One Young Mind

Jen’s story: losing Harry

In this deeply personal and moving episode of One Young Mind, New Zealand mother Jen shares the story of her son Harry, who died at the age of 18. With extraordinary courage, Jen speaks about the changes she saw in Harry as he became increasingly drawn into the online world, the challenges her family faced trying to get the right support, and the questions she continues to live with. Jen has chosen to share her story publicly in the hope it might help others - to shed light on what some families are navigating, to deepen understanding of the risks young people can encounter online, and to help those going through similar experiences feel less alone. This is a conversation about love, parenting, grief and one mother’s determination to make sense of something no family should have to endure. Content warning: This episode discusses suicide, grief and youth mental health. Please listen with care and at a time that feels right for you. If this episode brings anything up for you, support is available: Lifeline – Call 0800 543 354 or text 4357 (HELP) Suicide Crisis Helpline – Call 0508 828 865 (0508 TAUTOKO) Need to Talk? – Call or text 1737 any time Depression Helpline – Call 0800 111 757 or text 4202 What’s Up – Call 0800 942 8787 (11am–11pm) or use webchat at whatsup.co.nz [https://url.au.m.mimecastprotect.com/s/VqyiCD1jpNCYx5oQUku2TjT3vD?domain=whatsup.co.nz] (11am–10.30pm) Aoake te Rā – Free support for those bereaved by suicide. Call 0800 000 053 If it is an emergency and you feel like you or someone else is at immediate risk, call 111. This podcast is brought to you by the B416 team. See omnystudio.com/listener [https://omnystudio.com/listener] for privacy information.

Spotlight Moment from Episode 9: The "global contagion risk" with Michael 'Wippa' Wipfli and Greg Attwells

Big tech has called child safety reform a “global contagion risk.” Why? Because when one country stands up, others follow, and that threatens their business model. In this Spotlight Moment with 36Months [https://www.36months.com/] founders, Michael 'Wippa' Wipfli [https://www.instagram.com/wippa1/] and Greg Attwells [https://www.instagram.com/gregattwells/?hl=en], we unpack the confronting language being used behind closed doors to stop child protection from spreading. As Australia pushes forward, the world is watching, and the stakes could not be higher. This week alone, 2.6 million teens were freed from an experiment they never chose. This is an important, eye-opening conversation about the very real risks of social media, and the changes we can all make to support one young mind at a time. New Zealand Helplines: * Lifeline: Call 0800 543 354 or text 4357 (HELP) (available 24/7) * Suicide Crisis Helpline: Call 0508 828 865 (0508 TAUTOKO) (available 24/7) * Youth services: (06) 3555 906 * What’s Up: Call 0800 942 8787 (11am to 11pm) or webchat (11am to 10.30pm) * Depression helpline: Call 0800 111 757 or text 4202 (available 24/7) * Aoake te Rā – Free, brief therapeutic support service for those bereaved by suicide. Call 0800 000 053. * Helpline: Need to talk? Call or text 1737 Follow us @b416.nz [https://www.instagram.com/b416.nz/?hl=en] or find out more at b416.co.nz [https://b416.co.nz/] See omnystudio.com/listener [https://omnystudio.com/listener] for privacy information.

How Australia Changed the Rules on Social Media with Greg Attwells and Michael “Wippa” Wipfli

In this special episode of One Young Mind, we speak with Greg Atwells and Michael “Wippa” Wipfli, two of the dads behind 36 Months, the movement that helped Australia introduce a world-first minimum age for social media. Recorded just after Australia’s under-16 law came into force, this conversation explores how a simple question, “What if no one was on it?”, sparked a national shift, and what New Zealand parents and policymakers can learn from it. Greg and Wippa share what it took to turn parental concern into political action, how social norms rather than perfect enforcement drive lasting change, and why this moment matters far beyond Australia. They also speak candidly about parenting through the transition. The grief some young people feel when social media is removed. The relief many parents experience. And the opportunity this creates to reclaim real-world independence, boredom, creativity and connection. This is a hopeful, practical conversation about courage, leadership and why protecting children online should not rest on parents’ shoulders alone. In this episode, we discuss: * How the 36 Months campaign began and why parents felt “damned if they do, damned if they don’t” * What changed once social media access became a legal issue rather than a parenting battle * Why age limits are about social norming, not punishment * How Australia moved quickly and what New Zealand can learn from that * Why tech companies can enforce age limits despite what they claim * Supporting children through the transition off social media * Practical ideas for parents navigating the off-social phase together This episode is essential listening for parents, educators and anyone interested in how evidence, public will and leadership can come together to protect young minds. See omnystudio.com/listener [https://omnystudio.com/listener] for privacy information.

Spotlight Moment from Episode 8: For the parents navigating kids on social media with Jo Robertson

In this Spotlight Moment, Jo Robertson [https://www.jorobertson.org/] speaks directly to parents already in the thick of it. She shares insights on what’s really happening for young people online, the pressures they’re under, and the practical steps you can take right now to protect and support your child. This episode is for the parents whose kids are online, exposed, and trying to make sense of a digital world that’s moving fast. If you’re feeling overwhelmed, unsure how to set boundaries, or worried about what your child is seeing and experiencing, this moment is for you. This is an important, eye-opening conversation about the very real risks of social media, and the changes we can all make to support one young mind at a time. New Zealand Helplines: * Lifeline: Call 0800 543 354 or text 4357 (HELP) (available 24/7) * Suicide Crisis Helpline: Call 0508 828 865 (0508 TAUTOKO) (available 24/7) * Youth services: (06) 3555 906 * What’s Up: Call 0800 942 8787 (11am to 11pm) or webchat (11am to 10.30pm) * Depression helpline: Call 0800 111 757 or text 4202 (available 24/7) * Aoake te Rā – Free, brief therapeutic support service for those bereaved by suicide. Call 0800 000 053. * Helpline: Need to talk? Call or text 1737 Follow us @b416.nz [https://www.instagram.com/b416.nz/?hl=en] or find out more at b416.co.nz [https://b416.co.nz/]   See omnystudio.com/listener [https://omnystudio.com/listener] for privacy information.

How parents can navigate the online world with Jo Robertson & Holly Brooker

Keeping kids safe online can feel overwhelming, especially when the digital world shifts faster than most parents can keep up. In this episode, online-safety experts Jo Robertson and Holly Brooker from Make Sense break down what parents really need to know, and how to build digital resilience in everyday family life. As researchers, advocates and mums themselves, Jo and Holly offer clear, practical guidance on where to start. They explain why online-safety education needs to begin early (long before a child gets a phone), what schools can realistically do, and why many parents overestimate how protected their kids are in classrooms and on ‘kid-safe’ platforms. They walk through simple conversation starters for tricky topics like porn, grooming and violent content, and introduce Jo’s helpful Heart → Head → Hands framework for supporting a child who has seen something distressing. They also discuss how to stay calm when your child shares something shocking, and why your response determines whether they’ll ever come back to you again. The episode also explores the limits of filters and parental controls, the importance of parental influence (not just enforcement), and how to support rangatahi who are already on social media, even if it feels “too late.” Throughout, Jo and Holly emphasise the role of identity, connection and family culture in helping young people navigate an online world that wasn’t designed for them. This warm, honest conversation is full of practical tools for parents, caregivers and teachers - without judgment, jargon or overwhelm. One Young Mind is proudly supported by 2degrees and iHeartRadio. See omnystudio.com/listener [https://omnystudio.com/listener] for privacy information.