasure   Join our patreon! https://www.patreon.com/posts/money-with-eden-147634233?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&utm_source=copyLink&utm_campaign=postshare_creator&utm_content=join_link [https://www.patreon.com/posts/money-with-eden-147634233?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&utm_source=copyLink&utm_campaign=postshare_creator&utm_content=join_link]   Email us at MelbourneSW@hotmail.com [https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/34060a3c-a815-4cda-85f3-d4ef9c9458b5/shows/0dd92642-43c7-47ec-9bb1-552b3b5918dd/episodes/f75d2432-1d1a-49e3-8d13-253f4c7dfe62/MelbourneSW@hotmail.com] Join our WhatsApp group https://chat.whatsapp.com/ISZfs7SmbJp5a1XmyXmVHq [https://chat.whatsapp.com/ISZfs7SmbJp5a1XmyXmVHq] Follow us on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/msw_thepodcast/ [https://www.instagram.com/msw_thepodcast/] Follow Eden on Blue Sky https://bsky.app/profile/eden-tantric.bsky.social [https://bsky.app/profile/eden-tantric.bsky.social] Follow Becky on Insta https://www.instagram.com/becky_1777/ [https://www.instagram.com/becky_1777/] Follow Eden on Insta https://www.instagram.com/eden_tantric/ [https://www.instagram.com/eden_tantric/] Would you like to start your own Only Fans? Use Eden's referral code and in return Eden will give you one on one coaching to help you build your business! https://onlyfans.com?ref=377172997 [https://onlyfans.com/?ref=377172997] The Sex Worker Crisis Fund Donate here   https://www.vixen.org.au/swcrisisfund [https://www.vixen.org.au/swcrisisfund] Rising Red Lantern supports the Asian Migrant Project at Vixen. This project is a direct response to the violence of raids, racism, isolation, state neglect, and the ongoing injustices experienced by Asian migrant sex workers. https://www.vixen.org.au/rising-red-lantern [https://www.vixen.org.au/rising-red-lantern]

Ep 49: Trust Your Gut! Intuition & Sex Work

In this episode we talk about how you can tap into your intuition while doing sex work. Trust your gut is the number one piece of advice in this industry. Sex work can be very dangerous, and we take this risk because the great clients far out weigh the bad ones. We talk a little bit about screening. Some situations when we didn't listen to our intuition and why this happens. Trigger warning as always. We share a really horrible case playing out in the melbourne courts. Get behind Vixen and the work they are doing for immigrant workers. We also share some life updates and rants about the broken system we live in. The Sex Worker Crisis Fund Donate here   https://www.vixen.org.au/swcrisisfund [https://www.vixen.org.au/swcrisisfund] Rising Red Lantern supports the Asian Migrant Project at Vixen. This project is a direct response to the violence of raids, racism, isolation, state neglect, and the ongoing injustices experienced by Asian migrant sex workers. https://www.vixen.org.au/rising-red-lantern [https://www.vixen.org.au/rising-red-lantern] Vote Best Podcast in the Australian Adult Industry Awards https://adultawards.com.au/ [https://adultawards.com.au/] Vote for Becky for Best BJ, Best DFK, Best PSE, Best MILF, Best Touring Escort Vote for Eden for Best Touring Escort, Best MILF, Best GFE Vote for Club Pleasure for Best Brothel, Best LGBTQIA Focussed Business Dallas Rayne for Best Alpha Female, Best Female Escort, Best Industry Advocate, Best Gang Bang Best Social media engagement, Steven & Darren Best Brothel Managers; Charlotte, Heather, or Steven from Club Pleasure, or Khloe & Tyla from Club 859 Best Brothel receptionist: Charlotte Proudfoot Best Business Leadership Steven CP Best Escort Mentor Isabelle Fox Best Female Porn star Nova Hawthorne Best Gentlemen’s Club house mum Heather from Club Pleasure Best Gentlemen’s club Manager Stevn Club Pleasure Best New Product Tori Baxter Best Transgender Escort Sookie cyanide Hall of Fame Darren Club Pleasure Join our patreon! https://www.patreon.com/posts/money-with-eden-147634233?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&utm_source=copyLink&utm_campaign=postshare_creator&utm_content=join_link [https://www.patreon.com/posts/money-with-eden-147634233?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&utm_source=copyLink&utm_campaign=postshare_creator&utm_content=join_link] Email us at MelbourneSW@hotmail.com [https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/34060a3c-a815-4cda-85f3-d4ef9c9458b5/shows/0dd92642-43c7-47ec-9bb1-552b3b5918dd/episodes/f75d2432-1d1a-49e3-8d13-253f4c7dfe62/MelbourneSW@hotmail.com] Join our WhatsApp group https://chat.whatsapp.com/ISZfs7SmbJp5a1XmyXmVHq [https://chat.whatsapp.com/ISZfs7SmbJp5a1XmyXmVHq] Follow us on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/msw_thepodcast/ [https://www.instagram.com/msw_thepodcast/] Follow Eden on Blue Sky https://bsky.app/profile/eden-tantric.bsky.social [https://bsky.app/profile/eden-tantric.bsky.social] Follow Becky on Insta https://www.instagram.com/becky_1777/ [https://www.instagram.com/becky_1777/] Follow Eden on Insta https://www.instagram.com/eden_tantric/ [https://www.instagram.com/eden_tantric/] Last chance to subscribe to Eden's Only Fans https://onlyfans.com/eden_tantric [https://onlyfans.com/eden_tantric]