Fatherhood Field Notes

Ned challenges fathers to recognize sex as sacred and to communicate its true meaning and value at home, not just let culture define it for their kids. He shares real ways he and his wife approach open, shame-free conversations about sex, urging dads to align their beliefs, lead with grace, and clean up their own struggles so they can model healthy intimacy for the next generation. Links and Resources: * Transform Your Body with Ned & RUK Fitness:  * RUK Fitness [https://go.riseupkings.com/rukfitness-optin] * This episode is sponsored by The Adventure of Fatherhood [https://www.adventureoffatherhood.com/] * Order The Adventure of Fatherhood children's book here [https://www.adventureoffatherhood.com/product-page/adventure-of-fatherhood-book] * Check out the TEDx [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1L3cr-W8BGo&t=1s] ---------- Want to learn more about The Adventure of Fatherhood? * https://www.adventureoffatherhood.com/ [https://www.adventureoffatherhood.com/] * https://www.rebelandcreate.com/ [https://www.rebelandcreate.com/] Each week Ned sits down with a dad and asks him to open up his field notes and share with other men who find themselves on the Adventure of Fatherhood. Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review! Follow us: * Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fatherhoodfieldnotes [https://www.instagram.com/fatherhoodfieldnotes/] * YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Fatherhoodfieldnotes [https://www.youtube.com/@Fatherhoodfieldnotes] * Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/rebelandcreate [https://www.facebook.com/rebelandcreate/]

Griff Erickson — former pro baseball player turned father of three — shares how he’s learning to “keep it simple” and “stay approachable” while raising kids who know what real love, hard work, and character look like. From life’s unexpected curveballs to messy garages and fatherhood’s hidden gift of leaning into the hard, Griff opens up about what it means to “love the suck,” show up for your kids, and build a solid foundation at home when life never stays tidy for long. If you’ve ever wondered how to stop yelling, stay present, and create a family culture your kids run toward — this episode will inspire you to rebel against low expectations and embrace the beautiful mess of fatherhood. Guest Links: * Griff on LinkedIn [https://www.linkedin.com/in/gorman-griff-erickson-101211120/] Links and Resources: * Transform Your Body with Ned & RUK Fitness:  * RUK Fitness [https://go.riseupkings.com/rukfitness-optin] * This episode is sponsored by The Adventure of Fatherhood [https://www.adventureoffatherhood.com/] * Order The Adventure of Fatherhood children's book here [https://www.adventureoffatherhood.com/product-page/adventure-of-fatherhood-book] * Check out the TEDx [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1L3cr-W8BGo&t=1s] ---------- Want to learn more about The Adventure of Fatherhood? * https://www.adventureoffatherhood.com/ [https://www.adventureoffatherhood.com/] * https://www.rebelandcreate.com/ [https://www.rebelandcreate.com/] Each week Ned sits down with a dad and asks him to open up his field notes and share with other men who find themselves on the Adventure of Fatherhood. Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review! Follow us: * Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fatherhoodfieldnotes [https://www.instagram.com/fatherhoodfieldnotes/] * YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Fatherhoodfieldnotes [https://www.youtube.com/@Fatherhoodfieldnotes] * Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/rebelandcreate [https://www.facebook.com/rebelandcreate/]

Ned dives deep into the importance of treating words and thoughts as sacred tools in fatherhood. He highlights the profound influence a father can have in shaping his family’s environment simply by mastering self-control and being intentional with the words he speaks. Through personal reflection, Ned explores the idea that fatherhood is about influence, not control, and how managing thoughts and actions can create a peaceful, loving home. This episode is packed with valuable insights for any father looking to lead his family with purpose and integrity. Tune in to learn why your words and thoughts carry the weight to build or disrupt your family’s future. Links and Resources: * Transform Your Body with Ned & RUK Fitness:  * RUK Fitness [https://go.riseupkings.com/rukfitness-optin] * This episode is sponsored by The Adventure of Fatherhood [https://www.adventureoffatherhood.com/] * Order The Adventure of Fatherhood children's book here [https://www.adventureoffatherhood.com/product-page/adventure-of-fatherhood-book] * Check out the TEDx [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1L3cr-W8BGo&t=1s] ---------- Want to learn more about The Adventure of Fatherhood? * https://www.adventureoffatherhood.com/ [https://www.adventureoffatherhood.com/] * https://www.rebelandcreate.com/ [https://www.rebelandcreate.com/] Each week Ned sits down with a dad and asks him to open up his field notes and share with other men who find themselves on the Adventure of Fatherhood. Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review! Follow us: * Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fatherhoodfieldnotes [https://www.instagram.com/fatherhoodfieldnotes/] * YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Fatherhoodfieldnotes [https://www.youtube.com/@Fatherhoodfieldnotes] * Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/rebelandcreate [https://www.facebook.com/rebelandcreate/]

Ned Schaut and Amber Vilhauer unpack what it means to raise kids who trust their authentic voice. Amber shares how deep conversations, co-parenting with respect, and being fully present can help fathers break generational cycles and guide their kids with awareness and integrity. From her journey as a single mom to reconnecting with her own dad, Amber’s story reminds every father: It’s never too late to show up and lead by example. Guest Links: * ambervilhauer.com [https://ambervilhauer.com/] * ngngenterprises.com [https://ngngenterprises.com/] * LinkedIn [https://www.linkedin.com/in/ambervilhauer/] Links and Resources: * Transform Your Body with Ned & RUK Fitness:  * RUK Fitness [https://go.riseupkings.com/rukfitness-optin] * This episode is sponsored by The Adventure of Fatherhood [https://www.adventureoffatherhood.com/] * Order The Adventure of Fatherhood children's book here [https://www.adventureoffatherhood.com/product-page/adventure-of-fatherhood-book] * Check out the TEDx [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1L3cr-W8BGo&t=1s] ---------- Want to learn more about The Adventure of Fatherhood? * https://www.adventureoffatherhood.com/ [https://www.adventureoffatherhood.com/] * https://www.rebelandcreate.com/ [https://www.rebelandcreate.com/] Each week Ned sits down with a dad and asks him to open up his field notes and share with other men who find themselves on the Adventure of Fatherhood. Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review! Follow us: * Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fatherhoodfieldnotes [https://www.instagram.com/fatherhoodfieldnotes/] * YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Fatherhoodfieldnotes [https://www.youtube.com/@Fatherhoodfieldnotes] * Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/rebelandcreate [https://www.facebook.com/rebelandcreate/]

Ned continues the "What is Sacred?" series by turning the focus inward—to the very space we call home. With heartfelt storytelling and real-life reflections, Ned challenges fathers to consider: Is your house just a building, or is it a sacred space where peace is cultivated? Through vivid anecdotes—like helping his son buy a first car instead of insisting on a clean garage—Ned explores how the tone we set, the stress we carry, and the way we treat each other inside our homes shapes legacy. This episode dives into practical wisdom on sibling relationships, modeling respect, and creating an atmosphere that feels like rest. If someone looked into your home today, would they know what really matters to you? Links and Resources: * Transform Your Body with Ned & RUK Fitness:  * RUK Fitness [https://go.riseupkings.com/rukfitness-optin] * This episode is sponsored by The Adventure of Fatherhood [https://www.adventureoffatherhood.com/] * Order The Adventure of Fatherhood children's book here [https://www.adventureoffatherhood.com/product-page/adventure-of-fatherhood-book] * Check out the TEDx [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1L3cr-W8BGo&t=1s] ---------- Want to learn more about The Adventure of Fatherhood? * https://www.adventureoffatherhood.com/ [https://www.adventureoffatherhood.com/] * https://www.rebelandcreate.com/ [https://www.rebelandcreate.com/] Each week Ned sits down with a dad and asks him to open up his field notes and share with other men who find themselves on the Adventure of Fatherhood. Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review! Follow us: * Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fatherhoodfieldnotes [https://www.instagram.com/fatherhoodfieldnotes/] * YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Fatherhoodfieldnotes [https://www.youtube.com/@Fatherhoodfieldnotes] * Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/rebelandcreate [https://www.facebook.com/rebelandcreate/]