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EP 45: Why Most People Are Building Their Lives On Shakey Foundations Without Knowing It

EP 45: Why Most People Are Building Their Lives Shakey Foundations Without Knowing It Join us as we share personal stories and insights on what kingdom building truly means from a faith-centered perspective. Discover how surrender, humility, and intentional listening shape a life that reflects God's purpose in everyday moments. Main Topics & Insights: * The importance of humility and dependence on God * How shifting perspective and recalibrating standards aligns us with God's purpose * Practical ways to hear from and engage with God daily * The significance of community, accountability, and listening to the Holy Spirit * The process of building on a biblical foundation versus self-focus or worldly success * God's blueprint for our lives—putting the pieces together faithfully * Personal stories of obedience, seasons of change, and trusting God's timing Timestamps: 00:00 – Introduction to the episode: honest talk about life, kingdom building, and celebrating God's work 01:11 – Reflecting on childhood favorite movies 02:41 – The impact of movies on childhood memories and lessons learned 08:58 – What does kingdom building mean to Danielle? Grounded in seeking God's kingdom first 09:16 – Key verse: Matthew 6:33 — Seeking first His kingdom and righteousness 10:03 – Clinging to what is good—clinging to God with an intimate bond 11:15 – Building on Jesus as the cornerstone—foundation for lasting kingdom work 12:13 – What kingdom building is not: Self-promotion, controlling, or limited to church walls 13:50 – Dying to self and trusting God's plan—examples from community building 14:46 – Dependence on God's strength—how weaknesses become strengths in His power 16:14 – Partnering with God's ongoing work everywhere, not just inside church walls 17:35 – Recognizing God's clarity in seasons of deep work and refining foundations 18:33 – The importance of a strong foundation—comparing Lego structures to our lives 20:21 – Restoring and rebuilding—God's process of tearing down and setting right 22:14 – Demolition vs. remodeling: God's way of resetting our lives for His purpose 23:52 – Listening to the Holy Spirit in every season and community 25:42 – Maintaining community rooted in God's Word and Jesus' love 26:39 – The uniqueness of individual race and community seasons in kingdom building 28:13 – Knowing when to stay or move on in God's timing 29:07 – Embracing change and God's seasons—trusting His flow and divine blueprint 31:11 – Celebrating God's faithfulness 32:30 – The power of gratitude in transition 34:04 – Teaching kids to hear from God—practical steps and fostering spiritual confidence 37:52 – The intentionality behind leading children and listening to the Holy Spirit 44:36 – The significance of relationship-centered kingdom building 50:29 – Trust and obedience in God's timing—working and waiting in faith 55:11 – Trusting God through delays and breakthroughs 58:01 – The beauty of God's plan & purpose over worldly measures 60:58 – Building one nail at a time—God’s blueprint and our participation in His design 62:46 – Lessons from Ezra and Nehemiah—building through humility, patience, and community 65:02 – The power of prayer and testimony 67:37 – Overcoming fear and stepping boldly in faith 70:21 – Participating in God's divine puzzle—placing pieces in His perfect design 71:31 – The ultimate guide in building life and kingdom 73:02 – Recalibrating: redefining measurements through God's Word—letting go of worldly narratives 78:39 – Final encouragement: life is ongoing kingdom building—take each day step-by-step 68:35 – Closing prayer Resources & Links: * Book: Recalibrate – Shift Your Focus, Revive Your Life [https://www.amazon.com/Recalibrate-Shift-Your-Focus-Revive/dp/1953000436/ref=sr_1_1?crid=24VTH67EV4V7N&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.a4dFK-LkXVOLQSJR9Fk6Qb-60mZxTrukWBxcmFMfx00.pPJ4XvyXPqI1Oun8C9rTJg-VDgkAV5wQ8IFfSm6aZok&dib_tag=se&keywords=recalibrate+danielle+kazarian&qid=1779140614&sprefix=recalibrate+daniell%2Caps%2C184&sr=8-1] Connect with Danielle: * ⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/danielle.kazarian/?hl=en]@Danielle.Kazarian [https://www.instagram.com/danielle.kazarian/?hl=en]⁠ Connect with Schell: * @flirtingwithmyhusband Building God's kingdom starts with humility, continual listening, and surrender to His divine blueprint. Each step, no matter how small or slow, is part of His magnificent design—one nailed piece at a time.

EP 44: Building Boldly- Kingdom Work, Adoption & the Power of Unity with Kerri Holmes

Building Boldly: Kingdom Work, Adoption & the Power of Unity with Kerri Holmes The Nitty Gritty Podcast with Kerri Holmes**Join us as Danielle and Schell sit down with Kerri Holmes to explore her journey in kingdom-building through church leadership, marriage, and adoption. Discover how faith-inspired leadership cultivates community and empowers women to walk boldly in their calling. In this episode: * Kerri shares her story of leading Titus Women’s Ministry for over five years and expanding community circles for deeper connection * The significance of biblical mentorship, with emphasis on Titus 2:3-5, in fostering godly living and family leadership * Practical insights on developing leaders, managing growth, and creating safe, supportive environments * The impact of prayer and obedience in experiencing God's unexpected blessings, including the adoption of Ella from Russia * The role of unity—spiritually, within marriages, and in church ministries—in advancing God's kingdom * Kerri’s heart for marriage ministry and her partnership with her husband Adam in supporting families * Key Scriptures: 1 Corinthians 15:58, Romans 14:17, John 17:23 in building unity and perseverance in faith Timestamps:  00:00 - Welcome and introduction to Kerri Holmes  01:19 - Kerri’s journey with Titus Women’s Ministry  02:42 - Organizing ministry for kingdom impact  03:10 - Personal background and family life  04:05 - How Titus shaped Kerri’s faith  05:31 - Pandemic pivot and new directions in ministry  06:51 - Obedience and new visions for community  08:09 - Childhood favorite movies and kingdom themes  09:03 - The Sound of Music and its significance  11:25 - Defining kingdom building: Love God and love others  12:47 - Practical ways Carrie lives out kingdom principles  13:12 - The story of adopting Ella and God’s timing  15:23 - Faith in God’s provision through

EP 43: Follow up conversation to EP 41-Navigating Authentic Faith & Healthy Relationships

EP 43: Navigating Authentic Faith and Healthy Relationships: A Follow-up Conversation on Forgiveness, Boundaries, and Discernment In this episode, Schell and Danielle follow up their previous conversation from EP 41 and explore the challenges and truths of living out faith in everyday relationships. They discuss the importance of forgiveness, setting healthy boundaries, and seeking divine discernment to love others well—especially amidst hurt, disappointment, and offense. Key Topics The role of intentional friendships in spiritual growth Forgiveness as a divine obedience, not just a feeling How offenses, disappointments, and boundaries influence relationships The significance of discernment in love and conflict resolution Practical ways to evaluate motives and align actions with scripture The process of repentance and healing through prayer The biblical foundation for love that has backbone, not wimpy acceptance Recognizing when to seek wise counsel vs. going directly to God The power of praying for even those who have hurt us How Jesus' sacrifice and authority over Satan empower our forgiveness and freedom Timestamps 00:00 - Introduction to the importance of authentic faith in relationships 02:01 - The significance of forgiveness in healing and relationships 04:22 - Creating healthy boundaries without losing love 05:47 - The impact of offense and disappointment in our walk with Jesus 08:08 - Handling offense through scripture and Holy Spirit guidance 10:42 - How forgiveness cleans wounds and grants freedom 12:27 - The importance of spiritual maturity in managing offense and boundaries 14:03 - Indicators of whether we're seeking revenge or God's way 15:56 - Recognizing emotional currents that lead us away from peace 17:13 - Addressing past wounds and their influence on present relationships 20:22 - The dangers of non-confrontation and passivity 22:34 - Showing grace while protecting yourself in relationships 25:18 - Praying for discernment and God’s heart in friendships 28:10 - Loving even enemies as a divine indicator of God's love in us 30:56 - The importance of praying for those who hurt us 34:11 - Our authority over Satan through Jesus' sacrifice and love 36:33 - Operating in love with divine discernment over reactiveness 39:08 - Boundaries with love and God's firm love as an example 42:22 - The critical role of forgiveness in avoiding dependence and codependency 45:52 - The process of genuine repentance and heart transformation 48:11 - The visual of releasing burdens through honest prayer and surrender 52:18 - Invitation to go to the "secret place" with Jesus for transformation 53:12 - Closing thoughts and encouragement to walk in love, wisdom, and forgiveness Resources & Links Soul Care by Dr. Rob Reimer Hebrews 4:12 Luke 17:1-4 Philippians 4:8 "think about such things" Matthew 16:19 Keys the kingdom Connect with Danielle: @danielle.kazarian   Connect with Schell: @flirtingwithmyhusband Note: This episode emphasizes that living out faith involves intentional boundaries, forgiveness, and discernment—balancing truth and love rooted in God’s Word. It encourages believers to seek divine guidance in every interaction and to walk in freedom through Jesus’ authority.

Ep 42: Finding the Gold in People- w/ guest Jennifer Jones on forging faith, ministry idolatry, calling

Ep 42: Finding the Gold in People- Jennifer Jones on forging faith through fire, breaking ministry idolatry, and helping believers run in their calling In this episode of the Nitty Gritty, Danielle and Shell sit down with Jennifer Jones — ministry leader, entrepreneur, coach, and founder of Illuminate Global Ministry — for a rich, Spirit-filled conversation about what it truly means to build God's kingdom from the inside out. Jennifer shares her remarkable story: born a miracle child against impossible medical odds, raised in an abusive home, battling depression and suicidal ideation from childhood, and ultimately encountering the Lord at 21. Through decades of inner healing, deliverance, prophetic refinement, and deep intimacy with the Father, she has been forged into a passionate champion of people and their God-given identities. This episode covers a lot of ground, including: * What kingdom building actually looks like — it starts with discipleship, prayer, and speaking to the core of people's identity, not their mistakes. Jennifer talks about the difference between building a platform and building people. * Ministry idolatry and how it keeps believers small, insecure, and dependent on the wrong things. Jennifer vulnerably shares a season where the glory lifted because she had unknowingly stepped into receiving glory that belonged to God. * Prophetic witchcraft and soul ties — what they are, how to recognize them, and how they can trap people's destinies. Danielle brings in scriptural grounding from Joel 2 and Philippians 2:2. * The marketplace calling — why the church building is not the only place God uses his people, and why the 10% Levitical model means 90% were out in the world serving God through their everyday lives and gifts. * Practical tools for hearing God's voice — Jennifer shares how she started with simple yes-or-no journaling questions, building confidence in her ability to hear the Holy Spirit over time. * The beauty of being moldable — why mistaking God's process for failure is one of the biggest traps believers face, and how to stay flexible when the outcome doesn't look like what you imagined. Scriptures referenced: * Mark 12- What's the most important thing? * 1 Corinthians 13-Identity * John 17:20–24- Holy Spirit prays for us * Joel 2:28 - Jesus' prayer for us * Philippians 2:2 * Revelation 4 - Overcoming Connect with Jennifer Jones: Illuminate, Purpose Coaching, Renewed Soul Life Purpose Coaching [https://renewedsoul.co/] Facebook [https://www.facebook.com/illuminatewithjenniferjones?mibextid=wwXIfr] Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/illuminate_with_jenniferjones?igsh=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ%3D%3D&utm_source=qr] YouTube [https://youtube.com/@illuminatewithjenniferjones?si=0GfX8hyvPIWkiize]: TIK TOK [https://www.tiktok.com/@illuminate_w_jenniferj?_r=1&_t=ZP-94w59ow960k]

Ep 41: Building the Kingdom through Friendship: A Journey of Faith, Love, and Discipline

Title: Ep 41: Building the Kingdom through Friendship: A Journey of Faith, Love, and Discipline In this episode of the Nitty Gritty podcast, Danielle and Schell explore what it means to build genuine friendships rooted in biblical principles and how these relationships reflect God's kingdom on earth. They share personal stories, spiritual insights, and practical steps toward cultivating friendships that foster growth, trust, and kingdom impact. Main Topics Covered: * The biblical foundation of friendship and how Jesus says, "I have called you friends" (John 15:9-17). * Traits of a good friend: relationship with Jesus, follow-through, trustworthiness, and intentionality. * The importance of vulnerability and building bridges, not barriers, in relationships. * Discernment versus judgment: understanding spiritual wisdom in friendships. * The role of prayer, silence, and God's character in guiding our friendships and kingdom building. * Recognizing snakes (deception) and protecting the unity in the body of Christ (2 Corinthians 13:14). * Reflection on God's character—redeemer, healer—and how it was displayed last year. * Practical ways to remember names, notes, and details to love others well. * The concept of kingdom building as a life shared brick by brick, storing treasures in heaven (Matthew 6:19-21). * The importance of community, shared mission, and living out God's will on earth (Matthew 6:10, Luke 17:21). Key Scriptures: * John 15:9-17 * 2 Timothy 4 Connect with Danielle & Schell: Danielle - flirtingwithmyhusband [https://instagram.com/danielle] Schell - danielle.kazarian [https://instagram.com/schell] | www.daniellekazarian.com [https://twitter.com/schell] Timestamp Highlights: 00:00 - Welcome back: Season 5 and our focus on Kingdom building 02:19 - The biblical view of friendship through Jesus' example 04:35 - Building bridges, removing barriers in relationships 12:58 - Experiencing God's character traits in our lives (redeemer, healer) 15:56 - Walking through seasons of hard truth and growth 20:38 - The significance of unity and kingdom work in everyday life 25:11 - Learning God's discernment amidst deception and spiritual battles 33:48 - Loving through correction and walking in mercy 37:14 - Scriptural encouragement: Peace as a rule in our hearts (Colossians 3:15) 42:47 - Living out kingdom principles in our homes and communities 45:43 - Understanding the kingdom as a realm of God's authority and how we participate 48:39 - Storing treasures in heaven and living with eternity in mind (Matthew 6:19-21) 54:55 - The importance of testing everything against God's Word—and trusting the Spirit of truth Additional Notes: This episode emphasizes that kingdom building begins in our friendships, in our homes, and through our continuous walk with Jesus. Remember, the Holy Spirit guides discernment, and God's peace should rule our hearts in every interaction. Building authentic, kingdom-oriented relationships requires intentionality, prayer, vulnerability, and a focus on eternal treasures.