The SmartSex Podcast

Sexually Curious... What Men Want to Ask A Sex Therapist

"Why do I have a sex drive difference from my partner and what can I do about it? " "Why does my wife never seem to initiate sex?" "What can I do about my anger and frustration around being sexually rejected?" "How come I can't always tell if my wife has had an orgasm, and what can I do?" If you've asked one of these questions, you're not alone! Men are curious and want to have deep, intimate relationships, but sometimes can't find the answers. Doug interviews Leslie in this episode to get to the bottom of some of these questions. There's more!!! Many other topics and questions arose during the talk including: - The difference between men's and women's sexual fantasies and sexual desire. - What is underneath men's sexual frustration and the personal and relational "fix" for it? - The role of fear of not getting sexual needs met and men's sex "drive". - "Does pornography work as an antidote to a difference in sexual desire?" - How couples can work through and negotiate their sexual life in all its nuances. - Why men's pursuit of their partners often fails. - The truth about "sexual incompatibility" and what to do. The episode takes an unexpected turn in the latter part of the episode when Doug asks about why affairs happen and if men (and women) can get the passion back after the affair. This is a lively discussion that will help the listener become Better, Smarter & Sexier! Thank you for listening. Your SUBSCRIBING, sharing and continued listening helps keep this podcast alive all over the world. For products and programs to grow, enhance and transform your life, relationships and intimacy visit www.leslieGustafson.com/shop [https://www.lesliegustafson.com/shop] Leslie Gustafson can be found on Instagram @LeslieGustafson1 [https://www.instagram.com/lesliegustafson1/]

Sexplanation... What YOU Want To Know About Sex

It's Doug's turn to put Leslie in the hot seat and interviews Leslie. Doug asks the daring questions that YOU want to know the answers to: * Does size really matter? * Do clients take their clothes off in sex therapy? * What exactly is a sex therapist and what do you do? * Who comes to sex therapy and why? * What is great sex anyway? * How are men and women different when it comes to sex? Or are they? * How does one become a sex therapist? * Are some people just not sexual at all? He also presents numerous real life couple examples for Leslie to "solve". Leslie answers these questions with the real truth using her experience as a Master Sex, Love and Relationship Coach, licensed Individual and couples therapist and AASECT Sex Therapist. This is a lively discussion that will help the listener become Better, Smarter & Sexier! Thank you for listening. Your SUBSCRIBING, sharing and continued listening helps keep this podcast alive all over the world. For products and programs to grow, enhance and transform your life, relationships and intimacy visit www.leslieGustafson.com/shop [https://www.lesliegustafson.com/shop] Leslie Gustafson can be found on Instagram @LeslieGustafson1 [https://www.instagram.com/lesliegustafson1/]

Men and Sex - Lovers and Leaders

Leslie has the joy of interviewing Doug in the second episode of Men and Sex. The conversation is deep and rich. We uncover what healthy sexuality is for men and what is underneath men's desires. "Most men want to be better men" but don't necessarily know the path in the intimate, sexual, interpersonal and relational arenas. Men are lovers and leaders but need to unearth and explore identity, emotions, the heart of a man, the role of porn and becoming whole as a man. Doug emphasizes the critical importance of men understanding their own complexity so they can live fully, powerfully and confidently in and out of the bedroom. Many men lean on sex as their primary avenue for the management of their emotions, releasing stress and feeling alive and connected, but must reconcile what sex is about for them, what it really can be and who they are as men. Lastly, the "GREAT WANT" for men (that both men and women hold) is highlighted. PLEASE Subscribe, Enjoy! And Become, Better, Smarter and Sexier! For products and programs to grow, enhance and transform your life, relationships and intimacy visit www.leslieGustafson.com/shop [https://www.lesliegustafson.com/shop] Leslie Gustafson can be found on Instagram @LeslieGustafson1 [https://www.instagram.com/lesliegustafson1/]

Men and Sex - What Men Really Want

Leslie and Doug discuss male sexuality in a date-like set-up over a nice glass of red wine. They have a very real and at times raw conversation about men, sex, and what it's all about and cover topics including: * male sexual development, * the importance of sex, * what is addiction, * out-of-control sexual behavior, * men's feelings and desires, * pornography and much more THIS is a must listen to podcast! Insights, stories, wisdom about men, and at times contrary opinions gained from the real-life work and experience of joining personally with men as their mentor, coach, therapist are shared. This conversation is full of information and understanding that every man and the women who love them can grow from and become "Better, Smarter & Sexier." PLEASE Subscribe, Enjoy! And Become, Better, Smarter and Sexier! For products and programs to grow, enhance and transform your life, relationships and intimacy visit www.leslieGustafson.com/shop [https://www.lesliegustafson.com/shop] Leslie Gustafson can be found on Instagram @LeslieGustafson1 [https://www.instagram.com/lesliegustafson1/]

Play in the Bedroom

In this playful episode, I'm excited to have a special guest, who is also my partner, my lover, and my best friend in life, Doug Gustafson. We talk about a timely topic - "Play" in and out of the bedroom. Play is critical to our well-being, relationships, and our marriages. Doug and I discuss play in general, play individually, and as a couple. We want to inspire you to create a playful lifestyle with your partner! Join us as we talk about all this and more, and encourage you to become smarter, healthier, and sexier! PLEASE Subscribe, Enjoy! And Become, Better, Smarter and Sexier! For products and programs to grow, enhance and transform your life, relationships and intimacy visit www.leslieGustafson.com/shop [https://www.lesliegustafson.com/shop] Leslie Gustafson can be found on Instagram @LeslieGustafson1 [https://www.instagram.com/lesliegustafson1/]