The Weekly Hot Spot

Are you curious about threesomes, foursomes and moresomes? This episode has tips on group sex, personal stories and lots of advice. Adult entertainment publicist and author Lainie Speiser joins us to talk about her book: Threesomes: For couples who want to know more. The Weekly Hot Spot podcast listeners sent in lots of questions.  How often does a threesome “just happen”? How can you spot someone asking you to be in a threesome? Do you think you’ve ever missed an opportunity for group sex? Should you have a safe word, like in BDSM, for swingers encounters? What happens if you find yourself in a situation where you just aren’t into it and you want to lease? How to negotiate consent with group sex? Who gets to do what? Do men ever get performance anxiety when with two women? What about a couple who want to add another man or, even, a sissy? How to find a threesome if you want to be the third to a couple? How to talk to your partner about exploring non-traditional sex? Hear personal stories, solid advice and so much more. Link to books by Lainie Speiser [https://www.amazon.com/stores/Lainie-Speiser/author/B001JP7NVE?ref=sr_ntt_srch_lnk_1&qid=1756744006&sr=8-1&isDramIntegrated=true&shoppingPortalEnabled=true](get all of them!) Twitter X and Insta:  @MissLainie     Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress [https://www.experiencedmistress.com/] olivia@enchantrixempire.com Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy [https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/] erika@enchantrixempire.com DISCORD [https://discord.com/]:  LDWOlivia and LDWErika

Questions about blow jobs? We’ve got answers in this episode with adult entertainment publicist Lainie Speiser.   How do women feel about giving blow jobs? What do these three sexy women like most about giving a blow job? Do porn stars actually enjoy giving blow jobs or do they fake it for the camera? How do porn stars give great blow jobs? Using your hand along with your mouth for blow jobs. Tips for learning to deep throat a big cock How to control your gag reflex. How to make sure your teeth don’t ruin the blow job. Find out who came up with the term deep throat. What is a fellatio fiesta? Learn about Michael and his blow bros. Find out how many loads of cum Michael the cum junkie has slurped up this year. Freezing cum loads BDSM, kink and being submissive Does a Femdom give a blow job? Can a blow job be part of an elaborate mindfuck? Do porn shoots still use fluffers and how does someone get that job? Listener questions inspire this episode. You’ll learn some sex education, hear intimate behind the scenes stories and so much more! Link to books by Lainie Speiser [https://www.amazon.com/stores/Lainie-Speiser/author/B001JP7NVE?ref=sr_ntt_srch_lnk_1&qid=1756134092&sr=8-1&isDramIntegrated=true&shoppingPortalEnabled=true](get all of them!) Twitter X and Insta:  @MissLainie     Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress [https://www.experiencedmistress.com/] olivia@enchantrixempire.com Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy [https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/] erika@enchantrixempire.com DISCORD [https://discord.com/]:  LDWOlivia and LDWErika

Meet Davina: a straight male who likes to crossdress. What is the reaction of the wife? How does the feminine side coexist with the masculine side?  Mistress Olivia reads parts of an email from a listener who describes herself as Davina, “I don't mean just someone who dabbles in panties or lingerie behind closed doors, I’ve developed a full feminine persona named Davina — she’s elegant, expressive, grounded, and very real to me.” Mistress Erika and Ms Olivia talk about feminization, crossdressing, gender presentation and gender identity including: Terms and labels used in gender exploration. What is the difference between a crossdresser and a trans woman? Why does wearing women’s lingerie unlock feminine emotions for many men? What is the reaction of the wife of a crossdresser? Does the wife assume crossdressing means her husband is gay or bisexual? Can a wife be jealous of her feminized husband? Who gets to decide gender norms? Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress [https://www.experiencedmistress.com/]    olivia@enchantrixempire.com Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy  [https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/]   erika@enchantrixempire.com DISCORD [https://discord.com/]:  LDWOlivia and LDWErika

A sissy asks if it’s normal for crossdressing urges to disappear after an orgasm. Short answer yes, but there are nuances, reasons and ideas around feminization urges and the cycles of desire to dress. Is crossdressing more of a fetish or kink thing? Why does someone who identifies as male wear women’s lingerie? How important is submission to a Dominant Woman? Is dressing en femme always about sex? Is feminization drop similar to subdrop for a submissive? Does the type of orgasm matter? Will learning to have a sissygasm instead of a traditional stroking orgasm mean that the feminization urges remain? What role does guilt and shame play in crossdressing cycles? How does the woman in charge or Mistress extend your sissy urges? Role of chastity in sissy training Orgasm denial as part of submission via feminization. Do crossdressing urges go away as people age? While the question about feminization, crossdressing and sissy urges inspired this podcast episode, many of the points also apply to other kinks and fetish play.  DISCORD [https://discord.com/]:  LDWOlivia and LDWErika Mistress Olivia’s blog:  Experienced Mistress [https://www.experiencedmistress.com/] Mistress Erika’s blog:  Intelligent Phone Fantasy [https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/]

Do you like chastity? We have some new ideas for you. Not sure if you want to explore chastity with a Femdom Mistress? Listen and find out why we love chastity. A listener inspired this episode with the following questions: What do women really think of male chastity and being a Keyholder? Are some men meant to be in chastity? What are your favorite chastity devices? Mistress Erika points out that there are different kinds of cages for different kinds of play: A tube style chastity cage that allows for partial erection. Smaller cages can be used for different levels of control. Using the nub for sissy training. Chastity cage with spikes and/or urethral sound so getting an erection is immediately painful. Why would someone want to be in chastity? Submission to the woman that is your keyholder. Freedom from the constant focus on erections and/or jerking off. Refocusing attention on what’s important. Using chastity for sissy training: Silicone cages come in colors including sissy pink! Smaller cages can cause shrinking which reinforces sissy focus. Orgasm denial keeps feminization and submission to Mistress as the sissy life. 2 previous episodes mentioned in this podcast: Chastity Interview with William of Mature Metal [https://www.spreaker.com/episode/chastity-interview-with-mature-metal--46710125] And How do I get my vanilla wife to put me in chastity? Meet Mrs. Mature Metal [https://www.spreaker.com/episode/how-do-i-get-my-vanilla-wife-to-put-me-in-chastity-meet-mrs-mature-metal--56320110] JOIN the conversation! Our adult social networking site: Enchantrix Empire [https://enchantrixempire.joincommunity.net/home] DISCORD [https://discord.com/]: LDWOlivia and LDWErika Mistress Olivia’s blog:  Experienced Mistress [https://www.experiencedmistress.com/] Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy [https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/]