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Shut Up & Love Your Neighbor

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Shut Up & Love Your Neighbor is a podcast about choosing connection in a noisy world. We talk about real life, laugh more than we planned, sip a little brown water, and try to love our neighbors by listening first.

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aflevering It Feels So Good to Say Yes | Jason's Story artwork

It Feels So Good to Say Yes | Jason's Story

Some friendships start with a big moment. Most of them don't. Jason and Dave met in a local Facebook group, kept a loose digital eye on each other for a while, and then Jason did something most people don't do — he offered to help. He's been behind the camera and the edits on the podcast ever since. On this episode, Dave finally turns the lens around on Jason — the guy who designs command centers for a living, travels to places most of us couldn't find on a map, and quietly lives this whole message in everyday acts. In this episode: • Designing command centers for the Caribbean Commissioners of Police • Why "they get paid to do it" misses the point • Afternoon tea at Quattro Goomba (yes, really) • The Facebook group that turned into a friendship • Stacking your own plates and what it actually signals • Why politics and religion don't matter to this message • Need is what's in the middle • Jason's two-word answer: say yes Chapters: 00:00 Intro & a Midwinter Night's Dram pour 01:00 The white box and the red mug 02:00 Jason's week in Suriname 03:00 What he actually does for a living 06:00 Afternoon tea at Quattro Goomba 12:00 How Jason and Dave actually met 13:00 Stack your own plates 15:00 "But that's what they get paid to do" 18:00 Why Jason jumped in on the podcast 24:00 Leading and building community 27:00 What the SULYN movement adds 33:00 Politics, religion, and what's actually in the middle 36:00 It feels so good to say yes 37:00 What Shut Up and Love Your Neighbor means to Jason Read the full blog post: https://shutupandloveyourneighbor.com/blogs/blog/jasons-story-the-guy-who-showed-up Wear the reminder: shutupandloveyourneighbor.com Feedback, comments, complaints: thedave@shutupandloveyourneighbor.com [thedave@shutupandloveyourneighbor.com] Follow along: Instagram: @its_the_dave Facebook: facebook.com/david.dority YouTube: @shutupandloveyourneighbor Shut Up & Love Your Neighbor is a podcast about the small, steady ways people choose to show up for each other. Started by accident. Done on purpose. Shut Up & Love Your Neighbor is a weekly conversation about listening better, slowing down, and loving the people right in front of us. In a world that rewards volume and certainty, this podcast explores presence over performance, curiosity over commentary, and connection over division. Each episode features honest reflections on real-life moments — the things seen, heard, and experienced in everyday life — followed by unscripted conversations with rotating guest hosts who come ready with real questions. Sometimes we laugh. Sometimes we sit in tension. Occasionally there’s a little brown water involved. But always, the goal is the same: to practice being more human with one another. This isn’t a show about having all the answers. It’s about asking better questions. It’s about listening longer than feels comfortable. It’s about choosing kindness in small moments that often go unnoticed. If you’re looking for perfection, this isn’t it. If you’re looking for thoughtful conversation about relationships, empathy, faith, leadership, and community — welcome. Shut up a little more than usual. Love your neighbor — the one right in front of you.

Gisteren - 39 min
aflevering It Wasn't About the Breakfast | Nicole's Story artwork

It Wasn't About the Breakfast | Nicole's Story

Some people throw open their door because someone is at it. Nicole has been throwing hers open for 19 years — whether anyone is at it or not. On this episode of Shut Up & Love Your Neighbor, Dave sits down with our friend Nicole — an OG of this lifestyle long before there was a name on a t-shirt. They get into hospitality, proximity, and the unglamorous work of being available to people. She also tells the story of a breakfast in a small-town Louisiana hotel that wasn't really about breakfast at all. In this episode: • A Paris hotel room, a 12:47 AM scare, and the travel safety gear Dave now packs • Why "How many people fit at the table?" is a better question than "Is this our dream home?" • Moving next door to your friends on purpose • What to do when neighbors have never seen community modeled • The hotel server, the postcard, and what it means to look up and out • Why empathy is something you have to earn — for other people and for yourself • Nicole's two-word answer for what Shut Up & Love Your Neighbor means Chapters: 00:00 Intro 01:00 Welcome Nicole — OG of the lifestyle 02:00 Paris update: the 12:47 AM hotel scare 07:00 Travel safety tools Dave now packs 09:00 Nicole's Airbnb story 11:00 19 years of hospitality — where it started 13:00 Walking into a home asking the right question 16:00 Moving next door on purpose 19:00 When neighbors have never seen community modeled 24:00 The breakfast in Louisiana 31:00 The postcard 34:00 Empathy you have to earn 37:00 What Shut Up & Love Your Neighbor means to Nicole Read the full blog post: https://shutupandloveyourneighbor.com/blogs/blog/nicoles-story-showing-up-when-its-inconvenient Wear the reminder: shutupandloveyourneighbor.com Feedback, comments, complaints: thedave@shutupandloveyourneighbor.com [thedave@shutupandloveyourneighbor.com] Follow along: Instagram: @its_the_dave Facebook: facebook.com/david.dority YouTube: @shutupandloveyourneighbor Shut Up & Love Your Neighbor is a podcast about the small, steady ways people choose to show up for each other. Started by accident. Done on purpose. Shut Up & Love Your Neighbor is a weekly conversation about listening better, slowing down, and loving the people right in front of us. In a world that rewards volume and certainty, this podcast explores presence over performance, curiosity over commentary, and connection over division. Each episode features honest reflections on real-life moments — the things seen, heard, and experienced in everyday life — followed by unscripted conversations with rotating guest hosts who come ready with real questions. Sometimes we laugh. Sometimes we sit in tension. Occasionally there’s a little brown water involved. But always, the goal is the same: to practice being more human with one another. This isn’t a show about having all the answers. It’s about asking better questions. It’s about listening longer than feels comfortable. It’s about choosing kindness in small moments that often go unnoticed. If you’re looking for perfection, this isn’t it. If you’re looking for thoughtful conversation about relationships, empathy, faith, leadership, and community — welcome. Shut up a little more than usual. Love your neighbor — the one right in front of you.

12 mei 2026 - 39 min
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In a land far far away...

Pastor Ashley's road to ministry didn't run in a straight line. It ran through a music conservatory, a vocal performance program, a switch to musical theater, two-plus years auditioning in New York City, and a season of getting genuinely lost — before the call she had been hearing since childhood finally caught up with her. In Episode 6, Dave and Pastor Ashley sit down for one of the most layered conversations the show has had. They cover what it was like to grow up as the child of divorce in a strict church tradition, what happened when a teenage Ashley decided to test whether she'd actually catch on fire for breaking the rules, and the people who refused to give up on her in her lostness. They also talk about the trip to Memphis that quietly reshaped how she understands neighbor love — including the woman who saved her paychecks for years and bought a house in an underserved neighborhood just to open her doors once a week, and the doctor who moved his family of eight into the same neighborhood to run a free clinic out of his living room. Plus: the Northern Virginia restaurant that nailed birthday hospitality with a 30-second card, why "shut up and love your neighbor" is really just "stop and pay attention," and a hopeful read on what unifies people on the other side of all our division. This is Pastor Ashley's story — and it's a good one. — — — CHAPTERS (00:00) Intro and Pastor Ashley's gift (02:00) The Oak & Ember birthday card story (06:30) Why being seen and known matters (07:30) Pastor Ashley — 13 years in ministry (09:30) Growing up in the church and getting lost (13:00) "I thought we'd catch on fire" (17:00) From musical theater dreams to seminary (21:00) The pivot back to a calling (23:30) What Memphis taught her about loving your neighbor (26:00) Hope on the other side of division (30:00) Comedians worth listening to (33:00) Why "Shut Up and Love Your Neighbor" works (35:00) Be kind — everyone is fighting a hard battle (37:00) Closing thoughts — — — LINKS 🌐  https://shutupandloveyourneighbor.com 📷  Instagram: @its_the_dave ✉️  the.dave@shutupandloveyourneighbor.com If something here lands, do the simplest possible thing: text someone, wave at a neighbor, or just stop and notice the person in front of you. #shutupandloveyourneighbor Shut Up & Love Your Neighbor is a weekly conversation about listening better, slowing down, and loving the people right in front of us. In a world that rewards volume and certainty, this podcast explores presence over performance, curiosity over commentary, and connection over division. Each episode features honest reflections on real-life moments — the things seen, heard, and experienced in everyday life — followed by unscripted conversations with rotating guest hosts who come ready with real questions. Sometimes we laugh. Sometimes we sit in tension. Occasionally there’s a little brown water involved. But always, the goal is the same: to practice being more human with one another. This isn’t a show about having all the answers. It’s about asking better questions. It’s about listening longer than feels comfortable. It’s about choosing kindness in small moments that often go unnoticed. If you’re looking for perfection, this isn’t it. If you’re looking for thoughtful conversation about relationships, empathy, faith, leadership, and community — welcome. Shut up a little more than usual. Love your neighbor — the one right in front of you.

28 apr 2026 - 38 min
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The Power of Showing Up: Megan’s Story

Some people impact your life in big, obvious ways. Others do it quietly, consistently, and without ever asking for recognition. Megan is one of those people. In this episode, we sit down with someone we don’t know all that well—but who has already made a meaningful impact on our lives. What unfolds is a powerful conversation about family, loss, resilience, and what it really means to show up for others. Megan shares the story of her family’s journey through unimaginable challenges: losing her brother in a tragic accident, walking through her sister’s battle with cancer, and navigating another sister’s sudden stroke. These are the kinds of moments that change you forever. But this isn’t just a story about hardship. It’s about what happens after. It’s about the people who step in when life falls apart. The neighbors, friends, and community who don’t back away—but lean in. It’s about how those experiences shape the way you live, the way you give, and the way you love. Today, Megan pours that same energy into her family, her work, and the countless people she encourages every single day. She reminds us that impact doesn’t always come from grand gestures—it often comes from consistency, presence, and simply being willing to show up. If you’ve ever wondered what real strength looks like, this conversation will show you. Shut Up & Love Your Neighbor is a weekly conversation about listening better, slowing down, and loving the people right in front of us. In a world that rewards volume and certainty, this podcast explores presence over performance, curiosity over commentary, and connection over division. Each episode features honest reflections on real-life moments — the things seen, heard, and experienced in everyday life — followed by unscripted conversations with rotating guest hosts who come ready with real questions. Sometimes we laugh. Sometimes we sit in tension. Occasionally there’s a little brown water involved. But always, the goal is the same: to practice being more human with one another. This isn’t a show about having all the answers. It’s about asking better questions. It’s about listening longer than feels comfortable. It’s about choosing kindness in small moments that often go unnoticed. If you’re looking for perfection, this isn’t it. If you’re looking for thoughtful conversation about relationships, empathy, faith, leadership, and community — welcome. Shut up a little more than usual. Love your neighbor — the one right in front of you.

24 mrt 2026 - 49 min
aflevering Paris, Broken Cars, and Loving Your Neighbor artwork

Paris, Broken Cars, and Loving Your Neighbor

What do a broken Volkswagen in Paris, a delayed flight, and learning someone’s name have in common? More than you might think. In this episode of Shut Up & Love Your Neighbor, Dave sits down with his friend Jon Ackerman to talk about the small moments that help people feel seen in a world that often moves too fast. What starts with travel chaos and a story about push-starting a 1971 Volkswagen Beetle in Paris eventually turns into a deeper conversation about intentional kindness, authenticity, and the power of simply noticing people. They explore why learning someone’s name matters, why most people just want to feel acknowledged, and how small acts of attention can create meaningful connection. Because sometimes loving your neighbor doesn’t start with something big. Sometimes it starts with something simple. A conversation. A thank you. Or remembering someone’s name. Shut Up & Love Your Neighbor is a weekly conversation about listening better, slowing down, and loving the people right in front of us. In a world that rewards volume and certainty, this podcast explores presence over performance, curiosity over commentary, and connection over division. Each episode features honest reflections on real-life moments — the things seen, heard, and experienced in everyday life — followed by unscripted conversations with rotating guest hosts who come ready with real questions. Sometimes we laugh. Sometimes we sit in tension. Occasionally there’s a little brown water involved. But always, the goal is the same: to practice being more human with one another. This isn’t a show about having all the answers. It’s about asking better questions. It’s about listening longer than feels comfortable. It’s about choosing kindness in small moments that often go unnoticed. If you’re looking for perfection, this isn’t it. If you’re looking for thoughtful conversation about relationships, empathy, faith, leadership, and community — welcome. Shut up a little more than usual. Love your neighbor — the one right in front of you.

10 mrt 2026 - 37 min
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