Anxious For Nothing with Bimpe - Time Management for Working Mums

020: There Is Never Going to Be a Perfect Time: Start Building Your Dreams Today | May 26, 2026

Hi Sis, we made it to the end of the month — and today we are done talking and we are moving. Because there is never going to be a perfect time. There is never going to be a moment when everything lines up, the kids are easy, the finances are sorted, and the conditions are just right. That moment does not come. I close out the month by sharing where I am on my own journey — building my travel business, maintaining the life requirements I set in January, and running 5K after a season of struggling to walk due to sciatica. I am on this journey with you. And today I want us to close the arc we opened at the start of May together. You will also find the link to my free guide in the show notes below — it pulls together the Vision to Reality framework and the key tools from this month into one place for you to keep. Your Action This Week Pick the one thing you have been meaning to do that will build you up. Put it into motion today. Not next week. Today. You have permission. Remember you are Anxious For nothing Love Bimpe Connect with me on LinkedIn lets continue the conversation  https://www.linkedin.com/in/bimpeajala/ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/bimpeajala/]   Rest is not a luxury its essential, lets build a community on Instagram  / bimpeanxiousfornothing  [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbWM3Nms5NkgwbVZHRkROTF9yWTdkQTZQYVg1d3xBQ3Jtc0trT3A5OFBFOEpHMjBiNl9XZ2pUcFVJOU9fYWpSQk1pMWkxTElVNGRrTWc0MG9qbURjaUNPd2dORFltUlY2NldJUHhFX2M5bTM1WGtBSmNwTXBXMWFJSE1mLTU1bk9QamdZZG5nOVJQM1lFcUhiSWpHNA&q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.instagram.com%2Fbimpeanxiousfornothing%2F&v=wdb1078L_EM]     Curious about starting a Travel business follow my Journey TikToK:   / bimpeanxiousfornothing  [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqblFxZm91c25IMHg5eXljY2c2dHZkcGdZWHZTd3xBQ3Jtc0tubEEtUVFEdzhYamZXMVNBbndQMDk2MWEyVzJZQm93ano0M2Z2R0w2N0sxNElOVUdNTlROeG5MaFFHVjdPMW1QYVJWbUVlbS1qbnlvR0w3RDlpYWQxZlo0a0xSZGwyb2RYU2puYkJrWWM2Y095YmRNTQ&q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.tiktok.com%2F%40bimpeanxiousfornothing%2F&v=wdb1078L_EM]     Want to create time for yourself and prioritise your dreams without the guilt? Download my Free guide:  https://anxiousfornothing.kit.com/time [https://anxiousfornothing.kit.com/time]   Listen to more episodes 019: You Can't Build From Empty: Why Self-Care Is Not Selfish | May 19, 2026 [https://bimpeanxiousfornothing.riverside.com/e/019-you-can-t-build-from-empty-why-self-care-is-not-selfish-may-19-2026] 018: How being betrayed at 14 led to The Framework That Built My Life | May 12, 2026 [http://framework-that-built-my-life-may-12-2026] 017: Why Sending Money Home Is Keeping You Broke (And What To Do About It) | May 5, 2026 [https://bimpeanxiousfornothing.riverside.com/e/017-why-sending-money-home-is-keeping-you-broke-and-what-to-do-about-it-may-5-2026] 001: Start Your New Year with Reflections & Requirements | Jan 12, 2026 [https://bimpeanxiousfornothing.riverside.com/e/start-your-new-year-with-reflections-requirements-jan-12-2026-001]

019: You Can't Build From Empty: Why Self-Care Is Not Selfish | May 19, 2026

Hello Sis, Last week, I gave you the 'Vision to Reality framework'. But sis, you cannot execute a vision when you are this tired. So before we go any further, let us talk about your energy. I share a memory that still sits with me: coming home at 6pm, up since 5am, the boys at the door before I had even turned the key. And the quiet reality that by the time I had done everything for everyone else, there was nothing left for me — and nothing left for my future either. The only way out of that flat, out of that ceiling, was to create time to build myself. And that meant being intentional about protecting my energy. This episode is your permission slip. Because self-care is not selfish. Selfish is when you have already built and you deliberately stop others from doing the same. Self-care is building yourself up, knowing full well that when you get there, you will hold the ladder for others to climb too. I also share some practical tools — all free — that have helped me protect my time and study in the cracks of a full life. Key Points * Why running on empty is not devotion — it is destruction * Luke 5:16 — even Jesus withdrew to rest and pray * The difference between selfishness and self-care (hear this clearly) * Practical tools to help you build in the time you already have Remember you are Anxious For nothing Love Bimpe Connect with me on LinkedIn lets continue the conversation  https://www.linkedin.com/in/bimpeajala/ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/bimpeajala/]   Rest is not a luxury its essential, lets build a community on Instagram  / bimpeanxiousfornothing  [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbWM3Nms5NkgwbVZHRkROTF9yWTdkQTZQYVg1d3xBQ3Jtc0trT3A5OFBFOEpHMjBiNl9XZ2pUcFVJOU9fYWpSQk1pMWkxTElVNGRrTWc0MG9qbURjaUNPd2dORFltUlY2NldJUHhFX2M5bTM1WGtBSmNwTXBXMWFJSE1mLTU1bk9QamdZZG5nOVJQM1lFcUhiSWpHNA&q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.instagram.com%2Fbimpeanxiousfornothing%2F&v=wdb1078L_EM]     Curious about starting a Travel business follow my Journey TikToK:   / bimpeanxiousfornothing  [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqblFxZm91c25IMHg5eXljY2c2dHZkcGdZWHZTd3xBQ3Jtc0tubEEtUVFEdzhYamZXMVNBbndQMDk2MWEyVzJZQm93ano0M2Z2R0w2N0sxNElOVUdNTlROeG5MaFFHVjdPMW1QYVJWbUVlbS1qbnlvR0w3RDlpYWQxZlo0a0xSZGwyb2RYU2puYkJrWWM2Y095YmRNTQ&q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.tiktok.com%2F%40bimpeanxiousfornothing%2F&v=wdb1078L_EM]     Want to create time for yourself and prioritise your dreams without the guilt? Download my Free guide:  https://anxiousfornothing.kit.com/time [https://anxiousfornothing.kit.com/time]   Listen to more episodes https://bimpeanxiousfornothing.riverside.com/e/018-how-being-betrayed-at-14-led-to-the-framework-that-built-my-life-may-12-2026 [https://bimpeanxiousfornothing.riverside.com/e/018-how-being-betrayed-at-14-led-to-the-framework-that-built-my-life-may-12-2026] https://bimpeanxiousfornothing.riverside.com/e/017-why-sending-money-home-is-keeping-you-broke-and-what-to-do-about-it-may-5-2026 [https://bimpeanxiousfornothing.riverside.com/e/017-why-sending-money-home-is-keeping-you-broke-and-what-to-do-about-it-may-5-2026]

018: How being betrayed at 14 led to The Framework That Built My Life | May 12, 2026

Hello Sis, This week I am taking you back to 1998 — South East London. I had been betrayed by someone I held close, I was struggling, and I will be honest with you — I was depressed. And this is Mental Health Week, so I want us to name that without shame. You can love God, go to church, pray every day, and still be depressed. Both things are true. And you can heal. It was in that lowest moment that I created a system — rooted in Habakkuk 2:2 and Job 22:28 — that I have used over and over again to build my career, my finances, and my life. I wrote down a vision. I gave it a date. And in 2005, despite being dyslexic and attending a school that did not expect university for girls like me, I graduated with a Psychology degree. Today I am giving you that exact framework. It is simple, it is faith-grounded, and it works. Key Points * Why mental health and faith are not in opposition — you can have both * The Vision to Reality Framework — five steps that work * Habakkuk 2:2 and Job 22:28 — what scripture says about writing your vision * How a dream with a date becomes a goal * Why investing in your own growth is always the best investment Resources Mentioned * Habakkuk 2:2 — Write the vision, make it plain * Job 22:28 — You will declare a thing and it shall be established * Greg Reid — A dream written down with a date becomes a goal   Remember you are Anxious For nothing Love Bimpe Connect with me on LinkedIn lets continue the conversation  https://www.linkedin.com/in/bimpeajala/ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/bimpeajala/]   Rest is not a luxury its essential, lets build a community on Instagram  / bimpeanxiousfornothing   [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbWM3Nms5NkgwbVZHRkROTF9yWTdkQTZQYVg1d3xBQ3Jtc0trT3A5OFBFOEpHMjBiNl9XZ2pUcFVJOU9fYWpSQk1pMWkxTElVNGRrTWc0MG9qbURjaUNPd2dORFltUlY2NldJUHhFX2M5bTM1WGtBSmNwTXBXMWFJSE1mLTU1bk9QamdZZG5nOVJQM1lFcUhiSWpHNA&q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.instagram.com%2Fbimpeanxiousfornothing%2F&v=wdb1078L_EM]     Curious about starting a Travel business follow my Journey TikToK:   / bimpeanxiousfornothing   [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqblFxZm91c25IMHg5eXljY2c2dHZkcGdZWHZTd3xBQ3Jtc0tubEEtUVFEdzhYamZXMVNBbndQMDk2MWEyVzJZQm93ano0M2Z2R0w2N0sxNElOVUdNTlROeG5MaFFHVjdPMW1QYVJWbUVlbS1qbnlvR0w3RDlpYWQxZlo0a0xSZGwyb2RYU2puYkJrWWM2Y095YmRNTQ&q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.tiktok.com%2F%40bimpeanxiousfornothing%2F&v=wdb1078L_EM]     Want to create time for yourself and prioritise your dreams without the guilt? Download my Free guide:  https://anxiousfornothing.kit.com/time [https://anxiousfornothing.kit.com/time]   Listen to more episodes https://bimpeanxiousfornothing.riverside.com/e/017-why-sending-money-home-is-keeping-you-broke-and-what-to-do-about-it-may-5-2026 [https://bimpeanxiousfornothing.riverside.com/e/017-why-sending-money-home-is-keeping-you-broke-and-what-to-do-about-it-may-5-2026]   https://bimpeanxiousfornothing.riverside.com/e/015-how-to-say-no-without-the-guilt-apr-21-2026-bc38e8c8 [https://bimpeanxiousfornothing.riverside.com/e/015-how-to-say-no-without-the-guilt-apr-21-2026-bc38e8c8]

017: Why Sending Money Home Is Keeping You Broke (And What To Do About It) | May 5, 2026

Hello Sis, This month we are building — and I am starting right where the pressure lives. If you are the one sending money home every month, covering school fees, emergencies, funerals, and someone else's rent while quietly wondering when it will ever be your turn — this episode is for you. I share my own story of watching my mother send money home her entire life, the houses she built that were taken over by relatives, and the hard questions I have had to sit with since she passed before reaching retirement age. Black tax is real, and the cultural obligation is not something I take lightly. But so is your future — and right now, too many of us are last in the queue for our own lives. You will come away with a clear perspective on the real cost of overgiving, and one honest action you can take this week to begin holding your line — with love, but firmly. Key Points * The real cost of black tax — beyond the monthly transfer * Why both sides of the remittance relationship are losing * The difference between cultural love and financial self-destruction * How to hold the line with family without burning the relationship * Why building yourself first is not selfish — it is stewardship Remember you are Anxious For nothing Love Bimpe Connect with me on LinkedIn lets continue the conversation  https://www.linkedin.com/in/bimpeajala/ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/bimpeajala/]   Rest is not a luxury its essential, lets build a community on Instagram  / bimpeanxiousfornothing   [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbWM3Nms5NkgwbVZHRkROTF9yWTdkQTZQYVg1d3xBQ3Jtc0trT3A5OFBFOEpHMjBiNl9XZ2pUcFVJOU9fYWpSQk1pMWkxTElVNGRrTWc0MG9qbURjaUNPd2dORFltUlY2NldJUHhFX2M5bTM1WGtBSmNwTXBXMWFJSE1mLTU1bk9QamdZZG5nOVJQM1lFcUhiSWpHNA&q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.instagram.com%2Fbimpeanxiousfornothing%2F&v=wdb1078L_EM]     Curious about starting a Travel business follow my Journey TikToK:   / bimpeanxiousfornothing   [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqblFxZm91c25IMHg5eXljY2c2dHZkcGdZWHZTd3xBQ3Jtc0tubEEtUVFEdzhYamZXMVNBbndQMDk2MWEyVzJZQm93ano0M2Z2R0w2N0sxNElOVUdNTlROeG5MaFFHVjdPMW1QYVJWbUVlbS1qbnlvR0w3RDlpYWQxZlo0a0xSZGwyb2RYU2puYkJrWWM2Y095YmRNTQ&q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.tiktok.com%2F%40bimpeanxiousfornothing%2F&v=wdb1078L_EM]     Want to create time for yourself and prioritise your dreams without the guilt? Download my Free guide:  https://anxiousfornothing.kit.com/time [https://anxiousfornothing.kit.com/time]   Listen to more episodes https://bimpeanxiousfornothing.riverside.com/e/015-how-to-say-no-without-the-guilt-apr-21-2026-bc38e8c8 [https://bimpeanxiousfornothing.riverside.com/e/015-how-to-say-no-without-the-guilt-apr-21-2026-bc38e8c8]

016: What Would Your Life Look Like With 3 Extra Hours a Week? | Apr 28, 2026

Are you tired of creating time for yourself, only to have to cancel on yourself? You know what you want life to look like — but have no real plan for how to get there? Are you ready to stop dreaming about your transformation and start building it? Hi Sis You got the time back. Now what? Througout this month we have been on the Reset journey together — acknowledging the burnout, building the system, learning to say no. And now we are here. Three hours reclaimed. And if you have ever found yourself wondering where those hours went before you could use them for yourself, this episode is for you. * Know exactly why your reclaimed time keeps getting swallowed — and what to do about it. * Have a clear, honest starting point for your transformation — grounded in where you actually are, not where you wish you were. * Understand how to use a gap analysis to close the * distance between your current reality and the life you are building. * Have one concrete action you can take this week — a simple audit that reveals the evidence you need to make better decisions. * Leave with a vision for May — because April was about resetting, and May is about building. Remember you are Anxious For nothing Love Bimpe   Connect with me on LinkedIn lets continue the conversation  https://www.linkedin.com/in/bimpeajala/ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/bimpeajala/] Rest is not a luxury its essential, lets build a community on Instagram  / bimpeanxiousfornothing   [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbWM3Nms5NkgwbVZHRkROTF9yWTdkQTZQYVg1d3xBQ3Jtc0trT3A5OFBFOEpHMjBiNl9XZ2pUcFVJOU9fYWpSQk1pMWkxTElVNGRrTWc0MG9qbURjaUNPd2dORFltUlY2NldJUHhFX2M5bTM1WGtBSmNwTXBXMWFJSE1mLTU1bk9QamdZZG5nOVJQM1lFcUhiSWpHNA&q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.instagram.com%2Fbimpeanxiousfornothing%2F&v=wdb1078L_EM]   Curious about starting a Travel business follow my Journey TikToK:   / bimpeanxiousfornothing   [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqblFxZm91c25IMHg5eXljY2c2dHZkcGdZWHZTd3xBQ3Jtc0tubEEtUVFEdzhYamZXMVNBbndQMDk2MWEyVzJZQm93ano0M2Z2R0w2N0sxNElOVUdNTlROeG5MaFFHVjdPMW1QYVJWbUVlbS1qbnlvR0w3RDlpYWQxZlo0a0xSZGwyb2RYU2puYkJrWWM2Y095YmRNTQ&q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.tiktok.com%2F%40bimpeanxiousfornothing%2F&v=wdb1078L_EM]   Want to create time for yourself and prioritise your dreams without the guilt? Download my Free guide:  https://anxiousfornothing.kit.com/time [https://anxiousfornothing.kit.com/time] Want to listen to more episodes? https://bimpeanxiousfornothing.riverside.com/e/015-how-to-say-no-without-the-guilt-apr-21-2026-bc38e8c8 [https://bimpeanxiousfornothing.riverside.com/e/015-how-to-say-no-without-the-guilt-apr-21-2026-bc38e8c8] https://bimpeanxiousfornothing.riverside.com/e/013-why-you-re-tired-all-the-time-and-it-s-not-what-you-think-apr-07-2026 [https://bimpeanxiousfornothing.riverside.com/e/013-why-you-re-tired-all-the-time-and-it-s-not-what-you-think-apr-07-2026]