Surviving Grief and Starting Over in Midlife with Betsy Ronel
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“It’s your choice every day. To survive, or to begin to thrive.”
Betsy Ronel learned that the hard way. Her husband was killed when she was 40. She lost the next decade to grief before she decided, at 52, to claim her life back.
This is not a tidy bounce-back story. It’s an honest conversation about the slow kind of grief, the kind where getting out of bed and brushing your teeth is the whole win for the day. From there, Betsy rebuilt: a new career at 48, a home she bought and runs alone, her boys, and a reality dating show that accidentally led her to a whole new chapter.
What stayed with us is her honesty. She’s not sure she’s ready to love again. She’ll tell you the grass is never greener, that you’d never want anyone else’s problems, and that the two words holding it all together are simply: keep going.
If you’ve ever lost someone, or lost a version of your life, this one will meet you where you are.
IN THIS EPISODE
• The decade Betsy lost to grief, and the moment she chose to thrive
• Why getting out of bed can be the whole win, and why that’s enough
• “Home is everything,” and why community is its own kind of home
• Saying yes to a dating show, and what stepping out of your comfort zone really teaches you
• Grief as an opportunity to unfold, in Betsy’s own words
CHAPTERS
00:00 "Keep going": the mantra that gets her through
01:05 Welcome to The Wisdom We Share
01:45 Meet Betsy Ronel: widow, broker, podcaster
02:57 Why home is everything
05:55 The broker who talks to the houses she sells
10:24 Inner wisdom, intuition, and honouring a space
11:50 Midlife crisis to comeback: the story behind the tagline
13:13 Losing her husband at 40, and the decade she lost with him
18:55 Saying yes to a dating show in her own home
23:43 What jumping out of your comfort zone really teaches you
26:30 Why community is its own kind of home
32:00 Santa Fe, soul homes, and the places that call us back
36:30 Her one piece of wisdom: be grateful for your own problems
38:30 Grief as an opportunity to unfold
ABOUT BETSY
Betsy Ronel is a New York real estate broker who believes home is everything, and the host of the podcast “Heavens to Betsy: Midlife Crisis to Comeback.” Widowed at 40, she rebuilt her life and career from the ground up, and brings humour, heart and hard-won wisdom to grief, reinvention and starting again.
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