The Dangerous Man Podcast

COUNTERFEIT MASCULINITY | Exposing the Scammers Selling Warrior Costumes

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2080275/fan_mail/new] There is a fake version of masculinity being sold to men right now. It is loud. Flashy. Ripped. Rich. Angry. Seductive. It calls itself alpha, but a lot of it is just insecurity wearing a costume. In this episode, Rory goes after counterfeit masculinity and exposes the scammers selling warrior costumes to boys who do not want to pay the price of becoming real men. Real masculinity is not body count, bank accounts, online bravado, dominance games, or peacocking for attention. Real masculinity is strength submitted to God. A real man fears God, carries responsibility, controls his appetites, protects women instead of preying on them, loves sacrificially, builds brotherhood, repents fast, and serves before he leads. In this episode, we break down: The difference between real masculinity and counterfeit masculinity Why the manosphere attracts insecure men looking for shortcuts The “Threat Index” of fake masculine personas Why strength without surrender becomes dangerous How biblical masculinity carries both strength and love What it means to stop looking like a man and start becoming one Scripture of the Day 1 Corinthians 16:13–14 ESV “Be watchful, stand firm in the faith, act like men, be strong. Let all that you do be done in love.” Dangerous Focus Ask yourself: What fake version of masculinity am I most tempted to follow? Name it. Expose it. Kill it. Then take one real masculine action this week: serve, repent, confess, train, lead, apologize, call a brother, or carry what you have been avoiding. Destroy your weakness. Build the man. Deploy the dangerous self. Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2080275/support] * TDMP SITE: https://dangerousmanpodcast.com/ [https://dangerousmanpodcast.com/] * NEW HERE: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/6edYYGXup6pimDwU1kGnsS [https://open.spotify.com/playlist/6edYYGXup6pimDwU1kGnsS] * Grab some DANGEROUS GEAR in our shop https://dangerousmanpodcast.com/shop/ [https://dangerousmanpodcast.com/shop/] * Support the show for as little as $3 a month https://www.buzzsprout.com/2080275/supporters/new [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2080275/supporters/new] * Follow us on X for more shenanigans https://twitter.com/TDMPodcast603 [https://twitter.com/TDMPodcast603] * Follow us on Instagram for extra shenanigans https://www.instagram.com/thedangerousmanpodcast/ [https://www.instagram.com/thedangerousmanpodcast/] * Connect with Matt Fortin [https://www.facebook.com/mattfortin27] & Rory Lawrence [https://www.facebook.com/designislife] * Email us at: thedangerousmanpodcast@gmail.com * Remember men... Stop trying & start training!

CARRY YOUR WEIGHT LIKE A WARRIOR | Stop Draining the Men You’re Asking to Lift You

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2080275/fan_mail/new] Most men want strong brotherhood. They want iron sharpens iron and , prayer, loyalty, accountability, and men who show up when life gets heavy. But here is the gut check: Are you the kind of man strong brothers can actually build with? In this episode, Rory goes after dead-weight brotherhood, the kind of man who wants accountability but dodges action, wants prayer but refuses discipline, wants strong men around him but punishes them when they tell the truth. This is not anti-help. This is anti-dead weight. Don't be the dead-weight! There is a difference between needing brothers and making brothers carry what you refuse to own. It is time to stop draining the men you are asking to lift you. Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2080275/support] * TDMP SITE: https://dangerousmanpodcast.com/ [https://dangerousmanpodcast.com/] * NEW HERE: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/6edYYGXup6pimDwU1kGnsS [https://open.spotify.com/playlist/6edYYGXup6pimDwU1kGnsS] * Grab some DANGEROUS GEAR in our shop https://dangerousmanpodcast.com/shop/ [https://dangerousmanpodcast.com/shop/] * Support the show for as little as $3 a month https://www.buzzsprout.com/2080275/supporters/new [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2080275/supporters/new] * Follow us on X for more shenanigans https://twitter.com/TDMPodcast603 [https://twitter.com/TDMPodcast603] * Follow us on Instagram for extra shenanigans https://www.instagram.com/thedangerousmanpodcast/ [https://www.instagram.com/thedangerousmanpodcast/] * Connect with Matt Fortin [https://www.facebook.com/mattfortin27] & Rory Lawrence [https://www.facebook.com/designislife] * Email us at: thedangerousmanpodcast@gmail.com * Remember men... Stop trying & start training!

6 MEN THAT WILL ELEVATE YOUR CIRCLE | How to Train the Discipline of Intentional Brotherhood

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2080275/fan_mail/new] Your circle is either sharpening you or making weakness feel normal. In this episode, Rory breaks down the 6 types of men that elevate your circle and why every dangerous man needs to find them and become them. THE 6 TYPES OF MEN THAT WILL ELEVATE YOUR CIRCLE Not everybody deserves access. Not every friendship is brotherhood. Not every man around you is making you better. You need: * The Sharpener * The Elevator * The Watchman * The Anvil * The Counselor * The Builder Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2080275/support] * TDMP SITE: https://dangerousmanpodcast.com/ [https://dangerousmanpodcast.com/] * NEW HERE: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/6edYYGXup6pimDwU1kGnsS [https://open.spotify.com/playlist/6edYYGXup6pimDwU1kGnsS] * Grab some DANGEROUS GEAR in our shop https://dangerousmanpodcast.com/shop/ [https://dangerousmanpodcast.com/shop/] * Support the show for as little as $3 a month https://www.buzzsprout.com/2080275/supporters/new [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2080275/supporters/new] * Follow us on X for more shenanigans https://twitter.com/TDMPodcast603 [https://twitter.com/TDMPodcast603] * Follow us on Instagram for extra shenanigans https://www.instagram.com/thedangerousmanpodcast/ [https://www.instagram.com/thedangerousmanpodcast/] * Connect with Matt Fortin [https://www.facebook.com/mattfortin27] & Rory Lawrence [https://www.facebook.com/designislife] * Email us at: thedangerousmanpodcast@gmail.com * Remember men... Stop trying & start training!

6 MEN THAT WILL KILL YOUR CIRCLE | How To Train The Discipline Of Circle Control

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2080275/fan_mail/new] Not every man in your life deserves access. In this Dangerous Discipline episode, we break down the 6 types of men you need to watch for, avoid, push back, or cut off. The Manipulator. The Parasite. The Firestarter. The Black Cloud. The Ghost. The Boundary Breaker. Bad company does not stay small. It drains your strength, clouds your mind, and sabotages your future. Some men sharpen you, And Some men sabotage you. QOTD: Every man in your circle is either sharpening your edge or he is dulling your blade. THIS IS YOU IF… This is you if you already know there are men in your life you keep making excuses for. SOTD: 1 Corinthians 15:33 - Do not be deceived: “Bad company ruins good morals.” THE 6 TYPES OF CIRCLE KILLERS: * THE MANIPULATOR — He uses guilt, pressure, charm, and leverage to steer people toward his preferred outcome. * THE PARASITE — He feeds on your strength, time, energy, and resources without giving anything back. * THE FIRESTARTER — He creates tension, conflict, and chaos, then stands back and watches it burn. * THE BLACK CLOUD — He smothers momentum with complaint, cynicism, doubt, and heaviness. * THE GHOST — He talks loyalty when life is easy, then disappears the second things get costly. * THE BOUNDARY BREAKER — He keeps pushing past your limits, standards, and convictions until compromise feels normal. FIELD OPS: * FIELD OP 1: AUDIT THE CIRCLE Write the names donw so you can see it clearly. * FIELD OP 2: CHANGE  ACESS Move the wrong men back. Less access. Less time. Less trust. Less explanation.  NIGHT DEBRIEF: Write these lines in your journal: - Who in my circle is costing me the most? - What have I been tolerating? - Who needs to be closer? Love people, yes. Pray for people, yes. Show mercy, yes. But do not confuse mercy with access. Do not confuse love with closeness. Do not confuse history with trust. If a man is one of these patterns, set hard boundaries. If he will not respect them, cut him off. PROTECT BROTHERHOOD, PROTECT YOUR CIRCLE! ACESS DENIED EPISODE LINK: * SPOTIFY: https://open.spotify.com/episode/62unkdQPKqbT2VNr3YcWf2?si=d3474640270f4f29 [https://open.spotify.com/episode/62unkdQPKqbT2VNr3YcWf2?si=d3474640270f4f29] Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2080275/support] * TDMP SITE: https://dangerousmanpodcast.com/ [https://dangerousmanpodcast.com/] * NEW HERE: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/6edYYGXup6pimDwU1kGnsS [https://open.spotify.com/playlist/6edYYGXup6pimDwU1kGnsS] * Grab some DANGEROUS GEAR in our shop https://dangerousmanpodcast.com/shop/ [https://dangerousmanpodcast.com/shop/] * Support the show for as little as $3 a month https://www.buzzsprout.com/2080275/supporters/new [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2080275/supporters/new] * Follow us on X for more shenanigans https://twitter.com/TDMPodcast603 [https://twitter.com/TDMPodcast603] * Follow us on Instagram for extra shenanigans https://www.instagram.com/thedangerousmanpodcast/ [https://www.instagram.com/thedangerousmanpodcast/] * Connect with Matt Fortin [https://www.facebook.com/mattfortin27] & Rory Lawrence [https://www.facebook.com/designislife] * Email us at: thedangerousmanpodcast@gmail.com * Remember men... Stop trying & start training!

THE PINE TREE RIOT | When Tyranny Takes an Inch, Men Must Draw the Line

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2080275/fan_mail/new] On April 14, 1772, in Weare, New Hampshire, a group of colonial men violently resisted British officers enforcing the Crown’s pine tree laws. What looked like a fight over timber was really a fight over tyranny, overreach, and the right of free men to draw a line before power takes everything. In this episode, we break down the Pine Tree Riot, what it reveals about human government, and why men must learn the difference between rightful authority and creeping control. Because if you never resist when power takes an inch, do not be shocked when it comes back for your whole city. SOTD: Acts 5:29 (ESV) - “But Peter and the apostles answered, ‘We must obey God rather than men.’” HOW TO DEVELOP IT 1. RULE YOURSELF FIRST If lust, fear, comfort, and appetite rule you, you are already easy to control. 2. KNOW THE BOUNDARIES Know what belongs to God, the state, the church, and the household. If you do not know the lanes, you will surrender ground too easily. 3. BUILD A STRONG HOUSE Weak homes trade conviction for safety. Strong homes can absorb pressure. 4. SPEAK EARLY Most men wait too long. Resist small compromises before they become normal. 5. LOCK ARMS WITH OTHER MEN Tyranny loves isolated men. Brotherhood makes men harder to move. 6. ACCEPT THE COST Real resistance costs comfort, convenience, and approval. If it has to be painless, you are not ready. FIELD OP 1: IDENTIFY THE INCH Where are you tolerating overreach in your thinking, home, speech, or convictions? FIELD OP 2: DRAW THE LINE Take one visible action this week that says, no farther. Do one thing that strengthens your resistance muscle: * speak truth * set a boundary * gather with strong men * lead your house clearly * cut off one compromise NIGHT DEBRIEF * Where did I tolerate what I should have confronted? * What cost am I afraid to pay? * What happened when I stood firm? Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2080275/support] * TDMP SITE: https://dangerousmanpodcast.com/ [https://dangerousmanpodcast.com/] * NEW HERE: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/6edYYGXup6pimDwU1kGnsS [https://open.spotify.com/playlist/6edYYGXup6pimDwU1kGnsS] * Grab some DANGEROUS GEAR in our shop https://dangerousmanpodcast.com/shop/ [https://dangerousmanpodcast.com/shop/] * Support the show for as little as $3 a month https://www.buzzsprout.com/2080275/supporters/new [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2080275/supporters/new] * Follow us on X for more shenanigans https://twitter.com/TDMPodcast603 [https://twitter.com/TDMPodcast603] * Follow us on Instagram for extra shenanigans https://www.instagram.com/thedangerousmanpodcast/ [https://www.instagram.com/thedangerousmanpodcast/] * Connect with Matt Fortin [https://www.facebook.com/mattfortin27] & Rory Lawrence [https://www.facebook.com/designislife] * Email us at: thedangerousmanpodcast@gmail.com * Remember men... Stop trying & start training!