A Little Birdie Told You

when the anxious attachment becomes avoidant.

Sometimes the pain of constantly chasing, waiting, and seeking love triggers a protective mechanism that leads an anxious attachment into an avoidant state. Whether it’s always being the one waiting for that reply, making excuses, giving until there’s nothing left, maybe the anxious finally gave up and became protective of their heart. Because at one point, the person who craved closeness is now afraid of it. In this episode, Kristen expresses the shift that sometimes occurs in an anxious attachment into the avoidant, learning to heal, and navigating relationships in a healthy way.                        Disclaimer: The views expressed in this content do not, and do not intend to constitute legal advice, all information or advice provided is provided for informational and entertainment purposes. We are not responsible for any losses, damages, or liabilities that may arise from the use of this podcast.

the last meeting theory

There’s a theory that claims when you’ve learned the lesson a connection was meant to teach you, you and that person will never cross paths again. No matter the distance, shared friends, or mutual places, you never bump into them again. Well, in this episode, Kristen shares the truth about this theory. Discussing her perspective, explaining the overall meaning, the purpose of never seeing this person again, and how you can be tested by encountering this person before entering a new chapter.                        Disclaimer: The views expressed in this content do not, and do not intend to constitute legal advice, all information or advice provided is provided for informational and entertainment purposes. We are not responsible for any losses, damages, or liabilities that may arise from the use of this podcast.

your self respect must be stronger than your emotions

Sometimes our emotions can make us impulsively make decisions, but the truth is, emotions are temporary, they are constantly changing. The thing is, self-respect is different. Self-respect sets the standard for what type of treatment you accept. In this episode, Kristen discusses the commitment of choosing yourself, refusing to settle, developing a sense of self-respect, recognizing the importance of your boundaries, and learning to allow your self-respect to be louder than your emotions.                    Disclaimer: The views expressed in this content do not, and do not intend to constitute legal advice, all information or advice provided is provided for informational and entertainment purposes. We are not responsible for any losses, damages, or liabilities that may arise from the use of this podcast.

stop being afraid of losing them, be afraid of losing yourself trying to keep them.

Many of us are afraid to let go of someone, so we cling to them, attempting to convince them why they should stay, leaving behind our standards and settling for treatment we don’t deserve. But, we don’t realize while we’re so focused on fixing the relationship, we’re slowly losing ourselves in the process. In this episode, Kristen emphasizes the importance of maintaining a relationship with yourself, refusing to betray your standards or abandon who you are, whether it's understanding the red flags, learning to let go, becoming grounded within yourself, or being aligned with your worth. It’s time to prioritize the relationship with yourself.                        Disclaimer: The views expressed in this content do not, and do not intend to constitute legal advice, all information or advice provided is provided for informational and entertainment purposes. We are not responsible for any losses, damages, or liabilities that may arise from the use of this podcast.

how to stop thinking about them

Maybe you’re finding yourself thinking about that specific person, reminiscing on old memories, pondering on what could’ve been, or checking their social media. But, for every moment you think about them, is every moment you give them energy they may not deserve. In this episode, Kristen discusses how to actually prevent yourself from repeating the loop of constantly thinking about someone, especially those who didn’t value your presence when they had access to it. Whether it’s learning to redirect your energy back to yourself, breaking the pattern, or shifting your mindset, this episode teaches you how to finally stop thinking about them.                              Disclaimer: The views expressed in this content do not, and do not intend to constitute legal advice, all information or advice provided is provided for informational and entertainment purposes. We are not responsible for any losses, damages, or liabilities that may arise from the use of this podcast.