Fatherhood Field Notes

Ep. 557: Extreme Ownership - Kingdom Family Edition

On this Friday Craft of Fatherhood episode of Fatherhood Field Notes, Ned shares about a recent shift he's implemented in his family's morning routine: a ten minute time sharing something they're thankful for within the family, then naming somebody they could be praying for... and then doing it. This comes on the heels of asking questions about how we can be really modeling to our kids a lifestyle that will affect the next 100 years, even 1000 years of our family legacy. It's huge. Listen to day and let us know in the comments and your reviews what changes you've been making in your family routine. Then share this episode with a dad! --------- 1. Got a son ready to enter manhood? He needs a rite of passage. Check out Genesis - a Rite of Passage by Rise Up Kings [https://www.riseupkings.com/ffn] 2. Order The Adventure of Fatherhood children's books here [https://www.adventureoffatherhood.com/product-page/adventure-of-fatherhood-book] 3. Check out the TEDx [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1L3cr-W8BGo&t=1s] ---------- 1. Want to learn more about The Adventure of Fatherhood? 2. https://www.adventureoffatherhood.com/ [https://www.adventureoffatherhood.com/] 3. https://www.rebelandcreate.com/ [https://www.rebelandcreate.com/] Each week Ned sits down with a dad and asks him to open up his field notes and share with other men who find themselves on the Adventure of Fatherhood. Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review! Follow us: 1. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fatherhoodfieldnotes [https://www.instagram.com/fatherhoodfieldnotes/] 2. YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Fatherhoodfieldnotes [https://www.youtube.com/@Fatherhoodfieldnotes] 3. Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/rebelandcreate [https://www.facebook.com/rebelandcreate/] Mentioned in this episode: Rise Up Kings Genesis - a rite of passage experience for young men This episode was brought to you by Genesis - a rite of passage for boys becoming men - by Rise Up Kings.

Ep. 556: REWIND - UFC Fighter, Hall of Famer and Dad Urijah Faber

By popular demand, we dug deep into the archives to bring you a rewind of an oldie but a goodie from 2020 when Ned sat down with former UFC fighter and Hall of Famer Urijah Faber. Urijah and Fatherhood Field Notes Guide, Ned Schaut, sit down to talk Fatherhood and Dad Life. In 2019 Urijah came out of retirement and fought Ricky Simmons, knocking him out in 46 seconds. But 2019 was also the year that Urijah became a father, one of his life goals... and true to his character, when he goes in, he goes all in. Now in 2020 his family grew with the birth of his second child. Urijah is an intentional man, making the most out of life. You can watch the interview here on YouTube [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XRn2mBUoMv8&feature=emb_logo]. --------- 1. This episode is sponsored by Genesis - a Rite of Passage by Rise Up Kings [https://www.riseupkings.com/ffn] 2. Order The Adventure of Fatherhood children's book here [https://www.adventureoffatherhood.com/product-page/adventure-of-fatherhood-book] 3. Check out the TEDx [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1L3cr-W8BGo&t=1s] ---------- 1. Want to learn more about The Adventure of Fatherhood? 2. www.adventureoffatherhood.com [https://www.adventureoffatherhood.com/] 3. www.rebelandcreate.com [https://www.rebelandcreate.com/] Each week Ned sits down with a dad and asks him to open up his field notes and share with other men who find themselves on the Adventure of Fatherhood. Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review! Follow us: 1. Instagram: www.instagram.com/fatherhoodfieldnotes [https://www.instagram.com/fatherhoodfieldnotes/] 2. YouTube: www.youtube.com/@Fatherhoodfieldnotes [https://www.youtube.com/@Fatherhoodfieldnotes] 3. Facebook: www.facebook.com/rebelandcreate [https://www.facebook.com/rebelandcreate/] Mentioned in this episode: Rise Up Kings Genesis - a rite of passage experience for young men This episode was brought to you by Genesis - a rite of passage for boys becoming men - by Rise Up Kings.

Ep. 555: Dan Chang - How to Overcome Abuse & Hardship to Become the Steady Leader in the Home

What if the secret to truly impactful fatherhood isn’t about being perfect but about being present, vulnerable, and intentional? In this episode, Ned's friend, dad and entrepreneur "Hype Man Dan" Chang shares how his own painful childhood fuels his deep commitment to his kids, to revealing the subtle but powerful shifts that transformed his marriage and parenting. His story is a reminder: your legacy can be rewritten, starting today. TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 - Welcome and introduction to Dan’s journey 02:10 - Feeling young at heart despite age 03:11 - Highlights from pickleball rivalries & lessons in resilience 04:05 - The importance of carving out time with family and friends 05:23 - The value of real, honest conversations in male relationships 06:39 - What Dan does for a living: Collectibles, art, and entrepreneurship 08:15 - From corporate sales to high-end collectibles - Dan’s hustle 09:33 - The art and value of Magic: The Gathering and rare trading cards 10:24 - The significance of original artwork and grading in collectibles 11:56 - Wisdom for entrepreneurs and dads: Perseverance & authenticity 12:29 - Overcoming childhood poverty and rejection to build a legacy 14:43 - The impact of absent fathers and the importance of presence 16:01 - Appreciation and lessons learned from Dan’s dad 18:12 - Healing from past abuse and breaking the cycle of generational trauma 20:00 - The power of empathy, forgiveness, and choosing a positive legacy 22:13 - How Dan’s family history influences his parenting style 24:55 - The importance of forgiving past hurts for healing and growth 27:01 - Building trust and meaningful bonds with stepchildren 28:51 - Embracing imperfect fatherhood and intentional presence 31:29 - The significance of instinct, action, and calm leadership 34:24 - Self-awareness, humility, and growth as a dad 37:00 - Navigating marriage challenges and personal development 40:23 - Supporting children’s unique spiritual journeys 43:53 - The character traits and skills Dan hopes for his sons 45:11 - Honesty, trustworthiness, and the importance of authenticity 46:32 - Cultivating human connection and critical thinking in children 48:57 - Rebel and create: Disrupting selfishness and promoting service 51:04 - Practicing gratitude, presence, and small acts of kindness 55:05 - Investing early in legacy and financial wisdom 58:47 - Teaching kids about money, consumption, and delayed gratification 60:17 - Practical advice for fathers on vulnerability and being present 61:37 - The ultimate reward of family connection and authentic love --------- 1. This episode is sponsored by Genesis - a Rite of Passage by Rise Up Kings [https://www.riseupkings.com/ffn] 2. Order The Adventure of Fatherhood children's book here [https://www.adventureoffatherhood.com/product-page/adventure-of-fatherhood-book] 3. Check out the TEDx [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1L3cr-W8BGo&t=1s] ---------- 1. Want to learn more about The Adventure of Fatherhood? 2. www.adventureoffatherhood.com [https://www.adventureoffatherhood.com/] 3. www.rebelandcreate.com [https://www.rebelandcreate.com/] Each week Ned sits down with a dad and asks him to open up his field notes and share with other men who find themselves on the Adventure of Fatherhood. Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review! Follow us: 1. Instagram: www.instagram.com/fatherhoodfieldnotes [https://www.instagram.com/fatherhoodfieldnotes/] 2. YouTube: www.youtube.com/@Fatherhoodfieldnotes [https://www.youtube.com/@Fatherhoodfieldnotes] 3. Facebook: www.facebook.com/rebelandcreate [https://www.facebook.com/rebelandcreate/] Mentioned in this episode: Rise Up Kings Genesis - a rite of passage experience for young men This episode was brought to you by Genesis - a rite of passage for boys becoming men - by Rise Up Kings.

Ep. 554: A Question a Day Changes Everything

In this episode of Craft a Fatherhood, Ned talks about how powerful he's found it to be intentional about asking his kids a question every day. Big things happen. How are you inquiring about the thoughts, hopes, dreams, challenges your kids are having? Ned has a challenge for all of us on how we can change the very trajectory of our kids' lives just through intentional curiosity. He also shares some thoughts about how to envision the future you want your kids to live, work backwards with a plan for how to get there, and to really live it. --------- 1. Got a son ready to enter manhood? He needs a rite of passage. Check out Genesis - a Rite of Passage by Rise Up Kings [https://www.riseupkings.com/ffn] 2. Order The Adventure of Fatherhood children's books here [https://www.adventureoffatherhood.com/product-page/adventure-of-fatherhood-book] 3. Check out the TEDx [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1L3cr-W8BGo&t=1s] ---------- 1. Want to learn more about The Adventure of Fatherhood? 2. https://www.adventureoffatherhood.com/ [https://www.adventureoffatherhood.com/] 3. https://www.rebelandcreate.com/ [https://www.rebelandcreate.com/] Each week Ned sits down with a dad and asks him to open up his field notes and share with other men who find themselves on the Adventure of Fatherhood. Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review! Follow us: 1. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fatherhoodfieldnotes [https://www.instagram.com/fatherhoodfieldnotes/] 2. YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Fatherhoodfieldnotes [https://www.youtube.com/@Fatherhoodfieldnotes] 3. Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/rebelandcreate [https://www.facebook.com/rebelandcreate/]

Ep. 553: Mike Yarbrough - Do the Work to Heal & Live for the Family You'd Die For

In this episode of Fatherhood Field Notes, host Ned engages in a deep conversation with Mike Yarbrough, co-founder and co-owner of Rustic & Main and Wolf & Iron. They explore the complexities of fatherhood, marriage, and personal growth. They also discuss the importance of connection, communication, and the role of spirituality in parenting. Mike shares his journey of overcoming personal challenges like his marriage and his relationship with his own father. He also talks about getting help with attachment issues. He offers quite a few nuggets on the significance of creating meaningful moments with children, and the impact of homeschooling on family life. The conversation emphasizes the need for fathers to embrace vulnerability, set aspirations for their role, and actively participate in their children's lives. Mike's insights and experiences provide valuable lessons for fathers seeking to navigate the journey of parenthood with intention and purpose. Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Backgrounds 04:17 Reflections on Age and Personal Growth 07:28 Marriage Challenges and Growth 10:22 Parenting and Raising Young Adults 13:26 Business Ventures and Entrepreneurship 16:27 Creating Meaningful Connections through Rings 19:15 The Role of Fathers in Family Dynamics 20:21 Navigating Teenage Years and Independence 21:45 Building a Foundation of Thoughtful Christianity 24:57 The Importance of Engaging with Church Messages 25:24 Homeschooling Insights and Educational Choices 32:21 Making Life Decisions as a Family 36:50 Elevating the Role of Motherhood 37:52 Creating a Brotherhood for Men 40:20 Reflecting on 12 Years of Creation 42:00 The Impact of Writing and Connection 43:17 Building Community Through Guilds 44:45 Fatherhood and Personal Connections 47:28 Embracing Fatherhood: Lessons Learned 50:15 Advice for Young Dads 55:19 Healing Through Connection and Vulnerability --------- 1. This episode is sponsored by Genesis - a Rite of Passage by Rise Up Kings [https://www.riseupkings.com/ffn] 2. Order The Adventure of Fatherhood children's book here [https://www.adventureoffatherhood.com/product-page/adventure-of-fatherhood-book] 3. Check out the TEDx [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1L3cr-W8BGo&t=1s] ---------- 1. Want to learn more about The Adventure of Fatherhood? 2. www.adventureoffatherhood.com [https://www.adventureoffatherhood.com/] 3. www.rebelandcreate.com [https://www.rebelandcreate.com/] Each week Ned sits down with a dad and asks him to open up his field notes and share with other men who find themselves on the Adventure of Fatherhood. Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review! Follow us: 1. Instagram: www.instagram.com/fatherhoodfieldnotes [https://www.instagram.com/fatherhoodfieldnotes/] 2. YouTube: www.youtube.com/@Fatherhoodfieldnotes [https://www.youtube.com/@Fatherhoodfieldnotes] 3. Facebook: www.facebook.com/rebelandcreate [https://www.facebook.com/rebelandcreate/] Mentioned in this episode: Rise Up Kings Genesis - a rite of passage experience for young men This episode was brought to you by Genesis - a rite of passage for boys becoming men - by Rise Up Kings.