Words of Wisdom

WoW 143: On emotional sobriety, resilience, and generosity

Show notes Reflect on emotional sobriety, resilience, and pray a prayer of generosity. About Josh Kalsbeek, LMFT • As a Psychoherapist [https://www.joshkalsbeek.com/counseling] Josh helps people overcome their greatest struggles. • Sign up to receive Josh's weekly email newsletter, Words of Wisdom [https://www.wisecraft.org/join].  --- Support this podcast by buying a book through one of the links above. Support the podcast [https://product.wisecraft.org/products/support-my-work]

Another year in the books: 2024 reflections

Show notes In this brief year-end message, Josh reflects on accomplishing a lifelong dream of writing a book and shares his experiences from the past year. He takes a moment to express gratitude to his clients and followers, recounts key professional milestones, including launching a counseling center and recording wisdom-filled content, and encourages listeners to reflect on their own growth. As the year closes, Josh offers inspiring insights for the year ahead and teases exciting future projects, including updates on his book and new initiatives. 00:00 Reflecting on a Lifelong Dream 01:03 Navigating Challenges and Offering Support 02:05 Achievements and Milestones of 2024 03:14 Looking Ahead to 2025 03:54 Final Thoughts and Holiday Wishes About Josh Kalsbeek, LMFT • As a Psychoherapist [https://www.joshkalsbeek.com/counseling] Josh helps people overcome their greatest struggles. •Founder and CEO of The Flourishing Way, a team of professionals specializes in helping couples overcome selfish sexual behavior and betrayal.  • Sign up to receive Josh's weekly email newsletter, Words of Wisdom [https://www.wisecraft.org/join].

WoW 142: On directions and destinations

Show notes This episode, titled 'Words of Wisdom 142: On Directions and Destinations,' emphasizes the importance of having a clear purpose and strong perseverance. Josh explains that purpose dictates direction while perseverance determines destination. Josh urges listeners to avoid quick fixes, be patient, resilient, and strive for their highest purpose through sacrificial generosity. Inspirational quotes from Shane Parrish and Theodore Roosevelt are included to reinforce these points. The episode also provides reflective questions to help listeners evaluate their purpose, standards of excellence, and actions. You are called to embrace your challenges and pursue your highest calling with wisdom and perseverance. 00:00 Introduction: Words of Wisdom 142 00:05 Maxim: Purpose and Perseverance 01:01 Quotes to Inspire 02:18 Reflective Questions 02:46 Conclusion: Embrace Your Challenges About Josh Kalsbeek, LMFT • As a Psychoherapist [https://www.joshkalsbeek.com/counseling] Josh helps people overcome their greatest struggles. •Founder and CEO of Great Oaks Collective, and it's flagship program Overcome, a 10-Week virtual Intensive Outpatient Program for Christian couples experiencing sexual betrayal and addiction. www.greatoakscollective.com [http://www.greatoakscollective.com/].  • Sign up to receive Josh's weekly email newsletter, Words of Wisdom [https://www.wisecraft.org/join].  --- Links Shane Parrish,  Clear Thinking [https://amzn.to/4g3jS0D] Theodore Roosevelt, Full speech  here [https://www.theodorerooseveltcenter.org/Learn-About-TR/TR-Encyclopedia/Culture-and-Society/Man-in-the-Arena.aspx]. --- Support this podcast by buying a book through one of the links above. Support the podcast [https://product.wisecraft.org/products/support-my-work]

WoW 141: On guiding principles of discipleship

Show notes n this episode of Words of Wisdom, the focus is on guiding principles of discipleship, as presented by Josh. The key points discussed include the relational nature of discipleship, which requires intentional time, patience, and love. Six guiding principles are outlined: 1) Pursue presence by maintaining a close connection with God, 2) Joyfully surrender to God's will, 3) Intentionally reflect through deep thought and community learning, 4) Embodied worship by honoring God with our physical bodies and actions, 5) Courageously connect by fostering deep, trusting relationships, and 6) Generously serve others with selflessness and humility. Questions for reflection and journaling are also suggested to deepen one's spiritual journey and discipleship practice. 00:00 Introduction to Discipleship 00:21 Understanding Discipleship 00:43 Guiding Principles Overview 01:00 Principle 1: Pursue Presence 01:55 Principle 2: Joyfully Surrender 02:26 Principle 3: Intentionally Reflect 03:13 Principle 4: Embodied Worship 04:28 Principle 5: Courageously Connect 05:36 Principle 6: Generously Serve 06:15 Inspirational Quotes 06:58 Reflective Questions 07:37 Conclusion and Final Thoughts About Josh Kalsbeek, LMFT • As a Psychoherapist [https://www.joshkalsbeek.com/counseling] Josh helps people overcome their greatest struggles. •Founder and CEO of Great Oaks Collective, and it's flagship program Overcome, a 10-Week virtual Intensive Outpatient Program for Christian couples experiencing sexual betrayal and addiction. www.greatoakscollective.com [http://www.greatoakscollective.com/].  • Sign up to receive Josh's weekly email newsletter, Words of Wisdom [https://www.wisecraft.org/join].  --- Links Read the podcast at wisecraft.org [https://www.wisecraft.org/wisdom/wow-141-on-guiding-principles-of-discipleship-words-of-wisdom] Henri Nouwen, Finding My Way Home [https://preview.convertkit-mail2.com/click/dpheh0hzhm/aHR0cHM6Ly9hbXpuLnRvLzRkeVVWYmg=] Jon Tyson, A Creative Minority [https://preview.convertkit-mail2.com/click/dpheh0hzhm/aHR0cHM6Ly9hbXpuLnRvLzRkY1Y5b3M=] --- Support this podcast by buying a book through one of the links above. Support the podcast [https://product.wisecraft.org/products/support-my-work]

WoW 140: On false empowerment

Show notes Words of Wisdom 140: On False Empowerment In this episode, Josh explores the concept of false empowerment and its potential pitfalls. Reflecting on experiences of pain, trauma, and rejection, he discusses how the ego can drive change in destructive ways. Josh emphasizes the dangers of weaponizing boundaries and living from a place of resentment, explaining the importance of surrendering to God for true, healthy transformation. He includes teachings from Jesus in Matthew 7 and insights from Richard Rohr to underline the value of humility, letting go, and unlearning. The episode concludes with reflective questions to guide prayers and journaling on ways to avoid false empowerment and genuinely depend on God. 00:00 Introduction to False Empowerment 00:11 The Dangers of False Empowerment 00:29 The Ego's Role in False Empowerment 00:52 Weaponizing Boundaries and Seeking Justice 01:16 The Consequences of False Empowerment 01:21 Spiritual Teachings on Surrender 01:52 Practical Steps to True Empowerment 02:31 Biblical Wisdom on Judgment 03:30 Reflections and Questions 04:09 Conclusion and Final Thoughts About Josh Kalsbeek, LMFT • As a Psychoherapist [https://www.joshkalsbeek.com/counseling] Josh helps people overcome their greatest struggles. •Founder and CEO of Great Oaks Collective, and it's flagship program Overcome, a 10-Week virtual Intensive Outpatient Program for Christian couples experiencing sexual betrayal and addiction. www.greatoakscollective.com [http://www.greatoakscollective.com/].  • Sign up to receive Josh's weekly email newsletter, Words of Wisdom [https://www.wisecraft.org/join].  --- Links Richard Rohr,  Breathing Underwater: Spirituality and the Twelve Steps [https://amzn.to/3xNegq0] --- Support this podcast by buying a book through one of the links above. Support the podcast [https://product.wisecraft.org/products/support-my-work]