Silver Disobedience® Perception Dynamics™ Hosted by Dian Griesel

In this heartfelt episode of the Silver Disobedience® Perception Dynamics™ podcast, host Dian Griesel (also known as Silver Disobedience) interviews the colorful and inspiring Ray DeForest, best known for his drag persona, Doris Dear. Ray shares the highs and lows of his life, including his recent health difficulties with prostate cancer, his deeply rooted love for his family, and the challenging but rewarding journey of creating and sustaining his drag performances. The episode dives into topics of diversity, authenticity, and the complicated dynamics of life and career in the arts. Ray's story is one of resilience, joy, and the pursuit of authenticity. More about Ray can be found here: https://dorisdear.com [https://dorisdear.com/] Please SUBSCRIBE! I’m Dian Griesel, Ph.D. aka @SilverDisobedience [https://www.instagram.com/silverdisobedience/] to my million+ monthly blog readers. You can learn more about me here:   https://diangriesel.com [https://diangriesel.com] Or Tune in for more information on Spotify:   https://open.spotify.com/show/3XD5QTQSyxK6c6Qm4rorpe [https://open.spotify.com/show/3XD5QTQSyxK6c6Qm4rorpe] OR YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SilverDisobedience [https://www.youtube.com/@SilverDisobedience] But for starters…I am a perception analyst, hypnotherapist, author [https://diangriesel.com] of 16 books and a Wilhelmina model. [https://www.wilhelmina.com/new-york/women/direct/1368-dian-griesel] For 30 years I have helped my clients to achieve greater understanding as to how perceptions impact everything we do whether personally or professionally.  This episode was recorded in collaboration with The Manhattan Center, New York City, New York. https://www.themanhattancenter.com/ [https://www.themanhattancenter.com/] 00:00 Introduction and Guest Announcement00:40 Ray's Cancer Journey02:04 From Ray to Doris Deer05:25 Creating Doris Deer's Girl Talk08:50 The Joy of Performing as Doris17:33 Corporate Speaking and Diversity19:47 Challenges in Diversity and Inclusion27:06 Understanding Hormone Depletion and Muscle Strength29:22 Respect and Pronouns: A Discussion on Trans and Gay Communities30:31 The Insistence of Acceptance and Personal Identity33:44 AI and Its Impact on the Entertainment Industry34:17 Union Strikes and AI Protections41:47 Mentorship and Career in the Arts48:46 Finding Joy and Acceptance in Life50:43 Conclusion and Farewell

What happens when a mental health professional decides the system no longer serves the people it was designed to help? In this powerful and deeply personal episode, Dian Griesel [https://diangriesel.com]speaks with Anna Holtzman [https://www.annaholtzman.com/], a psychotherapist who made the radical decision to walk away from her license -- and the conventional mental health system altogether -- to build a coaching practice. The conversation covers various topics, including the changing norms in therapy, the role of authenticity in coaching, and the impact of social media on mental health services. They explore how the boundaries between coaching and therapy are blurring and debate the merits and drawbacks of this shift. Recorded in the iconic Manhattan Center [https://www.themanhattancenter.com/], this episode offers a deep dive into the modern dynamics of mental health support. Follow Anna Holtzman and subscribe for more insightful episodes! Please SUBSCRIBE! I’m Dian Griesel, Ph.D. aka ⁠@SilverDisobedience⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/silverdisobedience/] I am a perception analyst, hypnotherapist, author of books and a ⁠Wilhelmina⁠ [https://www.wilhelmina.com/new-york/women/direct/1368-dian-griesel] model & creative who works both sides of the camera. For 30 years I have helped my clients to achieve greater understanding as to how perceptions impact everything we do whether personally or professionally. Text to book an appointment: 212-825-3210   I share inspiring and actionable ideas for free via ⁠my podcast⁠ [https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/dian-griesel], on my website: ⁠⁠⁠DianGriesel.com⁠⁠ [https://diangriesel.com/]⁠ and also on my social media accounts which you might like to follow.  ⁠Website⁠ [https://diangriesel.com/] ⁠⁠Instagram ⁠⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/silverdisobedience/] ⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠ [https://www.facebook.com/SilverDisobedience/] ⁠⁠X⁠⁠ [https://twitter.com/DianGriesel] ⁠LinkedIn⁠ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/diangriesel/] ⁠YouTube⁠ [https://www.youtube.com/@SilverDisobedience] https://open.spotify.com/show/3XD5QTQSyxK6c6Qm4rorpe [https://open.spotify.com/show/3XD5QTQSyxK6c6Qm4rorpe] ⁠Wilhelmina Models⁠ [https://www.wilhelmina.com/new-york/women/direct/1368-dian-griesel] 00:00 Introduction to the Podcast 00:18 Meet Anna Holtzman: From Counselor to Coach 00:56 The Evolving Landscape of Psychology 01:48 Therapist vs. Coach: A New Approach 10:19 The Role of Social Media in Therapy 21:35 Defining Authenticity in Coaching 26:00 Understanding the Nervous System 26:18 Fear vs. Flow: Navigating Emotional States 26:47 Authenticity and Communication 29:28 The Role of Instincts and Thoughts 31:47 Coaching vs. Therapy: Personal Experiences 42:14 Choosing the Right Coach or Therapist 44:25 Future of Coaching and Therapy 48:50 The Impact of Social Media on Therapy 50:55 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

Is there liberation in letting go? In this thought-provoking episode, Dian Griesel engages in a candid conversation with Bob Morris, acclaimed author of Assisted Loving and Bobby Wonderful, and a frequent contributor to The New York Times and NPR's All Things Considered. Known for his insightful and often humorous explorations of family, relationships, and the human condition, Bob delves into the profound concept of "giving up" — not as a sign of defeat, but as a pathway to joy and personal growth. In this episode of the Silver Expedience Perception Dynamics podcast, hosted by Dian Griesel aka Silver Disobedience, Dian sits down with Bob Morris, renowned writer and columnist for the New York Times and the New Yorker. Recorded at the iconic Manhattan Center, the discussion delves into Bob's experiences with family dynamics, personal challenges, and his journey through highs and lows in his writing career. They explore the often fine line between giving up and acceptance and how singing played a transformative role for both Bob and his brother. The conversation touches on themes of personal growth, societal expectations, and finding new paths for fulfillment and creativity. This episode is both thought-provoking and inspiring, offering deep insights into the human experience. For more about Bob Morris and his work, visit his website at thebobmorris.com [https://thebobmorris.com/]. Books? Here! [https://amzn.to/45208Y0] Whether you're contemplating a life change, seeking deeper contentment, or simply curious about the paradox of finding joy through letting go, this episode offers valuable insights and heartfelt anecdotes that may inspire you to rethink the art of surrender.    Please SUBSCRIBE! I’m Dian Griesel, Ph.D. aka ⁠@SilverDisobedience⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/silverdisobedience/] I am a perception analyst, hypnotherapist, author of books [https://diangriesel.com] and a ⁠Wilhelmina⁠ [https://www.wilhelmina.com/new-york/women/direct/1368-dian-griesel] model & creative who works both sides of the camera. For 30 years I have helped my clients to achieve greater understanding as to how perceptions impact everything we do whether personally or professionally. Text to book an appointment: 212-825-3210   I share inspiring and actionable ideas for free via ⁠my podcast⁠ [https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/dian-griesel], on my website: ⁠⁠⁠DianGriesel.com⁠⁠ [https://diangriesel.com/]⁠ and also on my social media accounts which you might like to follow.  ⁠Website⁠ [https://diangriesel.com/] ⁠⁠Instagram ⁠⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/silverdisobedience/] ⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠ [https://www.facebook.com/SilverDisobedience/] ⁠⁠X⁠⁠ [https://twitter.com/DianGriesel] ⁠LinkedIn⁠ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/diangriesel/] ⁠YouTube⁠ [https://www.youtube.com/@SilverDisobedience] https://open.spotify.com/show/3XD5QTQSyxK6c6Qm4rorpe [https://open.spotify.com/show/3XD5QTQSyxK6c6Qm4rorpe] ⁠Wilhelmina Models⁠ [https://www.wilhelmina.com/new-york/women/direct/1368-dian-griesel] Episode Timeline: 00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction 01:33 Bob Morris on Honesty in Writing 01:57 The Drunk Driving Incident 04:10 Reflections on Jail and Privilege 06:52 Mandatory Courses and Realizations 09:12 Loss of Control in Writing 13:42 Assisted Loving and Family Dynamics 20:02 The Art of Giving Up 24:01 Fail Better: A New Perspective 24:55 Singing After a Stroke 26:31 Musical Memories and Family Bonding 27:05 The Struggles and Acceptance of Life's Challenges 28:18 Creative Pursuits and Unfulfilled Projects 30:08 Marriage and Personal Transformation 32:43 Rediscovering Joy Through Music 35:41 The Healing Power of Singing 44:04 Navigating Career Expectations and Acceptance 51:09 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

Writing, Careers, and Creativity: Insights from Authors Ginni Conquest and Anthony CelanoIn this episode of the Silver Disobedience® Perception Dynamics™ podcast, host Dian Griesel [https://diangriesel.com]aka @SilverDisobedience [https://www.instagram.com/silverdisobedience/] is joined by two prolific authors, Ginni Conquest [https://ginniconquest.com/] and Anthony Celano, [http://anthony-celano.com/] in the iconic Manhattan Center. [https://www.themanhattancenter.com/] Ginni & Anthony discuss their careers, how they transitioned to writing, and the sources of inspiration for their works. Ginni, a co-director at Wilhelmina Models, [https://www.wilhelmina.com/new-york/women/direct] has authored ten romance novels [amazon.com/author/ginniconquest], while Anthony, a retired NYPD squad commander, has penned several crime fiction books. The conversation covers their unique writing processes, character development, and the challenges of editing. They also touch on their experiences in managing demanding careers while pursuing their passion for writing. Tune in for valuable insights and inspiration for aspiring writers. 00:00 Introduction and Excitement at Manhattan Center 00:40 Meet the Guests: Ginni Conquest and Anthony Celano 01:11 Anthony's Journey from NYPD to Crime Fiction 02:38 Ginni's Transition from Modeling to Romance Novels 03:27 Drawing from Real-Life Experiences 05:44 Character Development and Inspirations 08:43 Balancing Writing with Personal Life 19:08 Perception and Nuance in Writing 23:47 The Challenges of Editing 28:28 Writing Style and Blogging Journey 29:10 Character Development and Storytelling 30:31 Intense Characters and Realism 32:12 Romance Writing and Series Development 37:37 Balancing Writing with Life 39:52 Creative Processes and Inspirations 45:00 Incorporating Real Life into Fiction 47:42 Encouraging Aspiring Authors Please SUBSCRIBE! I’m Dian Griesel, Ph.D. aka ⁠@SilverDisobedience⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/silverdisobedience/] I am a perception analyst, hypnotherapist, author of books and a ⁠Wilhelmina⁠ [https://www.wilhelmina.com/new-york/women/direct/1368-dian-griesel] model & creative who works both sides of the camera. For 30 years I have helped my clients to achieve greater understanding as to how perceptions impact everything we do whether personally or professionally. Text to book an appointment: 212-825-3210   I share inspiring and actionable ideas for free via ⁠my podcast⁠ [https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/dian-griesel], on my website: ⁠⁠⁠DianGriesel.com⁠⁠ [https://diangriesel.com/]⁠ and also on my social media accounts which you might like to follow.  ⁠Website⁠ [https://diangriesel.com/] ⁠⁠Instagram ⁠⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/silverdisobedience/] ⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠ [https://www.facebook.com/SilverDisobedience/] ⁠⁠X⁠⁠ [https://twitter.com/DianGriesel] ⁠LinkedIn⁠ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/diangriesel/] ⁠YouTube⁠ [https://www.youtube.com/@SilverDisobedience] https://open.spotify.com/show/3XD5QTQSyxK6c6Qm4rorpe [https://open.spotify.com/show/3XD5QTQSyxK6c6Qm4rorpe] ⁠Wilhelmina Models⁠ [https://www.wilhelmina.com/new-york/women/direct/1368-dian-griesel]

In this gripping episode of the Silver Disobedience® Perception Dynamics™ podcast, host Dian Griesel sits down for an unforgettable conversation with special guest Lou Romano businessman, author and proud Bronx native. Expect to learn about street-smart wisdom with a spiritual insight as well as the coded world of crime and survival in the Bronx.  Lou shares candid reflections on his journey through chaos, justice, loyalty, and redemption. From navigating the harsh realities of urban life to discovering a deeper calling through intercession and faith, Lou reveals how his perceptions—and purpose — have evolved. Together, we explore the powerful intersections of environment, choice, identity, and the human capacity for change. This episode is raw, real, and ultimately redemptive—a must-listen for anyone fascinated by the power of perception to shape and reshape our lives. Tune in for tales that are tough, tender, and transformative. Please SUBSCRIBE! I’m Dian Griesel, Ph.D. aka ⁠@SilverDisobedience⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/silverdisobedience/] I am a perception analyst, hypnotherapist, author of books and a ⁠Wilhelmina⁠ [https://www.wilhelmina.com/new-york/women/direct/1368-dian-griesel] model & creative who works both sides of the camera. For 30 years I have helped my clients to achieve greater understanding as to how perceptions impact everything we do whether personally or professionally. Text to book an appointment: 212-825-3210 I share inspiring and actionable ideas for free via ⁠my podcast⁠ [https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/dian-griesel], on my website: ⁠⁠⁠DianGriesel.com⁠⁠ [https://diangriesel.com/]⁠ and also on my social media accounts which you might like to follow.  ⁠Website⁠ [https://diangriesel.com/] ⁠⁠Instagram ⁠⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/silverdisobedience/] ⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠ [https://www.facebook.com/SilverDisobedience/] ⁠⁠X⁠⁠ [https://twitter.com/DianGriesel] ⁠LinkedIn⁠ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/diangriesel/] ⁠YouTube⁠ [https://www.youtube.com/@SilverDisobedience] https://open.spotify.com/show/3XD5QTQSyxK6c6Qm4rorpe [https://open.spotify.com/show/3XD5QTQSyxK6c6Qm4rorpe] ⁠Wilhelmina Models⁠ [https://www.wilhelmina.com/new-york/women/direct/1368-dian-griesel]