Legacy Dads with Dave and Dante

Resolve Conflict and Find Peace and Hope with Adult Children with Dr. Kathy Koch

In this episode of the Legacy Dads Podcast, hosts Dave and Dante sit down with Dr. Kathy Koch, founder of Celebrate Kids, to discuss the often-overlooked challenges of parenting adult children. Centered around her book, Resolve Conflict and Find Peace and Hope with Adult Children, the conversation addresses the "identity crisis" many fathers face when their role shifts from protector and fixer to a more hands-off, supportive influence. Dr. Koch offers practical, biblical strategies for releasing control, overcoming "dad guilt" from past mistakes, and navigating the tension between loving a child and endorsing their lifestyle choices. Ultimately, the episode serves as a powerful guide for fathers to surrender their children to God's timing while maintaining a faithful, grace-filled presence that prioritizes reconciliation over being right. Connect With Dr. Kathy * Visit Celebrate Kids, Inc. [https://www.celebratekids.com] for more information and to get any of Dr. Kathy's books today! Connect With Us * Join the Conversation: Have a story or a struggle you want to share? Email us at dave@legacydads.org [dave@legacydads.org] and dante@legacydads.org [dante@legacydads.org]. You can also find us on Facebook Legacy Dads Online Community [https://www.facebook.com/legacydads] and Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/legacy_dads].

Ministry, Multiplication, and Intentional Fatherhood with Mac Lake

In this episode of the Legacy Dads podcast, host Dante Girolimon and guest co-host Joe Svoboda are joined by leadership expert Mac Lake to discuss the intersection of ministry, multiplication, and intentional fatherhood. Drawing from his decades of experience and the framework of the "Leadership Pipeline," Lake shares how his philosophy evolved from a passion for church reproduction to a deep conviction that every father is called to be a "multiplier" in his own home. The conversation moves through the distinct seasons of parenting—from the high-energy early years of building family culture to the nuanced shift of maintaining influence with adult children. Lake emphasizes that leadership development is, at its heart, a form of high-level discipleship that balances character and competency, a lesson he applied while raising his own children, including worship leader Brandon Lake. The episode concludes with a forward-looking vision of legacy, where Lake encourages fathers to view their homes not just as places of management, but as the primary training ground for the next generation of Kingdom leaders. Connect with Mac: * Mac Lake Online [https://maclakeonline.com] * Instagram: @maclake24 Connect With Us * Join the Conversation: Have a story or a struggle you want to share? Email us at dave@legacydads.org [dave@legacydads.org] and dante@legacydads.org [dante@legacydads.org]. You can also find us on Facebook Legacy Dads Online Community [https://www.facebook.com/legacydads] and Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/legacy_dads].

An Interview with Dr. Tom Ascol

In this episode, the Legacy Dads sit down with Dr. Tom Ascol to discuss the intersection of deep theology and daily fatherhood. As a seasoned pastor, author, and father, Tom brings a wealth of wisdom on what it means to lead a family with biblical clarity in an increasingly confused culture. We dive into the "Long Game" of parenting and why the fear of God is the ultimate antidote to the fears of this world. Connect with Tom Ascol * https://founders.org/podcasts/tstt-gods-gift-of-elders-to-his-church/ [https://founders.org/podcasts/tstt-gods-gift-of-elders-to-his-church/] on X: https://x.com/tomascol?s=20 [https://x.com/tomascol?s=20] Instagram: @thomasascol

Discipling through the years: the young adult era

In this final episode of our four-part series, Dave and Dante tackle the "Great Release"—the pivotal transition from parenting by authority to leading through influence as your children enter young adulthood. Grounded in the joy of 3 John 1:4, we explore how to stay spiritually connected without becoming controlling, providing a roadmap for fathers whose children are navigating college, careers, or even seasons of doubt and deconstruction. Whether you're learning to trust the foundation you've built or figuring out how to be a "safe harbor" during their recalibration, this episode challenges you to stop trying to control the outcome and start trusting the God who brings the growth. It's time to move from holding the bow to watching the arrow fly, confident that your legacy is anchored in faithfulness rather than perfection. Key Takeaways: * The Role Shift: Transitioning from daily control to foundational investment and coaching. * Staying Connected: Practical ways to maintain a spiritual bond without being intrusive. * Handling Doubt: How to remain a "safe harbor" if your child deconstructs or walks away from their faith. * Trusting the Growth: Remembering that you planted the seeds, but God brings the increase. Connect With Us * Join the Conversation: Have a story or a struggle you want to share? Email us at dave@legacydads.org [dave@legacydads.org] and dante@legacydads.org [dante@legacydads.org]. You can also find us on Facebook Legacy Dads Online Community [https://www.facebook.com/legacydads] and Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/legacy_dads].

Discipling through the years: the teenage years

The teenage years are often viewed with dread by parents, but for the Legacy Dad, they represent the most crucial season of discipleship. In this episode, Dave and Dante discuss how to move from being a "manager" of your child's life to a "mentor" of their soul. It's about anchoring them in biblical truth while providing the safe harbor they need to navigate identity, doubt, and independence. Connect With Us * Join the Conversation: Have a story or a struggle you want to share? Email us at dave@legacydads.org [dave@legacydads.org] and dante@legacydads.org [dante@legacydads.org]. You can also find us on Facebook Legacy Dads Online Community [https://www.facebook.com/legacydads] and Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/legacy_dads].