Collars & Calluses

Collars & Calluses: Episode 34 - Practical Manhood - Chivalry, Porn, and Early Marriage

In this episode of Collars and Calluses, Bill and Rich resume a discussion of Rich’s “13 Rules for Life: A Counsel for Young Men,” framing the rules as wisdom-guidelines rooted in Proverbs and applied to modern culture. They cover taking initiative and practicing chivalry with women as signals of male protection and provision, while rejecting “white knighting” and noting some women may exploit chivalry. They then emphasize an absolute command to avoid pornography, describing it as pervasive, addictive, shame-inducing, and emasculating, and warning it can escalate into more perverse sexual behavior; they stress cutting off lust, making no provision for the flesh, and pursuing holiness. Finally, they segue into pursuing a wife, arguing porn harms marital intimacy, chastity builds self-control needed in marriage, and men should become “marriageable,” avoid undue delay of marriage, and pursue marriage young as part of an active, high-standard masculinity. Contact us: collarsandcalluses@gmail.com

Collars & Calluses: Episode 33 - The Household Building Block: Reconstructing the Family

A talk by Rich Lusk.

Collars & Calluses: Episode 32 - Practical Manhood - Seek Wisdom, Act Like a Man, Integrity

Bill and Rich continue their Proverbs-focused series by discussing practical manhood through the theme of appropriateness, especially in speech, and framing manliness as an “art” learned through Scripture, experience, and lived models. Aimed particularly at younger men, they introduce Rich’s blog article “Counsel for Young Men: 13 Rules for Life” and cover three rules: (1) seek wisdom and submit to it by pursuing formal and informal mentors, learning from older godly men, and “reverse engineering” life and marriage from the reality of death; (2) act, speak, and dress like a man, including firm handshakes, clear direct speech, and dressing appropriately rather than “slobified” cultural norms; and (3) pursue integrity—doing the right thing even when costly—illustrated by Daniel, Joseph, and Clarence Thomas, emphasizing fear of God, responsibility, and initiative.  Contact us: collarsandcalluses@gmail.com

Collars & Calluses: Episode 31 - Q&A - Pleasure, Procreation, & The Talk

In this Collars and Calluses episode, Bill and Rich answer listener questions about sex in marriage, emphasizing that Scripture treats procreation and pleasure as a unified “package deal,” with marriage requiring openness to children and a high view of children as blessing and duty under the creation mandate. They warn against adopting the world’s anti-child mindset and argue contraception must be evaluated by motives and methods, rejecting abortion as “birth control” and opposing hormonal birth control due to possible abortifacient effects and health risks, while allowing natural family planning and condoms as potentially lawful. They also discuss cultural propaganda against motherhood and the importance of disciplined parenting. A second question addresses how to talk to children about sex, urging ongoing age-appropriate conversations, trust, parent-led instruction, and guarding against pornography and cultural sexual confusion.  Contact us: collarsandcalluses@gmail.com

Collars & Calluses: Episode 30 - Q&A - Navigating Vocations

Hosts Bill and Rich answer a listener’s question about vocational direction for men who lacked guidance beyond “get good grades and go to college.” They argue this reflects under-fathering and urge men not to adopt a victim mentality but to seek mentors, assess strengths and weaknesses, and pursue marketable opportunities rather than “follow your passion,” noting work is often hard and fulfillment includes providing for family. They caution against romantic views of work and against internet pressure to become entrepreneurs, emphasizing that many should start within structured employment and learn broadly. They discuss scenarios of an 18-year-old preparing for marriage, a 27-year-old artillery veteran leaving the military with savings and four children, and a construction estimator with limited upward mobility considering business ownership, stressing risk assessment, money management, and learning from wise counselors. Email: collarsandcalluses@gmail.com